No matter where the custom is, it is not appropriate for a daughter to go to the grave because she is too young. Generally speaking, if a child is under six years old, it is not suitable for both men and women to let him participate in ancestor worship activities. Because the child is too young, the yang is low, and the cemetery is a place with a heavy yin, it is easy for the child to see some unclean things, and it is easy to cause some negative substances to entangle with the child (the child has a low yang and is easy to provoke evil things), which leads to the child's frequent illness. Therefore, my daughter is too young to go to the grave and needs attention. In addition, the elderly love their children very much, and when they take their children to worship their ancestors, their ancestors especially "love" their children, which easily leads to their reluctance to part with their children and their love for "freedom", which is not conducive to their children.