So, which is better to have a baby in her husband's family or in her mother's family after pregnancy? The following pregnant mother told the truth, which is worthy of reference.
It is not difficult to raise a baby at home, but I am embarrassed to be lazy.
My cousin has been giving birth at home since she became pregnant, and her in-laws are very kind to her, especially her mother-in-law cooks good food for her every day. She was never allowed to do housework, even washing dishes and sweeping the floor. She is especially glad that she met a good mother-in-law, but she also has concerns. She said: "Although I don't have to do anything every day to raise my baby in my mother-in-law's house, it's not hard at all during pregnancy, but I'm embarrassed to always be so lazy." Therefore, she dare not get up too late in the morning. After dinner, she will take the initiative to clean up the dishes and chopsticks. What she can do by herself will definitely not disturb her mother-in-law, but she is worried that her mother-in-law thinks she is too lazy.
Indeed, after a woman gets married, she can't count on her parents for everything as she does at home. Because my mother-in-law is not a real mother after all, she does nothing after pregnancy, and she is always worried that her mother-in-law will have an opinion. Moreover, if you want to get along well with your mother-in-law, your daughter-in-law must behave well, and pregnancy is no exception. Therefore, a pregnant mother who raises a baby in her husband's house during pregnancy can do things by herself, and never be melodramatic.
Mothers raise babies at home, and mothers don't treat themselves as outsiders, which is good and bad.
My best friend has been taking care of the baby at her mother's house since she got pregnant, because her in-laws have to go to work and have no time to go home and cook for her. At first, my girlfriend thought it was good to raise the baby at her mother's house, and let her do whatever she wanted. Lie down at home if you want, sleep if you want, and follow the drama if you want, without worrying about being told. Even if mom says it, she can talk back and not listen. However, this unrestrained life of raising a baby was soon broken by my mother's nagging. She said, "My mother always tells me that I am too lazy, or always tells me to get up and help her, or tells me to go out more. Speak and do things, and don't take me as an outsider at all. "
Yes, that's quite right. I am too lazy to raise a baby at home and have too many problems. My mother will point it out mercilessly, and I will nag, sometimes it will be annoying. However, it is good to have food and clothing, so don't worry too much about what you want to spend money on. After all, your mother loves her daughter.
If there are brothers, sisters and children at home, it will be very inconvenient to raise a baby.
Relatively speaking, many pregnant mothers should be more willing to put their babies in their parents' homes, but there is a situation that is very uncomfortable, that is, parents have brothers, sisters and children. My neighbor, a little girl, got pregnant after half a year of marriage, and then often went back to her parents' house. However, she has a brother and a sister-in-law, and her little nephew is less than one year old. It is when people are noisy that she can't sleep well every day. And because of her reaction during pregnancy, she is very picky about food. Her mother has to help her sister-in-law take care of the children, so she can't cook for her alone. The family wants to accompany her to eat light vegetarian dishes, but the sister-in-law has to nurse and mix vegetarian dishes. In this way, aunt and sister-in-law naturally have contradictions. So she said, "If you have a sister-in-law and children at home, it is not suitable to go back to your parents' house to raise a baby."