A friend who talks about every love as the first love once confided to everyone after drinking and said, is the world changing too fast? Why did every girl be moved by him, but finally dumped him mercilessly on the grounds that she had no feelings?
Then he talked about one of the "first loves". It was almost the first time he met her, and he fell in love with this gentle girl in his heart. Then launch a fierce attack, download love cheats from the internet, and implement them one by one according to the above items. He bought her 999 roses, carried them on his shoulders, put a heart downstairs where she worked, and then waited for her to poke her head out in the exclamation of the crowd. He ordered songs for her on the radio and recorded his love songs as CDs for her. He said he wanted her to be the happiest woman in the world, with clothes to reach out and food to eat, like a spoiled princess.
In his initial attentions, the girl really had the bright smile he wanted to see. Just when he thought everything was natural and wanted to take the girl home to meet her parents, the girl suddenly got cold feet. He thinks she is not ready to get married, but she doesn't want to. She pointed out to him that she didn't really love him.
My friend is puzzled, but not discouraged. He believes that a drop of water wears away a stone, and one day his efforts will bring him the fruits of love. Besides, which girl doesn't like romance, caring and touching warmth?
But the girl began to avoid his persistence. She stopped coming to eat his cooking. He hurried back to the hut after work, calculated the time to cook the meal, and took it to her dormitory to hang at the door. When she saw the food taken away, it must still be hot. He can almost calculate that the time from work to dormitory is 15 minutes and 30 seconds. After he hung the lunch box at the door, she must have just turned the second corner and arrived three minutes later.
Friends will hide behind a tree and peek at her expression when she takes down the lunch box, and judge how likely this relationship is. But as a result of the hard work of the rice delivery worker, the dish washer and the flower delivery worker, the girl threw a box of delicious fried rice with eggs in front of him. The girl cried and begged him to let go. She said that she was very moved by what he had done for himself. She also believes that every girl will be moved by his persistent love like her. However, what she wanted to tell him from beginning to end was that moving is not emotion.
A friend suddenly seems to have been hit hard, but he doesn't know how to refute this specious love conclusion. A friend wants to argue with girls with the dignity of being the best debater at school. If he is not moved, how can he have feelings? How can two hearts love each other if they don't care about each other meticulously in their feelings and are therefore soft-hearted? However, the difference between emotion and emotion is closely related, because there is "emotion" first, then "movement" and "emotion" Who can say that affection will not be moved by the warmth of even a kiss?
But my friend finally lost his "first love" and was afraid because of this incisive love summary. Since then, he has been afraid to approach love for a long time.
The later story is very dramatic. A friend who has always been clumsy is madly pursued by a girl. The girl's romantic tricks are more varied than the entries in his "Sunflower Collection". In such a puzzling chase, he was almost at a loss The buddies around him envied him and said, you are so lucky, you have survived the scar and forgotten the pain. Why don't you marry that girl and go home at once? If you drag on like this, you will be afraid that people will turn around with cold hearts.
The friend looked pitiful and said, unfortunately, moving is not an emotion. After that, I was horrified, tried to remember, and finally remembered the "first love" a long time ago. I have been thrown the same sentence once. But I never imagined that it was my turn to escape in such a hurry.
At that moment, my friend finally understood that there is a word difference between feelings and emotions, but it turned out to be such a love-hate infatuation.