Did Bai Jingqi really marry Xiang Embroidery for the sake of being young? Still love her?
No, Bai Jingqi kept an idea that he had never told anyone. Yang Jiuhong and Xiang embroidery didn't know Bai Jingqi's real intention until they died.
Let's analyze it bit by bit.
If Xiang Xiu doesn't love Bai Jingqi, according to her cleverness, she won't let herself become an old maid at the age of 28. If she wants to leave and get married, Second Grandma will agree.
And I have to say, Xiang embroidery married Bai Jingqi by some means.
Xiang Xiu first had an intimate relationship with the skin of Seventh Master. At that time, the unmarried Xiang embroidery can be said to be cross the rubicon.
Then she cared about Sophora japonica and provoked the relationship between Sophora japonica and Yang Jiuhong. Yang Jiuhong and Sophora japonica fought. She killed two birds with one stone, which made Yang Jiuhong fall out of favor.
After cleaning up the women around Bai Jingqi, she proposed to Bai Jingqi.
In order to marry Bai Jingqi, she stole countless birth control pills.
A smart girl wants to marry a rich family besides love.
But Xiang Xiu was a man who accompanied Bai Jingqi all his life. Some people say that the confession of long-term love is companionship, so Xiang Xiu still has a lot of love.
Bai Jingqi's love was only given to Huang Chun. He started with his love for Yang Jiuhong, but Yang Jiuhong fell in love. He got married out of duty and morality, but he likes Yang Jiuhong, not love.
Sophora japonica was given to him by the old lady, and he couldn't refuse it because it was soft and fragrant. He may not like Sophora japonica as Yang Jiuhong does. In seventh master's mind, Sophora japonica is more of a warm bed and a servant girl.
So Seventh Master fell in love with Xiang Xiu?
1. First acquaintance
Xiang embroidery, a beautiful girl who is naive, has attracted Bai Jingqi's attention and curiosity. This girl is just different.
Step 2 be together secretly
Yang Jiuhong is clever, but her cleverness is limited. She went to get medicine for the White House and took Sophora japonica all the way, in order to avoid the tenderness between Bai Jingqi and Sophora japonica during her absence, but she underestimated the inferiority of the man or Bai Jingqi, and couldn't tell whether Xiang Xiu intended it or Bai Jingqi needed it. In this empty window, Xiang Xiu was sent to Bai Jingqi's arms.
Soo Ae's is Bai Jingqi, otherwise the cleverness of Xiang embroidery will not be paid in vain, because of love.
But Bai knows very well how smart he is. How can he not understand the mind of a little girl? He did, but at this time, Ye Qi didn't want to marry Xiang embroidery, and even Bai Jingqi didn't want to close his family.
It is because Xiang Xiu knows Bai's attitude that she has been taking birth control pills.
At this moment, Bai Jingqi is in love with Xiang Xiu's body, otherwise he knows. At his age, how could he not consider Xiang Xiu's pregnancy? How could he have the heart to secretly take birth control pills again and again? Not loving or not loving enough.
Although there was no love, Bai Jingqi fell in love with Xiang Xiu at this time.
3. Emotional improvement
Since Xiangxiu and Bai Jingqi had a substantial relationship, Xiangxiu began to plan for her future, which is understandable, so she and Yang Jiuhong had conflicts again and again, and she also took care of Sophora japonica in a seemingly heroic way.
She was somewhat responsible for the death of Sophora japonica, and seldom provoked Sophora japonica against Yang Jiuhong.
Sophora japonica felt ashamed and went back to her room. It is unreasonable that her best friend Xiang embroidery didn't comfort her. If she comforted her, she might be able to save Sophora japonica in time. She didn't comfort her and let things go.
Bai Jingqi felt guilty about the death of Sophora japonica and put all the blame on Yang Jiuhong. Since then, he has left Yang Jiuhong.
At this point, there is only one fragrant show left in Bai Jingqi.
From daily life to nephrite, there is only one fragrance show. Some people say that if you want a man to be inseparable from you, a woman must integrate herself into a man's life, and Xiang embroidery is very good.
At this time, Bai Jingqi relied on Xiang Xiu's comprehensive care, and he touched Xiang Xiu's heart.
Up to now, Bai Jingqi appreciates, likes and relies on Xiang embroidery. These feelings are not love. He wants to take her in, but he doesn't want to marry her.
This is really not. Who's Bai Jingqi? Was he forced and manipulated? If he doesn't want to marry Xiang embroidery, can she force him to succeed?
I can't.
Therefore, it is his wish for Bai Jingqi to marry Xiang embroidery.
As mentioned above, Bai Jingqi doesn't love Xiang embroidery, so did he marry Xiang embroidery because it was young?
Youth is a kind of capital, but for Bai, if he is young just for her, he has the ability to become younger. If Bai Jingqi didn't marry Tu Xiangxiu because she was young.
Is it because he depends on Xiang Xiu's care? No, imagine that if Bai Jingqi doesn't marry Xiang Xiu, he just wants her to be considerate and take care of him so that he can take her in.
Don't say that Xiang Xiu doesn't agree to be a child. At this time, Xiang Xiu is no longer an innocent girl. She is 28 years old. Can she marry a good family? If Bai Jingqi doesn't agree to marry her and insists that she be a child, though she doesn't want to, she is crying and helpless.
Some people say that women are the feng shui of a family, and second grandma is the good feng shui of the White House. It is because of the second grandma that the White House is peaceful and prosperous.
In fact, a big family, just like a harem, is either a queen or a queen mother, who is tolerant, has a foundation and means. Natural harem is peaceful, children are prosperous, and the harem is not straight, so don't think about peace. A family is caught in internal friction and naturally loses slowly!
There hasn't been a hostess in the White House since the second grandma died.
The White House really needs a mistress at this time.
When Xiang Xiu challenged Bai Jingqi to marry her, Bai Jingqi said, "I don't believe it." . Do not push me.
Then Bai Jingqi lit a cigarette. He thought for a moment and agreed.
Why? Because Bai Jingqi is so clever, he thought it over and figured it out. He married for the White House.
The White House needs a mistress, and Bai Jingqi thinks Xiang Xiu's temperament is appropriate.
He used a wife's name to let Xiang Xiu plan and support the White House wholeheartedly, and used his wife's name to let Xiang Xiu serve and contribute to the White House. This is the real reason why Bai Jingqi married Xiang Xiu.
Xiang embroidery is clever and powerful, and can be a town house. Xiang embroidery is brave and scheming. She is calm and aggressive, and the White House can't choose a more suitable person than Xiang Xiu at present.
The old lady refused to recognize Yang Jiuhong when she died. The main reason is that she doesn't want Yang Jiuhong in power. Yang Jiuhong was immersed in love and hate. She is clever, but her level is not high. She can hold up the White House courtyard, but the direction of the White House courtyard will be problematic. If Yang Jiuhong was in charge, she would hand it over, but Xiang Xiu didn't.
From this perspective, Xiang Xiu is fit to undertake the affairs of the White House backyard.
As a matter of fact, Xiang Embroidery really failed to live up to Bai Jingqi's vision, not only taking care of various White House affairs, but also accompanying Bai Jingqi to his death.
Bai Jingqi deserves to be a successful businessman. Marrying Xiang embroidery is a successful thing he did, which is a good thing for him, but not necessarily for Xiang embroidery.
Bai Jingqi meant well, but Xiang Xiubai was as busy as a bee. She really loves Bai Jingqi, but her own conditions, plus birth control pills, make it difficult for her to gain a foothold in the White House, and her adopted son is absent-minded.
Bai Jingqi was so clever that Xiang embroidery devoted her whole life to the White House when she got the title of wife.
This is the true face of successful businessmen in Bai Jingqi. He married Xiang embroidery with ulterior motives. If he gets married correctly, it will be profitable.
Xiang Xiu, because of love, even if she dies alone, she has no complaints.
Only in the end, she didn't know the real reason why Bai Jingqi married her.
1. Don't stick to the wrong door, don't blend into the circle that doesn't belong to you.
I took great pains to marry into a rich family, became the wife of a rich family, won white trust, and my fate successfully counterattacked.
Is this marriage happy?
Xiang Xiu took a lot of birth control pills when she was having an affair with Qiye, which made her unable to get pregnant. It is unfortunate that a woman cannot be a mother and have children of her own. Is it worth the effort?
Bai Jingqi was 60 years old when she got married. Xiang Xiu must die alone. Compared with the short-lived glory, is the loneliness in old age worth it?
Xiang embroidery is young, beautiful and clever. If she doesn't want to marry into a rich family, she will have someone she loves and children of her own. Although she is a small family, she is full of children, husbands and warmth.
After Xiang embroidery married, she changed her domineering attitude and treated the White House wholeheartedly. She thought she was trying to fit in with the White House.
When she was alive, the White House treated her fairly well. Once she leaves Bai Jingqi, her hard-working circle will not accept her.
When White Ye Jing kicked her out of the house, no one in the White House spoke for her.
It is the marriage wisdom that our ancestors left us, and future generations should take it as a warning.
It is ok and brave to try properly in the circle that can't be integrated, and it is understandable to work hard for your own happiness, but it is recommended not to refresh the bottom line again and again, and not to be hard-integrated, which will wronged yourself.
2. Marriage is a natural thing, and any means used in it will blaspheme marriage and take the consequences.
Since Xiang Xiu secretly married Bai Jingqi, she planned to marry Bai Jingqi and bicker with Yang Jiuhong. She was testing the bottom line between Yang Jiuhong and Bai Jingqi. Without Sophora japonica, she killed two birds with one stone and pushed Yang Jiuhong down. Later, she dared Bai Jingqi to marry her. Although Bai Jingqi didn't marry her because she dared, it can be said that she worked hard step by step for success.
The marriage thus obtained is always different from the natural marriage, and the marriage lacks a little taste of love.
Is Xiang Xiu's marriage successful and happy?
The noisy housework in the White House, the fading days, and Bai Jingqi, who was gradually aging and later lost, broke the relationship between Xiang Xiu and his adopted son, and his adopted son Li Tianyi left the mansion to live with his mother and sister-in-law. Xiang Xiu finally had to die alone.
After Yang Jiuhong's death, Bai Jingqi will be buried. Xiang embroidery, the adopted son may come back.
It can be speculated that Xiang embroidery is not as good as Yang Jiuhong in his later years.
Having no children is the lack of marriage and the regret of a woman's life.
Xiang embroidery lacks a son in the White House. If Xiang embroidery has a son, she can enter the White House in a justified way. White even if you mix again, you dare not throw her out, so that she can gain a foothold in the White House.
Her fault is that she has no children.
Children are the bond of marriage. No children is a regret of marriage, and children are the continuation of a woman's life. Having no children is a woman's lifelong regret.
Teasing the ancients also warns life.