Looking at the little sister opposite, whose eyes couldn't help but turn red, Xiao Y handed over the tissue at the right time. As a middle-level and senior manager of this newly established state-owned enterprise, Xiao Y understands how tiring it is to face the "mysterious" chairman. Based on his own experience, Xiao Y’s advice to his little sister is as follows:
1. Keep getting to know yourself and the life you want. If you want to enter the center of power, learn the leadership art of that expert. ; If you just want to live a stable life, choose a more stable and mediocre working environment and position. That is, either face the difficulty head-on, or find a way out and retreat.
? 2. Life is a series of checkpoints. People who are gentle and gentle to you may not make you grow, but experiences that make you uncomfortable will definitely force you to grow. Therefore, try to understand the leader and adapt to the leader's style without violating the principles. If you want to leave, you must pass this level and leave with your head held high as a winner.
? 3. Don’t be envious or jealous of the popular people around the leader, every dog ??has its day! Thinking about the loss they felt when they were not appreciated and reused by their previous leaders, on the one hand, they balance their own loss, and on the other hand, they understand that the situation is changing and they cannot be the favorite forever.
? 4. Have a sense of crisis. The greenhouse environment will only boil frogs in warm water. Comfort is definitely not the best growth soil. Start learning about career planning, improve yourself more, and find your own strengths and interests from complicated administrative work. The work surface can be broad, but it must have professional points and aspects.
5. Make yourself irreplaceable in terms of professional skills, and strengthen yourself step by step through inner cultivation. Have the ability and courage to leave at any time, be strong without desire, and remain unfazed by favor or disgrace.
Think about your stumbling journey. There is no so-called guiding light. The road in front of you is dark. You are constantly exploring, being frustrated, turning, and exploring... In such a cycle, you are twisting and spiraling. Xiao Y firmly believes that the law of development of things also applies to the growth path of people!
Although not everyone has to be a strong person, or be in the shopping mall, or be in the political arena, or be trapped in the whirlpool of fighting, but even if you want to be an ordinary Nobody, you need to grow and Be strong to protect you. There is no smooth sailing life, some are just physical and mental experiences that are constantly experienced in setbacks! Meditate and settle down when you are at a low point, have different sincerities for different people, strive to maintain the purity of your heart, and develop appropriate skills to resist the complexity of the outside world! Life is ups and downs, ups and downs. Use the power of precipitation and the wisdom of the city to find the posture and actions you should have at different heights!