First, the influence of will, karma and karma on marriage
The influence of will on marriage Many people don't have enough estimates of the influence of will on marriage. For example, when you were young, you saw that double income was handsome without children, and you made a vow that I would never get married after being single; Or before the world is dark, for some reason, you make a vow to be a bachelor in this life. Don't think this is just a passing remark. When this desire matures, it will really prevent you from getting married. Strangely, desire is so incredible. You can't get married now, even if you regret making such an oath before, it's hard to change. Of course, some people may have made a wish in their last life, hoping not to get married as much as possible, to practice Buddhism diligently, or for other reasons. I regret it now. It tickles my heart to see someone get married. However, because of the obstruction of will, it is difficult to get married even if you make all kinds of efforts.
2. The influence of karma on marriage
All kinds of family relationships between people are nothing more than repaying kindness, complaining and collecting debts. The so-called good karma and bad karma never get together. The same is true between husband and wife. The previous good deeds were not deep enough. In reality, there are few or no couples who can marry you. Therefore, everyone thinks that Buddhism should educate everyone to have a good relationship and benefit everyone. When you read The Legend of the White Snake, you know that Xu Xian put a white snake in his previous life. This white snake is the later white snake.
There is also a record in the Fruit Record: When anonymous was a man in his last life, he was a bandit, bullying men and women, robbing money and things, and doing all kinds of evil, but once he accidentally pitied a child to give him money. Because of this karma, the bandit was raped many times after being reincarnated as a woman, and his family's property was robbed many times to pay off his debt of deceiving men and bullying women and robbing money when he was a bandit in his last life. But she got a husband who loves herself very much and will never leave her anyway. Who is this husband? The wonderful monk said that her husband was the little boy who accidentally gave money when he was a bandit in his last life. This is a kind of good karma. Therefore, marriage itself depends on fate. You've never been so lucky before. Whether you want marriage or other relatives and friends, it is impossible. Or formed a bad relationship, and now together, not only unhappy, but also violent, the wife killed her husband, and the husband killed his wife.
3. The influence of karma on marriage
Hua Yan Jing says: the crime of lewdness also makes all beings fall into three evil ways. If a stranger is born, he will get two results because of his excessive karma: one wife is unfaithful and the other two will not get married properly. Therefore, nine times out of ten, the karmic obstacles in general marriage are directly related to the improper handling of the relationship between men and women in the past and now: if you used to act as a third party to destroy other people's families, your spouse's family will be destroyed by a third party now; Those who used to break up other people's families and leave others without a partner either can't find a partner in this world or have a separated partner; In the past, he defiled his partner, and in this life, his partner will be defiled. Buddha said: if you rob a hundred times, you will not die, and the karma will be gathered, and the results will be rewarded. Therefore, in today's society, extramarital affairs, one-night stands, adultery and various frivolous behaviors think that they are fashionable and modern, and when they get what they want in the future, they will cry bitterly. If I know this, why should I know it?
Marriage is causal, how can it be decided by people? All marriages in the world have their causes and consequences. If we mortals don't have awe and practice, we will fall into reincarnation forever and bear the bitter fruit of reincarnation karma.