But every happy married life has a fire! This fire scene is an auspicious atmosphere: boys dare to take responsibility, support a family like a heavy responsibility, women's hair is soft and happy, and this family is full of water. The child's behavior is gentle and energetic, and the old man is kind, open-minded and kind.
Four magic weapons to nourish marriage life: tolerance, appreciation, obligation and love! What if the relationship between husband and wife breaks down?
Some people think that marriage begins with love, and happiness will have everything! This view is one-sided and comprehensive. Husband and wife, because of love, come together, and the support point is that the time of going through oil, salt, sauce and vinegar is indeed inclusive. _ There is tolerance, no matter how much love there is before, there will be a day when Laoyan breaks up. When you enter marriage, you need to learn to let go of your imagination. Because there is never a perfect person in this world, you don't have to be perfect when you blame your lover. He is sloppy, he is not smooth, she is petty, and she has a bad temper. She always likes an indispensable part of a person, that is, everyone falls in love with him (her) because of his (her) advantages at that time, so we need to treat his (her) shortcomings with an inclusive attitude. Because a real person is like this, we don't always have to imagine renewal and transformation, but learn to live in harmony with defects. This is the energy of tolerance.
The eyes of appreciation can't exist only in love. Boys and girls in marriage should learn to treat their lovers with appreciation. I've seen too many couples. Their eyes are like a filter, just staring at each other's defects and deficiencies, and then talking all day long. But the objective fact is: where your eyes are fixed, this lover will become the host there! There is a woman next to her, complaining about her husband's unreasonable safety accidents all day, but he still insists on doing what should be done. If her husband is immersed in her complaints, the family will be at war all day. When a woman enters married life, she should bring a double-sided bathroom mirror. Look at the advantages of your lover with a magnifying glass, and look at the shortcomings of your lover with a miniature mirror. Your praise and no doubt will make your lover full of confidence and give you a sunny day with strong arms. It is said that a good baby is boasted. In fact, a good husband is also boasted. Every happy marriage has a pair of appreciative eyes.
In marriage, there is not only love, but also swords and shadows. Both husband and wife should dare to undertake the obligations of married life. Boys, whether they have influence or not, should dare to undertake the obligation of making money to support their families. In my eyes, poor boys who sweat better at home are much more elegant than lazy rich second generation and official second generation. No matter how beautiful and ugly a woman is, she should respect and care for her parents-in-law and children. Marrying a man means marrying a family. Every member of this family must devote himself to women's love. A good wife should not only keep the house diligently, but also make a family happy and harmonious. Social development is the arena for men, and family is the city for women. Responsible women and men are not only the big winners at work, but also the patron saint at home.
Love is the most indispensable thing in a happy marriage. Only couples who love each other can and are willing to make continuous progress for your family: learning and training tolerance, learning and training appreciation, and learning and training. In order to better devote all efforts to the whole family, only men and women with excellent academic work can have a happy marriage life, and only in a happy marriage can they release their strong temperament, which is nostalgic, intoxicating and willing to dedicate their lives.
Disconnect the emotional line, earnestly realize it, moisten it with love, make marriage and life in full swing, and make happiness develop!