1, occupying the homestead causes contradictions. In rural areas, homestead is the land where farmers build houses. As long as they are members of the village collective, they can apply for homestead building. In the past, there was no clear boundary for the allocation of homestead in rural areas. In recent years, with the development of the work of confirming rights, there are more and more cases of disputes between neighbors over the area of homestead. Coupled with the increase in the number of people building houses in rural areas, some farmers accidentally occupied more and more neighbors when building houses.
2. Gossip about neighbors behind their backs. Everyone who lives in the countryside knows that there are one or two people in every village who like to gossip behind others' backs. The two families lived very close to each other and soon knew what was going on, but some people just couldn't hide their words and talked about other people's disgraceful things everywhere, which is also the reason why the neighborhood relationship will be stiff.
In fact, the neighborhood relationship has fallen out because of comparison, some compare cars and some compare houses. I always feel that others are better off than myself, and I feel uncomfortable. Especially when building a house, I see that my neighbor's house or land is built higher than myself, which affects the drainage or geomantic omen at home. Therefore, when communicating with neighbors, the other party failed to do so, and finally the two fell out.
4. Because it occupies a lot of land, besides the homestead, there is land next to neighbors in the countryside. Under normal circumstances, farmers will leave a vegetable field in front of or behind the door when building a house. Because there is no clear division of boundaries, the two families often have conflicts because of the boundaries of land, and eventually they will be stiff. Of course, part of it is because the vegetable field is close, and the chickens raised at home accidentally ate the neighbor's dishes, which led to conflicts after the quarrel.
Neighborhood relations are really important in rural areas. Sometimes, when you are in trouble, it is often the neighbors who help you. Living in the village, you don't have to look up and see. There is no need to freeze the relationship because of some trivial matters, which is not good for life and production. What do you think of this?