Should the woman get married and go to the grave?

It should be said that there is no problem. This is the pursuit of filial piety ethics. However, in some villages in southwestern Shandong and central and southern Shandong, married daughters are not allowed to go to the grave. They think the married daughter belongs to someone else. If there is a son at home, the family doesn't want her daughter to go back to her parents' grave, for fear that others will say that there is no one at home. Only a family without a son can let the girl go back to her parents' grave. Some people think that after their daughters get married, they can't sweep their ancestral graves, otherwise they will take away their geomantic omen. This concept is generally considered as "daughters don't pass on their children." Only the names of sons and daughters can be engraved on the tombstones of ancestors, while the names of girls are generally not engraved on the tombstones of parents and ancestors. In some places, this custom continues to this day. Therefore, it is best not to be superstitious about burning paper money, which wastes money and pollutes the environment. It is best to buy real flowers.