The Way of Husband and Wife in the Book of Changes

? The Book of Changes is all-encompassing, and its source refers to Yin and Yang.

? Then, as one of the things in the Book of Changes: Home, how to express Taoism? Why is it cloudy? How's Yang? Even how to realize the interdependence, balance and continuation of yin and yang?

? Let's not talk about the unity of man and nature in the interpretation of the Book of Changes. It is said that Tai Chi gives birth to Yin and Yang, and Yin and Yang give birth to two instruments. The sky is Yang, the earth is Yin, the sun is big, small is Yin, high is Yang, low is Yin, just is Yang, soft is Yin, male is Yang, female is Yin, husband is Yang and wife is Yin. It is said that heaven and earth are separated, so there is heaven and earth and human beings.

? Yin and Yang represent men and women. Yin and Yang also represent heaven and earth, with Yang as the sky and Yin as the earth.

? In the family world, the relationship between ethics and morality is called yin and yang of heaven and earth.

? The sun represents yang, the moon represents yin, and the sun and the moon together are "bright". If yin and yang are inconsistent, it is unknown. Therefore, the combination of yin and yang of husband and wife can be understood. This is the way of husband and wife.

The Book of Changes says, "There is heaven and earth, then everything, then men and women, then men and women, then couples, then fathers and sons."

In a family, men are heaven. "Heaven is strong and self-reliant", so men should be strong and responsible.

? Women are the land, "the terrain is Kun, and the morality is loaded", so women should be tolerant and gentle. The more virtuous a woman is, the better her children are and the more successful her husband is.

? In a family, when men and women are in their proper places and yin and yang are harmonious, the family will be harmonious and warm, and the children will grow up healthily.

If husband and wife are compared to a door, then it has two doors supporting a portal; Two men and two women, combined into a family, two doors are the same size and two people are equal; Two doors have their own nests, and two people have their own opinions. Only we live in harmony, do our jobs, and the door is still the door. Only one lock is used for the two doors, and the doors are locked firmly; Only two people have one heart, and the heart can stick tightly. Two doors can only be painted in one color to look good; Two people should have face, so as not to embarrass each other. When two doors are opened and closed, they will make a creaking sound; When two people get along for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps. The two doors will be deformed after exposure to the sun and rain, and need to be repaired to make them fit again; When two people go through hardships, there will be barriers. At this time, they must understand each other so that the rain can pass. In case of storm, both doors should be closed at the same time; When encountering difficulties and hardships, two people want Qi Xin to work together. To welcome distinguished guests, two doors should be opened; When something big happens, two people should open their hearts and discuss with each other. The man opens the door on the left and goes out to earn money; The woman leaned against the door on the right and watched at home. There are couplets on the door: the first couplet is a man, the second couplet is a woman and the horizontal couplet is a child.

If men are mountains, then women are water. Green mountains and green waters, surrounded by mountains and water are closely related. Without water, mountains are not beautiful, without mountains, mountains are not mighty. Mountains inherit the masculinity of the sky, and water absorbs the aura of the earth. Since ancient times, mountains and rivers have been interdependent, forming a beautiful picture.

The world is so magical. Only by harmonizing Yin and Yang can everything last forever.

? Men are doing things (days) instead of taking care of their wives; A woman is Kun (land), and in the Lord, she should help her husband, not tire him.

A man leads his wife on the road, and a woman helps her husband become virtuous. What can really do this is the balance of yin and yang.

Men should set an example and leave their wives alone. This is for heaven's sake.

Does heaven rule the earth? In any case, we should take the example as the basis. Men are the backbone of the family, sunshine and rain, and they will always pay.

Women should be happy with the situation, rich is poor, high is low, such as water can support everything without competing with everything.

A man is happy at home and has good self-restraint, which is called sunshine; Women are kind at home and don't lose their temper. It's called dining.

The weather is fine and the earth is peaceful; If the ground is flat, it will be sunny. A man's temper is forced by a woman. Women must do it first, and men will do it.

? When the weather is not clear, it will thunder and hail at most, and earthquakes will occur when the ground is not peaceful, so it is harmful to a family and a disaster to a family.

? Hell and heaven are only between one thought, one thought of introspection is heaven, and one thought of accusation is hell; Love is heaven, selfishness is hell; A thought of greed is hell, and a thought of contentment is heaven; A thought of arrogance is hell, and a thought of appreciation is heaven.

Couples get along for a long time, and some weaknesses will be exposed. It is the right way to reflect on yourself and blame each other. If you blame each other, you will become more and more alienated and even turned upside down.

? Men love women, and women admire men. Husband and wife are predestined friends After ten years, we can cross the boat together, and after a hundred years, we can sleep with pillows. Always alert, a grateful heart will bring infinite joy to yourself and your family.

Husband and wife are the deepest practice, and home is the best Dojo. The more intercession between two people, the stronger it is; Don't be unreasonable, the more you talk, the more divided you are. From strangeness to life, from meeting to heart, you can gain trust by paying sincerity. Warm heart after sincerity can bring eternal together.

? Love between husband and wife needs to be managed. More understanding, more tolerance, more understanding and more communication. You should learn to put yourself in others' shoes, so that you can live happily.

? Communication between husband and wife takes place almost every day, so we should pay attention to the art of speaking, speak frankly and enthusiastically, and discuss things with each other.

? The word "marry" is beside the woman, and the woman is the feng shui of the family. Women are busy, men are silent; Women are not soft and their wealth is not prosperous. A wife is her husband's financial star. If a woman can get her husband's respect, happiness and affection, then her husband's fortune will be very good. This is called "wife wealth".

? Couples are the beginning of interpersonal relationships and the end of everything. Yin and Yang are in harmony with heaven and earth, and couples and children are prosperous.

? The way of husband and wife is tolerance, because after a lifetime, you have your willfulness, he has his personality, and only under tolerance can you have a harmonious family.

The Book of Changes, a system of natural universe and an ancient sage culture, inherits the highest wisdom of Chinese people. We should carry it forward, spread it and use it smoothly.

? As the gene of the society and the cell of the country, the family is healthy: the first thing to do is a benign relationship between husband and wife, which can be better realized under the infiltration and guidance of Yi Li-self-cultivation, governing the country and ruling the world.

Me: Now in school education and social education, many people will advocate innovation, freedom and reform ... As a result, the roles of men and women have also changed, and "equality between men and women, yin flourishes and yang declines, and female guns and women men" are not uncommon.

? There have been too many changes in society and people's ideas. Looking around the world, what is the difference between western society and eastern society after the special epidemic?

How about observing their families and observing the teachings of their ancestors?

What about the confusion of male and female roles?

How about watching your family?

Look at yourself, how is your role positioning?

? Classic words, every word is well written. The ignorance of human beings, the career planted, will eventually reap the corresponding fruits in life. ...

? If you are wrong, start to correct it now; If you are following the teachings of your ancestors, stick to it!

? Bless everyone, both men and women!

? Bless every family, whether it is sunny or rainy at the moment!

Bless you who are destined to read this article, and keep your duty and get more happiness from now on!