Can married girlfriends be bridesmaids?
In western-style weddings, bridesmaids must be unmarried women. Because the church is a very pure place, no matter married or divorced women can be bridesmaids. But in traditional weddings, bridesmaids in some areas must be married and have a son. Because most elders want bridesmaids to bring their good luck to the bride.
Can you be happy as a bridesmaid?
Traditional view
In real life, we often hear the saying that if you are a bridesmaid for more than three times, you will never get married. Traditionally, being a bridesmaid is equivalent to handing over one's own destiny (marriage) to others (bride and groom), so the fate of bridesmaids is less every time. Of course, the more you are a bridesmaid, the thinner the fate is.
Realistic angle
In fact, when you are a bridesmaid for others, you can get a little joy, because many bridesmaids can find their Mr. Right at the wedding of the couple. However, there are also many single older women who, after becoming bridesmaids, hear the bride pour out her troubles in marriage life. Over time, they have a fear of marriage and resist marriage.
What kind of person is not suitable to be a bridesmaid?
A bridesmaid who loves to drink.
The bridesmaid is the one who takes care of the bride on the wedding day, so she should stay absolutely awake. What's more, abstinence is not a bridesmaid's job. You can change the best man. If you find a girl who loves to drink as a bridesmaid, I'm afraid she will be as drunk as a fiddler before the wedding is over, or even at the wedding reception, and the scene will be embarrassing.
An outspoken bridesmaid
At the wedding, the bride and groom have many relatives and friends, and the relationship is very complicated. A good bridesmaid needs to pay attention to her words and deeds. If she accidentally says something wrong in front of relatives and friends, it may cause the couple a lifetime of regret. Therefore, an outspoken bridesmaid must never have one.
Gorgeous bridesmaid
The bridesmaid is the foil of the bride. I believe that any bride does not want the bridesmaid to be more outstanding than herself. A beautiful bridesmaid who is very keen on dressing herself is obviously very unpopular and will steal the bride's thunder.