Some simple and intuitive adjustment methods can be used to solve the conflict between genera, such as the configuration of genera, the color of five elements, the use of feng shui houses and ornaments. In fact, in our life, many things can't be changed, for example, we can't choose our parents, our brothers and sisters, or even avoid leaders who are in conflict with us. Sometimes it is impossible to change conflicts, disputes, quarrels, etc. Stay with them, so the best solution is to change yourself, which is the fundamental way to solve difficulties. Dogs need to listen patiently, while cows need to learn to be tolerant, accept each other's shortcomings and find each other's advantages before they can be together.