She could have relied on a good family to choose a suitable marriage, but she married Ren, a poor boy, despite her opposition. She could have the happiest family, but she chose to divorce Ren.
What happened to this woman who was rated as strong-willed but respected?
After marriage, both of them are duty-bound to devote themselves to army building.
Ren responded to the call of the country and became an infrastructure engineer. He followed the troops to the north and south and built on the land of the motherland.
In the military career of more than ten years, both of them seldom go home, and Ren also missed the birth of two children and Meng Ping (later changed to Ren Ping).
During the special period of ten years, my father got into a lot of trouble for political reasons, but the couple still spent this difficult time together.
In the early 1980s, Meng Jun left the army and became an executive of Shenzhen Nanyou Group due to the downsizing of the army.
Later, with the help of his father-in-law, Ren also worked in an electronics factory in Nanyang. Although Ren relied on his father-in-law's appreciation and recommendation and devoted himself to his work, he soon became the factory director, but he made a fatal mistake.
1984 Ren was cheated by a customer at a job, which caused the company to lose 2 million yuan.
Although he repeatedly begged the company to give him another chance to perform, Nanyou fired him. It rains all night, because both husband and wife have been too involved in their work before, and family conflicts have quietly escalated.
As a son-in-law, Ren's position in the family is extremely low. Both children take their mother's surname, and his wife, Meng Jun, not only has a strong personality, but also works much more than her husband.
As the boss of Ren, she was also at fault for the losses that Ren brought to the company, so the two began to quarrel constantly and their feelings gradually broke down. Meng Jun angrily chose a divorce.
Calm after divorce
Unemployed and divorced Ren can be described as "returning to his hometown in Guizhou overnight". He returned to his hometown in a mess, and he is still burdened with two million debts.
At this time, he is a 43-year-old middle-aged man, and with the big hole in the previous company, no company wants him.
Desperate, he decided to declare war on fate. 1987, he called several friends to raise 2 1000 RMB to set up Huawei.
At the beginning, he didn't develop his own technology, and his business was not ideal. At this time, he got the help of two people.
These two people are Meng. Although the relationship with Ren broke down, her upbringing and generosity told her that it was not a bad idea to be husband and wife.
The father and daughter not only introduced business to Ren, but also helped him buy a piece of land at a very low price for the company's development. "She is my noble person!" Ren Zheng Fei later said gratefully.
After the divorce, he tasted the pain of his last marriage and never remarried, but Ren and his secretary Yao Ling fell in love in the daily life of the company.
Meng Jun is neither jealous nor bitter, but makes friends with them generously. She and Yao Ling are more like sisters.
Ren was too busy at work to help him get a marriage certificate with Yao Ling and a child's birth certificate, which shows the wisdom and generosity of this woman.
After the divorce, Meng Jun lived a retired life without great career pursuit, but she never neglected the education of her children.
Today, Meng Wanzhou can become a successful generation of women who lead Huawei, and her mother's education by example is indispensable.
In 20 18, Meng Wanzhou was arrested and imprisoned by Canada on trumped-up charges, and Meng Jun flew to Canada to accompany his daughter as soon as he heard the news.
Ren Zheng Fei hasn't been there once. He said: "I am very relieved to have my mother."
Born in a rich family, but dare to marry a poor child to pursue love; After the emotional breakdown, I can still help my ex-husband calmly and make friends with my successor.
I worked hard when I was young. When you are old, you know how to be content with your old age and accompany your children. I have to praise Meng Jun as an educated and intelligent woman!