How long can I attend the happy event at the funeral?

China has been a country of etiquette since ancient times. Pay attention to etiquette no matter big or small, especially when it comes to big weddings and funerals. When you get married, you will choose an auspicious day, and you will also choose a place according to the constellation of the couple. Most people pay attention to wearing red when they get married, which means happiness. On the contrary, funerals and happy events are the last commemoration of the dead. So the funeral is sad, mainly in black and white, which is also a respect for the deceased. So if there are funerals and happy events around, are there any taboos for attending funerals?

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How long can a funeral be a happy event?

1. How long can I attend the happy event at the funeral? Generally, I can attend a happy event after the funeral, which has no influence on the people who attend. In ancient times, white people were also called white marriages, so white people were as happy as weddings. So you can attend the wedding immediately after attending the white matter. However, in some places, customs are different. I think it's unlucky to watch the White Party and I shouldn't attend the wedding. Therefore, we should communicate well with friends around us to avoid conflicts. But in most areas, the dead are the most important people. After attending the funeral, you can attend the happy event.

Others are mourners. People who attend other people's weddings must know the local customs like the back of their hands. Don't rush to attend the wedding and have conflicts with others. This is also a disrespect for the deceased. In the words of Feng Shui, Yin Qizhong is the one who lost his filial piety. If they suddenly attend a wedding with a large number of people and a heavy sun spirit, they will easily be overjoyed and ill because of Yin Qi's heavy sun spirit, thus affecting their fortune. During the mourning period, because of low-key behavior, it is not appropriate to eat fish and drink alcohol. Try not to attend other people's weddings or go to other people's homes during mourning.

Can I go to the wedding after the funeral? Nowadays, in most areas, it is allowed to attend a happy event after a funeral. Because funerals are also called white things, just like happy events, and it doesn't matter if you attend at the same time. But the specific situation depends on local customs. In some places, attending funerals is considered unlucky and not allowed to attend happy events. So try not to attend other people's weddings after the funeral. Some places also think that attending a happy event after a funeral is a kind of respect for the deceased and will not affect the wedding, so you can attend the wedding after a funeral.

In China, there are many taboos about funeral etiquette within seven days of family funeral. If a relative dies at home, keep quiet at home when the relative is dying. Gather all the people closest to the deceased and listen to the last exhortation to reassure them. Don't cry loudly within 16 hours after the death of a loved one, so that the deceased can't let go. During the seven-day wake, try not to take a shower or wear beautiful clothes. Besides, during the wake, men and women can't use one room to show their respect for their dead relatives.