My ex-boyfriend is an old bachelor, listen to me. When we met, I was under thirty and he was under forty, both of marriageable age. Why it didn't work out is too complicated and cannot be explained clearly in a few sentences. After fifty, he will be an old bachelor. I know how hateful old bachelors are. One person has enough to eat but the whole family is not hungry. He is idle and has no sense of self-motivation and responsibility. I didn't ask too much, I just wanted him to work honestly and support himself, and it didn't matter whether I gave him or not. If he doesn't, he relies on me to support him. I have endured this, but he is still not satisfied. He thinks that since I can't get married, I should provide for him. He wanted to sell that thing for money, but I couldn’t afford it and didn’t want to buy it. There is also a lack of hygiene, slovenliness, uncivilized speech and behavior, and no self-esteem or self-love. I tried to persuade him nicely, but he put on a front and I was like this, think whatever you like, who am I afraid of? There are also many bad habits, such as smoking, drinking and playing games. Everyone knows that once you become addicted to the Internet, your whole person changes. I said why don't you take a rest for a while? There are so many books at home, otherwise just chat with me. He said you are causing trouble. I haven't played this game yet. I also like to watch videos about family disputes, imagining him and me as characters in them, but in fact they are completely unrelated. When he couldn't get a wife, he thought women were bad. Over time, he had hallucinations and finally beat someone.
I have met the old bachelor, an old man in our village. We are usually afraid of him, but we don’t know why he is a bachelor.
That old man is called Chui Er in our village. It's a joke or a nickname. I don't even know what his name is now. I remember that he always wore a hat, a red vest, a pair of rubber shoes, and always had a hoe or rope in his hand.
Every time I see him, he is walking alone on the road or working in the fields. When we were young, our family told us to stay away from him. Then when we were young, we ran away when we saw him, even me. When my cousin heard that he came to my house, he would hide under the bed and cry secretly. This old man was really demonized by the people in the village, and he was a special tool for scaring children.
Maybe he is not that bad, but I don’t know. I left my hometown with my parents and went back to my hometown for the holidays. I also met him on the road. Although he didn’t run far away, he still walked faster. Speed ??and without saying a word. I went home with my cousin again. It was almost dark. The old man was herding cattle. The cattle were in the middle of the road. He was sitting on the slope watching. My cousin and I were frightened by the cattle. He was laughing on top. We stood there without saying anything. That time our legs were so frightened that we ran over, risking being gored by the cow, and then ran home quickly.
The last time I saw him was on the road. Although he still looked the same, his hat changed into a thick cotton hat and his body became rickety. He told the people next to him to go to the hospital and get some medicine. When I heard this, I thought about this old man, who was once our children’s nightmare, and now he has grown old. I heard that his nephew built two cement houses for him and took him out of the old wooden house, and would provide him with old age care in the future.
I don’t know what kind of person he really is. Maybe he is single because his family is poor, maybe his beloved girl is married, or it may be other reasons, but some of his behaviors are really harmful to children. It's a nightmare existence. But now that I have grown up, I also hope that this old man will be happy in his later years.
I have a fellow countryman who is still a bachelor in his fifties.
He is naturally stupid, has an eccentric personality, and has difficulty communicating with others. He always feels that he is underappreciated. All his ideas and practices are almost opposite to those of the world. Many things are always self-defeating and ridiculous, so colleagues control His name is Alien.
When he was young, his parents got married through someone else. But the woman left three months after the marriage, and he never remarried since then. I heard that the reason why the woman ran away was because he was born with a genital that was too big for the woman to bear. She always cried loudly every time she did the work. I heard from his family that he was born with psychological and physical problems.
Many years later, I asked him why that woman left you, and he told me that he thought my family was poor and I couldn’t look down on her...
I’ve been used to being lonely ever since. He developed a strong affection for cats and dogs. Even if he saw stray cats and dogs while walking on the street, he would catch up and pet them. He doesn't gamble or whore, he just likes to drink some wine. He also had an impulse and secret love for the women around him. Once he went to eat at Yixiang Guangxi Restaurant and saw that the little girl in the restaurant was pretty, so every time he Everyone went there to eat. Afterwards, he said to me that you should help me see the staff. In fact, judging from his accent, he had never said a word to anyone. His behavior was really ridiculous and difficult to deal with.
I was born in a rural area, and the old bachelors I have seen are basically the kind of men who are not very smart and have bad ideas. In our time, most families were poor, so there was basically no one who couldn't marry a wife because of poverty. At worst, he could marry a stupid woman, as long as he could carry on the family line.
My grandma’s family is from the Luliang Mountains in Shanxi. I often lived in a small mountain village when I was a child. I have a good understanding of the customs and customs there, and I have a lot of affection for them. There was a man named Er'ai in the village who had an eye problem and could not see in one eye. When Er'ai was a child, the Japanese implemented the Three Lights policy. Er'ai hid in the back mountains with his adults. He contracted an eye disease and was left behind if he could not be treated in time. permanently disabled. The second child is not stupid at all, but he is very honest and not good at dealing with others. He knows how to work in one day and is like an old scalper. He will definitely not be able to find a partner on his own. His mother didn't find a matchmaker, saying that she couldn't support a woman even after getting married, so she would just live with her parents for the rest of her life. The second child also made a fuss, hoping that his mother would help him find a matchmaker. After being scolded several times by my parents, I stopped mentioning it. In the 1980s, his parents died one after another, and the second child barely made a living by farming, but the work was very slow. Fortunately, with the help of neighbors, he was able to have enough food and clothing. He became paralyzed within a few years, and his brother took him into his home and took care of him for two years before he died. I often lament that such an honest and good person would experience happiness once he comes to this world. No one has ever paid attention to his inner feelings, and he has never communicated his feelings with others. He is really just an old scalper. I couldn't write any more, tears burst into my eyes... He is my poor second uncle!
In today's era, there are many male bachelors, and female bachelors are also rising stars. But as a rural person, I have never seen female bachelors. It is said that they are a special group of people in big cities and are indeed rare in rural areas, but I have seen male bachelors.
In rural areas, there are people who want idiot women, as long as they are not so crazy that they cannot take care of themselves.
The bachelor I define is the kind of person who never has a spouse in his life, or who has a spouse but only for a very short time and leaves nothing behind.
I am born in the early 1970s. In those early years, there were indeed very few people who would never live without a spouse! Regardless of men and women, the vast majority are married and have children. Therefore, once a person has no spouse for his whole life, it is indeed very unusual. They are not monks, nor are they hermit masters. They are indeed the ones left by their strength. To be honest, there is a saying in our hometown that if a man reaches a certain age and does not grow a beard, he must be a very unlucky person. According to my experience, this phenomenon does exist. No beard = no luck, a few sparse hairs don’t count.
① There is an old man in my village who was born in the late 1920s and died in the 1990s. He lived for more than 70 years and was a bachelor all his life. This is unique in the village. He is a local, has an older brother, and his family background is not bad. His brother has been the captain (collective) for decades. Most of the people in our village are immigrants who fled in the past, with more than thirty surnames. There were only a few local households, and his family was one, which was an advantage in those days. This guy isn’t ugly either, he just has a bit of a dick and a bit of a dick! In Northeastern dialect, it means tiger and Biao! In Sichuan terms, it is a treasure! In words that everyone can understand, it is a two hundred and fifty. In that era, it was easy to find a partner. You could find a wife with a bowl of rice and a few eggs (mainly because of your affection). But he was forced to become an old bachelor! In the late 1940s, he reached marriageable age. A pair of fleeing mother and daughter came to our village, and his family took them in with the intention of finding a wife for this guy.
Everything fell into place and they got married (they could sleep together). This guy took advantage of the woman's sleep and his childlike innocence actually set the woman's clothes on fire! Awakened by the burn, the mother and daughter also left... Maybe he thought it was fun, while others were afraid of losing their lives!
Later in the 1950s, he was in his thirties. Because he is heartless, he doesn't grow a beard, and he doesn't look old, so he looks like a young man. We were introduced to a blind date by a family far away from my village (it wouldn't work if it was too close, his story is enough to scare all women). She is a young girl, and when the two families were warming up in the fire pit and chatting, this girl exposed her "young age". My hometown is an old revolutionary area. In 1933, the Fourth Front Army of the Red Army and the Sichuan Army often fought and many bullet casings were left behind (children like to play with them). While chatting, the woman’s age reported by his family was in her twenties (she was already an older youth at the time), and he actually chatted loudly and loudly: In three or three years, I picked up a lot of eggs ( bullet casing), haven’t you seen it? (The experience is so rich) The speaker is unintentional, but the listener is intentional. The girl's parents thought: This guy has been picking up child shells all over the world in three or three years? How old is this? Plus, he looks like he's still around? Then, the woman found some excuses and became pornographic. From then on, the saying "You can pick out the shells in three to three years" has become a joke among people after dinner! There will be no chance after that. I worked as a craftsman at his brother's house in the early years, and I saw the violent scene of the two brothers chatting together. That's called an axis. I have to admit it. In that era, it was really not easy to be a bachelor without a certain amount of strength!
②, the person below is a product of the new era. A native of Bijie, Guizhou. I have told his story in detail before, so I will just give it a general outline. His father was a landowner in the old days, and there were six brothers in his generation. He graduated from a junior college in the 1980s, and was able to graduate from a junior college in the 1980s. He was a rarity in rural areas. He taught, was fired, took a wife, and ran away after a few months. Then I went out to work and earned the minimum wage. I can't do anything, and I can't eat anything. There is more than enough theory but not enough practice. If you raise the bar, it can kill a donkey. He talks and behaves very considerately towards women and is a gentleman, but no woman wants him. Even though he knows he is a liar, he is still willing to be a "selfless dedication" person. Now that I am in my fifties, that may be it. No father, no mother, no wife, no children, no property, only one person is left. There is hope for those women who hope that both of their husband's parents will die, but they must seize the opportunity...
Well, that's it for today's story. Here are the twelve zodiac signs for you, and the female compatriots who are in them can take them away...
With the development of the economy, real old bachelors are now rare. In the rural areas of the past, there were real old bachelors. At that time, due to backwardness and ignorance, most of the old bachelors were dim-witted or somewhat dull-looking people. Some of their behaviors were often laughable and laughable.
This is a true story of an old bachelor
Faced with the temptation of a beautiful female thief, the actions of the old militiaman made the female thief despair
In the seventh century of the last century In the 1900s, every village had a militia, composed of male and female members aged 18 to 40. At that time, it was still a large collective. During the wheat season or autumn, when the crops were about to mature, in order to prevent someone from stealing the crops that were about to mature, they would The old militiamen from the production team (mostly old bachelors, who are alone and have no burdens) will be organized to patrol the fields far away from the village at night, called "watching the youth."
In order to prevent wild beasts and to embolden people in the dead of night, usually one person is equipped with a flashlight and a two-meter-long wooden stick, and one person works in groups to mark an area, each patrolling in his own way, because the distance is not very close. Even though we are far away, we can take care of each other when something happens.
There was an old bachelor in a certain village who was in his forties. He had never married a wife because of his stupidity and poverty. One day, Lao Guangsong discovered that a lot of cotton had been stolen from the cotton field he was responsible for guarding the night before. Since the night before fell on the 15th day of the lunar calendar, the moon and stars were sparse, and people watching the sex could be spotted from a distance. Therefore, the thieves Taking advantage of the loophole, he stole a lot of cotton, so the old bachelor decided to catch the thief at night. The next night, the old bachelor had an early dinner and lurked in the cotton field just after dark, waiting for the rabbit.
Sure enough, around half past ten, a man walked towards the cotton field. When he reached the end of the field, he tied one end of the cloth bundle in his hand around his neck and the other end around his waist to form a big bag. Under the moonlight, he began to pick cotton. In the pocket, under the bright moonlight, I could see that it was a woman in her thirties. When he was very close to himself, the old bachelor suddenly stood up from the field, shined a flashlight on the thief, pointed a wooden stick at the woman stealing cotton and shouted: "Don't move, I finally caught you, go, take the cotton." "Come with me to the brigade headquarters." The woman who stole the cotton was startled and thought to herself, "Oh no, this time I'm so embarrassed. I knew I couldn't run away, so I stood on the ground blankly." At that time, the class struggle was very tight. If you were sent to the brigade headquarters, you would be criticized in a struggle meeting for sabotaging production, which would bring shame to the whole family, and the whole family would not be able to hold their heads high in front of the villagers.
When the woman who stole the cotton saw that the old bachelor was the only one, she frowned and thought about it, and said: "Brother, I don't dare to do it anymore. There is no one else now, you and I." Get some sleep and let me go." "No, it's a good idea. There is no door. Follow me to the brigade." The woman had no choice but to follow the old bachelor to the brigade headquarters.
Arriving at the brigade headquarters, the old bachelor proudly said to the cadre on duty: "They say thieves have many scheming minds, and it's true. This girl is really scheming. I caught her and she is dishonest. , and she said she wanted to sleep with me. It was a good idea. I am not stupid. She wanted to sleep with me. If I fell asleep, wouldn’t she run away?”
Before answering the question, let’s first look at a quilt. Widely recognized view: As early as a few years ago, there was a related view that the number of singles in China would reach its peak between 2015 and 2020, and 30 million adult men would join the bachelor clan.
The point of view is only a previous prediction, this is not really a foregone conclusion. Although the single data provided by the majority of rural areas show that the number of singles in China is increasing day by day, this does not mean that the crisis of 30 million singles is so serious.
The reason why people at the marriageable age do not have a spouse, or even remain single after the marriageable age, is not just the imbalance of the male-female ratio. There are also many social factors that are combined and cannot be attributed simply to the ratio of men to women.
It was unimaginable for them to get married. In addition to the cost of hosting the banquet, there were also "three huge pressures", so they had to postpone it indefinitely. Wait until you have a certain financial strength before you make serious plans. Unfortunately, this day is far away, so many people are temporarily single.
There are several adults around me who are over 30 years old and still not married. And some of his peers have children running all over the floor. Why? It’s not that they can’t find someone to marry, but that they are unwilling to make do, pursue the so-called high-quality marriage, and wait hard for the beautiful dream lover to appear. They are very demanding when it comes to marriage and are unwilling to compromise.
The impact of family planning and the traditional concept of male superiority to women has caused an imbalance in the ratio of men to women since the founding of the country. When this imbalance becomes serious, the population gap will emerge. However, according to survey data from the National Bureau of Statistics: Although there is a large gap in the number of men and women, at the time of the fourth census in 2010, the gap in the number of men and women of marriageable age was only 1.26 million. Therefore, there will only be about 1 million singles at most, and the statement of 30 million singles is indeed alarmist.
Many bachelors in my family live a responsible life, and they don’t do anything harmful to society just because they can’t get a wife. In addition to being kind, he also does a good job in dealing with others; and the definition of bachelor in Baidu entry includes "a bastard, a gangster", so the society's prejudice against bachelors is still a bit serious.
There may be a small number of bachelors who cannot solve their physiological needs, so they are like a buried landmine, posing a certain threat to some women, but they are a minority after all. In fact, many bachelors purchase some daily products online to satisfy their physiological needs.
So don’t have too many prejudices against singles. It’s not that they don’t want to get married, but the current pressure in life makes them afraid to get married. Many people don’t know that although there are many male bachelors, there are also many female bachelors.
When living standards improve and erroneous concepts and customs are corrected, singles will have a good destination.
Have you ever seen a real old bachelor? What kind of characters are they?
Speaking of old bachelors are the bitter tears of rural people. There are many reasons for the formation of bachelors. Some are due to family poverty. Some are because his family was a landlord before liberation. No one dared to marry because of his high status. Some are because he is good-looking and his family is poor. He still picks and chooses. Later, it becomes difficult to tell when he is older. of. Some of them are so ugly that no one wants to marry them.
Speaking of the bachelor’s personality, they all have a unique personality, they are both playful, egotistical, and a bit childish. This may also be the reason for not getting married. There were no adults or children following us to ask for food, so there was no energy. Because he knew that after he died, he could not take anything he earned with him. I'm not stupid, so why do I have to fight so hard? Therefore, the old bachelors all have a dawdling attitude of living one day at a time and losing one day at a time. Almost no one works hard, and if he does, everyone calls him a fool.
There is a small village behind our village. There is an old bachelor there. His parents have passed away. He lives with his brother and sister-in-law. He is a capable person. He herds sheep in the summer and digs roots and collects firewood in the winter. He is very diligent. Everyone likes to fight with him and find him a wife. He has a high eye for a famous and beautiful woman in our village. This is just a quick way to get angry and has no practical significance.
There are two old bachelors in my backyard. I heard that the eldest brother once had a wife, but he had a bad temper and beat her away. Then the woman was nowhere to be found. The boss is also a smart man, and sometimes he will bring back women with mental disorders. Since he has trouble feeding himself, he has no spare money to support his wife! As a result, they all ran away. The second child is a peaceful person, but because of his ugly appearance and lack of money, he has never touched a woman.
Therefore, old bachelors are caused by financial poverty, poor appearance, fun and selfishness, and living in the sun. This also serves as a wake-up call to single young people today. If you follow the lifestyle of an old bachelor, you will also become an old bachelor.
I have seen that my three sons and two sons, my fourth son and one son, and my fifth son and three sons are all bachelors, and now they are no longer alive. I summed it up and found that there are three main reasons why they are single: one is the environment of the times and the family is poor, the other is physical disability and inability to do anything, and the third is their mentality and character. Some only have one, and some have all three.
My third uncle, who is also my grandfather’s biological brother, has two sons. One son is just a month younger than my father. I call him third uncle. The other son is two years younger than my father and is called fourth uncle. Because The family is poor, and the three father-in-law and three mothers-in-law died young. I have never seen him. The third uncle was blind since he was a child, and he relied on the fourth uncle to support him. He was impatient, reckless, and a drunkard, and never gave a good impression to others. He was not hygienic and could not sweeten people. He was also extremely selfish and cared about everything, so he remained a bachelor until he died of old age in his sixties or seventies.
My fourth uncle, my grandfather’s youngest brother, has a son. I call him uncle Liu. It is also because he is poor. Father and son depend on each other for life. However, uncle Liu is lazy and lazy, and father and son are at odds with each other. They often quarrel. He doesn't make a good impression on others, and his father and son are also fond of wine and often get drunk. Who would marry such a person? Before he was forty, his sixth uncle died of illness. My father and his biological uncle sent him to the hospital and buried him together.
The fifth prince is not close to me, but is of the same clan and worships the same people. His third son became a bachelor, which is not due to poverty or disability, but entirely due to his weird mentality and personality. All three of them were college students in the 1950s. They have diplomas and jobs, and are regarded as superiors. As far as I know, one has a very serious "germophobia", and the other is always stubborn and refuses to let others know. , carefree, arrogant, self-centered, always looking down on others. Rural people don't analyze that much. If these problems arise, they will risk their lives, poor Feng Shui, etc. There are many jokes and stories about them, which can be written into many humorous and satirical jokes to entertain people, and become a source of laughter for people to talk about before tea and after dinner.