First, the cultural attribute is weak.
The key words of weak cultural attributes are: dependence.
The survival philosophy of people with weak cultural attributes: eager to rely on the strong and not follow the rules.
People with weak cultural attributes have no truth but likes and dislikes, and greed and ignorance are their normal state.
Greed: if you love wealth, you must get it, otherwise you will be unwilling and unwilling.
Chen: I hate adversity. I lose my temper when I'm unhappy. I'm irrational and impulsive.
Insanity: don't understand reason, right and wrong, good and evil, reverse right and wrong, and do evil.
People with weak cultural attributes are often one or more of fatalism, quick decision and robber theory patients.
1, fatalism
The key words of fatalism patients are: strengthening the external and weakening the subjective.
Fatalism patients have three main characteristics: superstition, blind obedience and serious thinking of the victims.
(1) superstition
Bottom line: Fate depends on some unknown external energy.
Traditional fatalism patients are superstitious about gods and geomantic omen, while modern fatalism patients are superstitious about cosmic energy and digital energy.
When faced with great uncertainty, superstitious people often try to gain a certainty by some means, such as worshiping Poseidon before going out to sea, seeking Buddha when they have not recovered from a long illness, burning incense for children before the college entrance examination, and changing a certain number of mobile phone numbers, with the intention of changing the fate track. ...
The so-called superstition is trying to find a certainty in irregular things, a group imagination in meaningless places, and get spiritual comfort.
(2) follow blindly
Bottom line: follow the trend, follow the crowd, follow the crowd, follow the crowd, and be unconscious collectively.
There is an experiment: put a wooden stick horizontally in front of the sheep, the first sheep jumps over, and the second and third sheep jump after it. At this time, even if the stick is removed, the sheep behind will still jump up like the sheep in front, although the stick is gone.
There are too many examples of being influenced by the "invisible stick" in life, such as conformity (cram schools have become a common practice) and so on. ), conformity (online shopping malls prefer goods with high sales, etc. ), follow the crowd in marriage (people of the same age are eager to get married and have children, etc. )
This is the so-called herd effect, also known as herd mentality. Due to the lack of information or critical thinking ability, people in groups often extract information by observing the behavior of people around them. In this kind of information transmission and continuous dissemination, many people's information will generally converge and strengthen each other, thus resulting in irrational herd behavior.
Once people have the psychology of following the trend and blindly following, they will form inertial thinking and gradually lose their ability to think and distinguish. Finally, their thoughts and behaviors will follow the mainstream thinking. Even if you know the answer is wrong, you would rather think you are wrong than question the group in order not to be isolated and to be consistent with the group.
(3) the victim's thinking (also known as the thinking of the dissatisfied wife)
Bottom line: All bad results are attributed to objective factors that cannot be changed.
Do you often see such people in your life and work: people from poor backgrounds complain about unfair fate; Can't afford a house, they blame their parents; They blamed their leader for not being promoted. ...
They blame others, but not themselves. They blame and complain about others, but rationalize themselves. They demand others by the standards of saints, but demand themselves by the standards of bitches.
The victim's thinking is a state of mind. Patients often feel that they have been treated unfairly, regard themselves as victims, and then project the whole world as "perpetrators". Try to rationalize yourself by blaming and complaining about others, and gain short-term sympathy and concern from others. This is essentially an act of overdrawing one's life by ignoring one's subjective initiative.
2. Theory of quick victory
The key words of patients with quick victory theory are: weakening the external and strengthening the subjective.
Patients with quick success and instant benefit mainly have three characteristics: short-sightedness, idealization and strong utilitarianism.
(1) shortsightedness
Bottom line: See trees, not forests.
Two wolves came to the grassland, and one wolf was very lost, because he could not see the meat, which was vision; The other wolf was very excited because he knew that there would be sheep if there was grass. This is the field of vision.
Everyone has eyes, but not everyone has eyes. A leaf can know autumn, and a leaf can also cover your eyes.
On the theory of quick success and instant benefit, patients can only see the present, thinking that they know everything and care too much about the gains and losses of one city and one pool.
(2) Idealization
Bottom line: ignore the negative existence of objective things and blindly expect high.
I don't know if you have found out that everything in the world contains a philosophy of symmetry and balance, just like black and white, bright and dark, turbid and clear, which are actually a complete existence of positive and negative. Of course, success and failure are also the complete existence of positive and negative integration in doing anything.
For example, choking and learning to swim are the complete existence of learning to swim, wrestling and learning to ride a bike are the complete existence of learning to ride a bike, and cuteness and naughty are the complete existence of children.
Patients who are eager for quick success and instant benefit often like idealization. As we all know, nine times out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory.
(3) A strong utilitarian mind
Bottom line: Like a balloon, it rises quickly and releases quickly.
If you have speculated in stocks, you will know that whenever the stock market improves slightly, the market will start to be manic. At the same time, the stock market that different people can see is often very different: one dimension: rising. Two dimensions: up and down. Multidimensional: rise and fall, history and future. The patient who is eager for quick success and instant benefit is the kind of person who only sees one dimension and is eager for quick success and instant benefit.
I don't know if you have noticed that there is a kind of books that are particularly sought after and welcomed in the market, such as How to earn 10000000 quickly, How to stovepipe your legs quickly and How to catch XXX quickly ... The reason why this kind of "martial arts cheats" is so popular is to meet the inner needs of those who are eager for quick success.
What people who are eager for quick success and instant benefit don't know is that they pay 80% in advance for everything, but the output is often only 20%; Only 20% is needed in the later stage, but 80% can be produced.
3. Robber theory
Bottom line: illegally breaking established social rules in an attempt to make an exception.
Fatalism patients pin their hopes on some external forces, which greatly weakens their subjective role. On the contrary, patients who are eager for quick success and instant benefit blindly amplify their subjective role and ignore the existence of external things.
Of course, fatalism patients and quick success patients are just unreasonable, while robbers are not in compliance.
The robber said that patients pursue robber culture such as fraud, theft, robbery and illegal financing. If you can't compete with your competitors, you will take illegal measures to gain personal interests.
Robber culture essentially belongs to the variation culture of weak culture, and it is against the road and law to try to obtain it by illegal means such as violence, lies, loopholes and routines.
Excuse me, a person who dare not compete fairly with his opponent under the same rules of the game, is he not a weak person who is strong outside but weak inside, or what?
Second, a strong culture.
The key word of strong cultural attribute is: independence.
People with strong culture believe that there is only one rule in this world: the weak eat the strong (that is, the weak eat the strong, the fittest survive).
In the concept of strong culture, you are a sheep, so you will be eaten by wolves wherever you go. It is a law for wolves to eat sheep, and it is only natural! No emotion, no reason, not even right or wrong. Wolves want to eat sheep. Is it useful for sheep to reason with wolves, talk about feelings, and talk about right and wrong?
People with strong culture never want to find someone to accompany them when they are lonely. In their eyes, loneliness is the norm in life. Wolves are lonely, but sheep live in groups. Whether to be wolves or sheep, they are too lazy to explain.
Look at the world with a domineering face, and what color your heart is, what kind of road you will take. Live and be a man among men; Die and become the soul in the soul.
The survival philosophy pursued by people with strong culture is: forbearance is a line, energy is a line, forbearance is unbearable, and capable people cannot tolerate it, and there is their living space between them.
Bottom line: People who act according to objective laws are strong culturalists.
Please pay attention! The next part continues to share how to cultivate and build a strong culture!