Confused and confused type
Some people don't know their professional skills and social adaptability, and they don't know what they want to do or don't like to do at all, so they can't locate their careers. The consciousness of wanting to work is not high.
Loss of self-confidence type
Subjectively, these people have no desire to work. Under the severe employment situation and employment pressure, they have adopted an evasive approach, relying entirely on their parents, especially those who are not well off.
seek dreams
They have high expectations for their jobs, and the jobs offered by the market are limited, so they need to wait for a while to find satisfactory jobs. Because it takes a period of time to match one's ability with the position, one has to rely on one's parents, which objectively leads to the emergence of "NEET".
Autism type
Some "neet people" are only children, who have little contact with society since childhood, and are complacent and unwilling to open their hearts when they grow up. Will not get along with others, afraid of complex interpersonal relationships in society. By escaping from society, we can get spiritual peace.
In view of this special group, middle-aged and elderly people should adopt an intervention program based on psychological counseling:
Let children know themselves correctly and improve their employment skills.
Letting children know themselves is the basis of participating in social competition. The more they contact the society, the more concrete their practical activities will be, and the more fair and objective they will be. Conceit and inferiority are mostly the products of self-isolation and isolation from the outside world. Children should be encouraged to consciously participate in social activities, always pay attention to what happens in society, and get in touch with and know more about society.
Let children improve their psychological endurance and their ability to adapt to the environment.
There are many ways to convince children to cope with and adapt to difficulties, and it is much more rational to take action to deal with them directly than to temporarily avoid them passively. Young people have a more extreme understanding of the problem. If you try to explain your experience and external environment in another way, your mood will be different. When you can't achieve the goal you want to pursue for the time being, as long as you don't lose heart, keep the consciousness of actively participating in the competition, choose another goal or a new method, have a stable mood and the spirit of trying again, the opportunity will eventually come.
Cultivate children's labor concept and make family education come alive.
When children grow up, parents should let them be self-reliant, set up another portal and push them to the society. We should strengthen their ability to communicate with others, be good at getting along with others, be willing to communicate with others and have the ability to cooperate with others. Cultivate a happy mood and good character, educate and guide them to love the collective and life, and don't limit their eyes to things related to themselves.
If the concept of "NEET" can't be changed, it can be suggested that they go to regular hospitals or psychological counseling centers for psychological counseling, so that professionals can help them change their mentality and let them embark on the road of finding jobs or training and learning as soon as possible.