Every couple’s life after marriage will be different. You may find that when you are in love, two people love each other more than anything else. But after marriage, things seemed to slowly change. The conversation between the two is not that intimate, and they often quarrel. It may be that there is some bad love feng shui in the family. At this time, you have to pay attention to what causes discord between husband and wife. In this article, I will teach you how to resolve discord between husband and wife in Feng Shui.
1. Problems with the position of husband and wife
1. Missing corner in the position of husband and wife
The northwest corner belongs to the Qian Palace in the Nine Bagua Palaces, and the Qian Gua represents the home in the Bagua. The male host. The male host is the head of the family and occupies the main position in the family, so this role is absolutely indispensable. The lack of this corner will affect a man's status, career, body or marriage. If you think that there is no aura of the male master in a family, it means that the relationship with the man is weak, and the marriage will definitely be affected. This has been verified in a large number of Feng Shui practices.
In the same way, the southwest corner of the house belongs to the Kun Palace in the Nine Bagua Palaces. Kun Gua represents the mistress of the family in the Bagua. The hostess is also an important member of the family and plays a major role in the family, so this role is absolutely indispensable. The lack of this corner will affect a woman's status, career, body or marriage. If there are missing corners in these two directions in the home, the only way to fix them is to hang up the Mong Kok Bagua.
2. There is a bathroom for the couple.
The bathroom is a place where sewage gathers, and it is also a place where water passes up and down, and it is also a place where you are discouraged. To put it bluntly, the information represented by the bathroom is not good information, so the bathroom cannot be placed in an important position in the home. In Bagua, the northwest position of the house is Qian Gua, which represents the male owner of the family. It is definitely not good to have a bathroom in this position.
It will have an adverse impact on a man’s body, career or marital relationship. We know that bathrooms are generally not accessible and can only be resolved. Therefore, if you have a bathroom in this location at home, you can hang a pair of lighted plant gourds in the bathroom to absorb and dissolve the gas.
In the same way, in the Bagua, the southwest direction of the house is Kun Gua. Kun Gua represents the information of the mistress of the home. It is definitely not good to have a bathroom in this direction, which will have negative effects on women’s health, career or husband-wife relationship. We know that the adverse effects cannot be moved in the bathroom and can only be resolved. Therefore, if you have a bathroom in this location at home, you can hang a pair of lighted plant gourds in the bathroom to absorb and dissolve the gas.
3. There are doors in the couple’s position
It is not good if there are entrance doors in the northwest and southwest directions, because Feng Shui is about storing wind and gathering Qi. This is good. We know that the door opens and closes a large number of times every day. The inside and outside are ventilated and the aura flows back and forth. This is not good. If the aura is constantly moving, it will have impulses on people, which means it is easy to move and change, sometimes in terms of thoughts, sometimes in other aspects, in short it is easy to change. This definitely includes the emotional aspects of both parties, so having a door in this position is also detrimental to the marriage of both parties.
2. Problems in the couple’s bedroom
1. Bedroom clashes
The couple’s bedroom bed is most afraid of clashing with the bedroom door. A clash is impulsive , changes will occur. If they are conflicted, it will have an adverse impact on the bodies and marriage of both parties. It is easy to change mentally. Over time, it will affect the relationship between the couple, and in severe cases, they may even break up. The solution is to move the bed to another location, or hang a pair of consecrated plant gourds above the bed to collect Qi.
2. The bedroom is in the position of the three evil spirits in the fleeting year
We know that the three evil spirits in the fleeting year are the biggest evil spirits in the year, which will have serious adverse effects on the family's health, career, and the relationship between husband and wife. . The three evil directions in the Year of the Rabbit are southwest, due west and northwest. If the direction of the bedroom happens to be in the sky, it is in the position of three evil spirits, which will definitely have a great impact on the relationship of the couple inside. The way to resolve it is to place a pair of copper Pixiu in the bedroom.
3. Other issues
1. Peach blossom position
There is another important position in the home that can affect the relationship between husband and wife, and that is the position of husband and wife. The peach blossom position in the numerology of both parties. Many couples like to keep some flowers at home to beautify their home environment and purify the air, which is a good thing.
However, some unexpected events will also occur, which has also been proven when looking at home feng shui. That is to place the flowers in the destiny peach blossom position of the host and hostess, which invisibly promotes the personal peach blossom, and may cause problems with a third party, so this will also affect the relationship between the couple. .
The way to check the peach blossom position is: the peach blossom position of snake, chicken, and ox is in the south. The peach blossoms for tiger, horse, and dog are located in the due east. The peach blossoms of pig, rabbit and sheep are located in the north. The peach blossoms of monkey, rat and dragon are in the west. For the sake of family unity and harmony between husband and wife, when growing flowers at home, you must be careful not to place them on the peach blossom position
Feng shui method to resolve disharmony between husband and wife
1. Punch the bedroom door against the head of the bed< /p>
The couple's bedroom bed is most afraid of clashing with the bedroom door. The clash means impulsiveness and change. If the bed is clashed, it will have an adverse impact on the body and marriage of both parties. It is easy for the mind to change and it will last for a long time. It will affect the relationship between the couple, and in severe cases, they may even break up.
The solution is to move the bed to another location, or hang a pair of consecrated plant gourds above the bed to collect Qi.
2. Bathroom door punch
Nowadays, large-scale living rooms have double bathrooms. Generally, the master bedroom is equipped with a separate bathroom. We all know that bathrooms produce turbid gas. This is not a good place in itself, and the bathroom door is a place where stale air escapes.
If the bathroom door is directly facing the couple’s bed, it can be imagined that this is definitely not good. It will mainly affect the couple’s body and emotions. The solution is to hang a couplet in the bathroom. The consecrated plant gourd is used to collect the turbid qi.
3. Beams pressing on the head of the bed
Beams pressing on the top of the bed are also one of the most common indoor evil spirits. The so-called beams pressing on the top are a piece of roof protruding from the bottom of the beam on the indoor roof. If it happens to be below A place to sleep. This is not good in terms of Feng Shui. It can easily make people feel deeply oppressed subconsciously, making them unable to sleep well and prone to nightmares.
4. The lamp presses the bed
Most people will place the bedroom lamp in the middle of the house, and the middle position is the five-yellow position in Feng Shui. The five-yellow position is the unlucky position. , likes silence and is afraid of movement, movement will cause disaster. The lamp is in this position and generates light through current, which arouses the evil spirit of Wuhuang. Five Yellows govern diseases, so people will get sick if they are under them. If a fleeting year or a bad luck star arrives in this palace, it will not only cause people to get sick, but also cause disasters. Therefore, we have to pay attention and move the position downwards and it will be fine.
5. The bed is in the position of the three evil spirits in the fleeting year
We know that the three evil spirits in the fleeting year are the biggest evil spirits in the year, which will have serious adverse effects on the family's health, career, and the relationship between husband and wife. . The three evil directions in the Year of the Rabbit are southwest, due west and northwest. If the direction of the bedroom happens to be in the above direction, it is in the position of three evil spirits, which will definitely have a great impact on the relationship of the couple inside. The way to resolve it is to place a pair of copper Pixiu in the bedroom.
6. There should not be electrical appliances opposite the bed
In order to increase the interest, some people will place some electrical appliances in the bedroom. When placing electrical appliances, you should also pay attention to some Feng Shui principles. Do not place the TV directly in front of the bed. Its radiation is more likely to affect the meridians and blood circulation of your feet, which can easily cause diseases. Do not place the speaker on the right side of the wedding bed, because the right side is the white tiger side, and the sound is dynamic, which can easily arouse the aura of the white tiger side. Over time, the couple will also easily have quarrels. In short, don't have too many electrical appliances in the wedding room, because the five elements of electrical appliances belong to fire, and too much fire will definitely be detrimental to both husband and wife.
7. Don’t have a large mirror facing the bed
We know that mirrors can reflect objects back, so why would having a large mirror in the bedroom be detrimental to the couple? Because the bedroom is a private space for two people, outsiders are not allowed to enter, especially when sleeping. When people are half asleep and half awake, they will regard their own image in the mirror as an outsider. If an outsider is in their bedroom, they will definitely be shocked. Therefore, it is easy to cause mental stress and poor mental health for a long time. .
Small details of Feng Shui can resolve marital problems
First: Broken mirrors should not be used anymore.
Mirrors have had some special meanings since ancient times. "A broken mirror cannot be put back together" also refers to people's emotional problems. Therefore, if the mirror at home is cracked, stop using it and replace it with a new one.
Second: Figures (paintings) should not be placed in the bedroom.
Some friends like fine arts and artistic statues or pictures. Remember not to place them randomly in the bedroom. If nothing else, when you and your wife are sleeping, these statues will stare at you and you will feel guilty. Don't you feel guilty?
Third: Peach Blossom Water is coming.
The peach blossom water mentioned in ancient Feng Shui refers to the sewage (pit) outside the house, or the anti-bow-shaped water in a special direction. It has been extended to the place where we collect garbage now. It counts.
Fourth: Don’t keep fish in the bedroom.
The bedroom is a place for couples to rest and needs a warm feeling. The water in the fish tank is cold. There is a saying in destiny science: the metal is cold and the water is cold, so fish cannot be kept in the bedroom.
Fifth: House type split into two.
There is a type of house that has a direct corridor in the middle as soon as you enter the door, dividing the house into two parts. This type of house has a negative impact on relationships. Friends who want to buy a house should try not to buy it.