"The Art of War" wrote: "A general has five fatal weaknesses, one of which is not to be bullied, impatient and irritable."
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"The Art of War" wrote: "A general has five fatal weaknesses, one of which is not to be bullied, impatient and irritable."
The general is like this, and so are ordinary people. We should be masters of emotions, not dominated by them.
The weak get angry easily and are as fierce as tigers.
Smart and strong people will not get angry easily, and silently use their wisdom and talent to turn hostility into friendship.
Stupid people are narrow-minded and get angry easily.
I was so angry that I couldn't eat or sleep because of a little thing that my physical and mental health was affected.
Sometimes when you are angry, your thoughts and actions run counter to each other completely, and you will only do something you regret in the end.
I once saw a news:
A pair of sisters suddenly quarreled for some reason. The two were so popular that they scrambled to throw things, and my sister even threw her sister's mobile phone out of the car.
My sister is even more angry when she sees this situation. She threw her sister's bag into the trash can.
As a result, my sister has hundreds of thousands of cash checks in her bag, and there are more than 65438+100000 cash. This throw is a huge loss!
They regretted it very much afterwards, but they could only call the police.
Fortunately, it was discovered by an old scavenger, and finally their money was recovered.
In anger, people often lose rational thinking and finally do impulsive things.
Not only delayed others, but also harmed themselves, leaving a lose-lose situation.
Really smart people don't get angry easily, because they have a good attitude and don't punish themselves easily with other people's mistakes.
Think about everything from another angle, and you will be suddenly enlightened. Don't turn yourself into a powder keg that makes people want to stay away.
Angry and growling is really ugly.
For the rest of my life, on the road of growing up, it is a great wisdom to be calm, not to get angry easily, and not to do things that I regret because of impulse.
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Once, Zeng Guofan moved his desk to the window in order to study in a better environment.
I didn't expect to upset my roommate. Roommates complained that Zeng Guofan blocked the light from the window and affected his study.
Zeng Guofan calmly asked him where his desk should be placed, and his roommate directly suggested that he move to the dark side of the house.
Zeng Guofan did not argue calmly. After moving the table, he immediately settled down to study.
The exam is drawing near. Zeng Guofan studied late every day, and his roommate pointed at him again, calling him hypocritical, calling him cold feet and disturbing others to have a rest.
Zeng Guofan ignored his cynicism and continued to roam in the ocean of knowledge.
Later, the results came out, and Zeng Guofan was on the list, but his roommate did a terrible job in the exam. He blamed Zeng Guofan for taking away all the good feng shui.
Roommates always find fault, but Zeng Guofan is not angry at all, but calmly faces it.
Huang Xing said: "Nothing is difficult in the world, I am afraid that there is a will."
In life, we will inevitably encounter unpleasant things. Treat it calmly, treat it with peace and tolerance, and you will win.
Don't get emotional, focus on your life, and don't tangle with rotten people.
From now on, be a strong person, skillfully resolve emotions and control your life.
In A Dream of Red Mansions, the love between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu is touching and romantic.
Although Grandmother Jia likes both Daiyu and Baoyu, she doesn't approve of Baoyu marrying Daiyu in her heart, because Daiyu is often out of control.
We like Daiyu's true temperament, but we are worried about her bad mood.
Daiyu often lost her temper, so she ignored it, said many hurtful things and did many things she regretted.
Baoyu was a little closer to Baochai, who was depressed and kept looking for opportunities to ridicule Baoyu.
The maids' wives said something insignificant, which was over-interpreted by her as a tragedy.
Shi Xiangyun didn't mean to say that the "player" was similar to Daiyu. Baoyu was afraid that Daiyu would be angry, so he quickly stopped it with his eyes.
It was well-intentioned, but it made Daiyu lose control of her emotions. Daiyu even said rude words like "I'll never see you again" ...
Daiyu's out of control, on the one hand, made her angry, on the other hand, offended many people, on the other hand, made Baoyu, who loved herself, sad.
Sometimes it is obviously someone else's fault, but Daiyu is angry, torturing herself in grievances and finally dying, which makes people feel distressed.
An irritable and easily controlled person is the most vulnerable and easily defeated.
Compared with the perfection of talent and love, readers are more willing to see Daiyu adjust her mood and live a good life.
Coincidentally, a young man and his girlfriend quarreled in Huai 'an, Jiangsu. He was furious and his fingers suddenly became as stiff as chicken feet.
After being rushed to the hospital, the young man realized that he was angry.
Breathing too fast due to emotional ups and downs, and respiratory alkalosis caused by insufficient carbon dioxide in the body.
Fortunately, the young man went to the doctor in time, otherwise the consequences would be unimaginable.
The most useless thing in the world is to be angry.
Even if things are not satisfactory, it is a person's most basic accomplishment to be rational and polite and not to lose his temper with others.
Relieve your emotions in time, instead of letting people who love you pay the bill.
Hold your horses when something goes wrong. People who are angry and gentle are more likely to gain the love and respect of others.
Regulating emotions is more important than anything else. Some things don't need to be haggled over. If you win the truth, you lose your feelings, which is not worth the loss.
When you learn to control your emotions, it also implies that you are getting better.
Control your emotions, don't be swallowed up by emotions, learn to be the master of emotions, and you will get unexpected surprises.
Du Yuesheng said: "The first person has the ability to lose his temper, the second person has the ability to lose his temper, and the last person has no ability to lose his temper."
It seems that people who have no temper are the most capable people. We should learn to be those who have no temper and are capable.
Irritability is hurting your stupidity and calmness. Being kind to your wisdom and adjusting your mood is more important than anything else.
When people get along with each other, contradictions will inevitably arise. Anger is instinct, and controlling emotions is wisdom.
Life is not to be angry, but to be beautiful. Don't be a slave to emotions, be the master of your own life.
When you are angry, you can resist hurtful words and angry impulses, which can better show a person's character and generosity.
The best way to cherish life is not to preserve health, but to control your emotions and make your heart stronger and more mature.
A person's high match in life is not to have money, but to control his emotions and end his life gracefully and calmly.