How can children with divorced parents hold a wedding that everyone is satisfied with?
I have attended many weddings of children in your situation. Let me introduce how they do it. Generally, their biological parents are allowed to interact on the stage, while other stepmothers or stepfathers are under the stage. This matter has been discussed with my family in advance, and generally it won't cause any embarrassment. After all, your biological parents gave birth to you, and their blood is flowing. Although your parents divorced, it can't change the kinship between you. Whether your real mother has taken care of you or not, you should respect her. Without her, there would be no you. You should discuss it with your father, and then ask your father to explain the situation to your stepmother. Generally, reasonable people will not embarrass you when you are newly married. People who love you will not only consider their own feelings, but must consider the problem from your point of view, even if they are wronged, they will give you a happy wedding.