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Our temper is always easy to spread to our relatives; The only ones who can bear our anger are our loved ones.
Why?
In fact, the answer is very simple, because others cannot tolerate you.
The reason why we are impatient with life is actually because we are suffering in our hearts and no one can understand it, so we get angry and lose control; the more out of control we become, the angrier we become, and this cycle continues. , to the point of hurting the people closest to us without even knowing it.
When others are afraid of you, it is not your ability to be careful with you;
When others care about you, it is not your duty to take good care of you.
"It is not the blow of the mallet, but the singing and dancing of the water that makes the pebbles perfect."
Blowing a person never praises a person, which makes it easy for people to accept;
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Scolding someone, never using a friendly tone, will never make people feel comfortable.
Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. We can’t empathize with each other, but we can understand and be tolerant.
If two people often find fault with each other and always complain about life, the accumulation of negative energy in life will not only make the other party unhappy, but also make each other's happiness continue to decrease.
When you blame others, the most painful thing is not others, but yourself.
Because when we blame others, we are in a sad mood, which accumulates in our hearts. The most painful thing is not the other person, but ourselves.
Only by blaming less, fussing less, discussing things more, living an optimistic life, and having positive interactions can our family remain harmonious and prosperous.
Not blaming each other when things go wrong is the armor that protects each other.
Between husband and wife, we are equal, no one is the slave of the other, and no one is the maid of the other.
It’s not that the other person can’t live without us, but that we need the other person to fill the gaps in our lives.
Husband and wife are the audience closest to us and the people who have been with us the longest. What we need is encouragement and cherishment, and we should not always criticize and criticize.
When something happens, if we only care about the harm it brings to us without considering the other person's mood, it is easy to burst into anger, complain, get angry, and even become hysterical.
But have you ever thought about it, if you can't tolerate him, who in this society will tolerate him?
Partners need to support each other and not always bring down each other.
Whether you choose to treat the other person as your enemy or your spiritual confidant all depends on your attitude.
Who is your partner?
He is our pillow, the best person in the world to us.
He also has his own weaknesses. What we need to do is his armor, not the bayonet that hurt him the most.
Not blaming someone when something goes wrong is the best Feng Shui for a home.
In a long life, there are calm moments and stormy moments. There are many opportunities and many challenges.
The more stormy the weather, the more we should join forces to stay warm instead of blaming each other.
Home is always a place of love. It is warm because of love, and long-lasting because of love.
Don’t get into a fight at the slightest sign of trouble, and don’t nag endlessly because of the other party’s slightest shortcomings.
If we want love, we should give more love. If we want praise, we should encourage each other more. If we want happiness, we should work harder to manage.
A good marriage is definitely not a war-torn marriage, and a good love is definitely not a love with constant quarrels.
Only when there is love at home can the inheritance of love be passed on; only when the home is warm can people feel warm...