A family of three moved into the villa and could have told a happy story. However, it became the beginning of all tragedies. On the first night when she moved into the new house, her husband Ma Xuewu turned his back on his wife, who didn't know what her husband was thinking, and kept talking. When she thought that the family's life would be happy, Ma Xuewu said what he had been keeping in mind: "Li Baoli, I want to divorce you!"
People say that China people have no faith, but in many people's minds, family is their faith. For the sake of a family, under the pressure of life, Li Baoli, once beautiful, is no longer smart, provocative, philistine and selfish. Ma Xuewu couldn't bear the haggle over every ounce in her life and the vitriol in her words. Without his wife's care, he chose not to be close to his wife. It is for this reason that he feels that his colleague Zhou Fen has a clear understanding of this. Often meet and chat, often get together to care, so that two people have a feeling, and then Ma Xuewu cheated. Li Baoli followed her all that day and watched them enter the hotel. I can't imagine a woman's sadness at this moment, but I can really feel Li Baoli's heartbreak when she sits on the concrete floor and cries. But she is a stubborn woman. She walked into the hotel with the last glimmer of hope, but her last hope was also dashed. She resisted the impulse to rush in, but reported Ma Xuewu's arrest to the police station. Some people say that anger and jealousy drove her to do this, but I think this is actually a woman's helplessness after being betrayed. When she raised the fire extinguisher to break in, a little boy passed by. At this time, Li Baoli must have thought of his son Bao Xiao. She knew that if she opened the door, her home would only be a broken ending. However, her arrogant personality did not allow herself to swallow, so she called the police and fantasized about making a final struggle.
I think if Li Baoli starts to change her attitude towards her husband and son from this time, she can at least become a small family full of laughter. But on the contrary, she intensified, still stimulating Ma Xuewu's fragile nerves. When he took his old mother from the countryside to live in a new house, Li Baoli's indifference made Ma Xuewu feel even more chilling. After a heavy blow, Ma Xuewu learned that he would be fired for cheating. At the same time, it is like falling into eighteen layers of hell to learn that the person who reported himself is his wife. Ma Xuewu was crushed by all the straws and finally committed suicide by jumping into the river.
Seeing this, most people will think that the vitriolic Li Baoli is hateful, while Ma Xuewu is pitiful. But on the other hand, isn't it hateful to say that his wife is cruel but torture her with cold violence? Isn't it hateful to be irresponsible and leave the old mother and young son to die? Isn't it disgusting to go out to have sex when you have a home? He is timid by nature, and his fragility and affectation as an intellectual are even more contemptible. Ma Xuewu's actions show us the absolute cowardice of a man. Li Baoli, who lacks the care of her parents and her husband, is too lonely. Always a person is echoing others, how pitiful she looks when she is alone.
Li Baoli's best friend said that Li Baoli's house is located at the junction of several roads, and it is said that an arrow goes through the heart. Living in a house like that is a disaster. How can a strong and stubborn Li Baoli accept this statement? "I don't believe in this evil. If you ask me, it's called radiant light! " In the following days, Li Baoli stopped selling socks to support her mother-in-law and son. I really put the burden of my family's livelihood on my thin shoulders and began to work as a coolie. Maybe sometimes we can't see our pain clearly. At that time, Li Baoli didn't seem to feel the pain of this job and was running back and forth in the street. After a busy day, her face is not sad, but gratified to get paid. In this way, day after day, year after year. She supports the family. For ten years, she has maintained this family by herself.
Some people persist because of stubbornness, while others persist because of hope. Li Baoli's persistence for ten years may be due to both. Her stubbornness does not allow her to yield to fate, and the hope she sees in Bao Xiao encourages her to persevere. Yes, there is no culture, but what I see in so-called intellectuals such as Ma Ma and Grandma is their ruthlessness. What they say and do makes me cold in my bones. It is disgusting to be superior to others at will because of certain cultures.
After a big fight with her son, she was heartbroken and desperate. After ten years of hard work, I finally got the mother-child relationship. That night, she went to the river. Looking at this moment, I thought she would choose to jump into the river. On a dark night, sitting alone by the river, my messy hair fluttered with the wind, but my heart was as heavy as a rock. At that time, her expression was different from the collapse when she found her husband cheating, and it was replaced by calm. Inner peace. There is a scene in the film that I will never forget. A group of young people are laughing and setting off fireworks. Finally, let Li Baoli take pictures of them. This contrast shows Li Baoli's loneliness, a loneliness that is not understood by others. Finally, Li Baoli didn't jump into the river. She chose to live on. In fact, many people have it! No matter how hard the reality hits them, they insist on living. I think this kind of person deserves respect. After all, this is the attitude towards life.
Later, Li Baoli came home and left the house with a shoulder pole and two bags of clothes. Malik Wu Xue didn't leave her last words, and she didn't leave a word for Ma Zhaowen. Finally, the long shot of the film has profound meaning, and Li Baoli looks so small. In such a big city, people who have a hard life are everywhere, and many people have stuck to their teeth all their lives. If the car breaks down, even if you scold "son of a bitch!" Still have to push hard! No one's life, you can always let others in. No matter how bad life is, we should stick to it. After all, this is the life you choose.