What taboos should we pay attention to when getting married?
Taboos during marriage
1, Avoid visiting: Brides don't need to visit relatives and friends during their honeymoon, especially those with old people, because most people think that the bride is a newcomer and it is unlucky for others. This unknown will last for about a month.
2, the bride should be careful not to step on the groom's shoes, there will be shame. When the bride enters the man's house, she should avoid stepping on the threshold and cross it.
Three days after marriage, when the couple get home, they must get back to their husband's house before sunset that day and can't stay overnight. In case you can't go home for special reasons, the husband and wife should sleep separately to avoid bumping into their families and making them unlucky.
Wedding ceremony taboo
1. If you meet another wedding motorcade on the way, you must set off firecrackers, or the matchmakers of both sides exchange flowers and leave blessings. When the bride enters the man's house, pregnant women and filial people should avoid it.
On the wedding day, when the bride goes out, the aunt should avoid it and can't send it away. Because "Gu" and "Solitude" are homophonic, and "Sister-in-law" and "Sweep" are homophonic, which is unlucky. When the bride enters the man's house, Weng and Gu should not look at the gate to see the bride enter the house, but should avoid it slightly to prevent collision.
Wedding taboo
1. Everything the bride wears on her wedding day should be brand-new. Try to choose dresses without pockets, which can take away the wealth at home. Couplets should be hung up on the eve of marriage at the latest, and can be taken down one month after marriage.
2, avoid the second fragrance: many families marry women will tell the second fragrance. When paying attention to the incense, try not to insert the incense head. If it is crooked, don't pull out the incense and insert it again, because Erxiang means remarriage.
Taboos and pressures in marriage bed
The wedding bed should face the god of joy.
According to the theory of "An Chuang Feng Shui", the wedding bed should be placed on "the auspicious side of life and the auspicious side of home". Moreover, the head of the wedding bed should be oriented towards the gods to avoid the orientation of the wedding bed. Generally, the location of the wedding bed is found through the horoscope and numerology of both parties. If we can't give consideration to the numerology of the bride and groom at the same time, we should give priority to the five elements that the bride likes in numerology, which is in line with the concept of "the man is outside and the woman is inside".
Behind the wedding bed, there is no one to rely on.
The wedding bed is best placed against the wall, not on all sides. It would be best if both sides could lean against the wall. If you can't lean against the wall on both sides, at least the chair surface should lean against the wall. Nowadays, some people like to decorate the wedding room in a grand and luxurious way, and put the wedding bed in the center of a huge space. In fact, this is not in line with our traditional concept of Feng Shui in China.
There should be no beam at the top of the wedding bed.
In Feng Shui, "Liang Ding" is taboo, and so is the wedding bed. Beam topping will suppress and contain the owner's meteorite shape, which is very unfavorable to the owner's fortune. If you want to make a good start for your career when you are newly married, remember not to put the wedding bed under the beam. If it is inevitable, you can adjust the position of the wedding bed or install a ceiling to cover it.