It’s not that I realize it, even if you give it to me, I can’t hold it.
If morality is not matched, there will be disaster. The money earned by luck in those years will also be lost by strength. Ding Yuanying can control everything. He cannot control Rui Xiaodan's life and pursuit: Ideals and dreams, because there is one thing that can only be done by Rui Xiaodan, that is to meet the best version of yourself, be the person you like best, and do the things you like best.
Rui Xiaodan could not be a police officer, he could be a screenwriter, he could be an actor, a teacher, a lawyer, a doctor, but Rui Xiaodan spent the first 26 years alone using love to shine and heal himself; after falling in love, he discovered that people The emotions in the world are so wonderful. Asking what love is in the world can directly teach you whether life and death are together.
So if Rui Xiaodan wants to awaken, in addition to the internal factors that cannot change Rui Xiaodan, Ding Yuanying can only assist external factors to promote Rui Xiaodan's awakening to the realm of heaven. It can be said that Rui Xiaodan's death is the result of the "cooking" of the surrounding environment. Out of life. The lack of care and love from her native family, as well as her own sufficient and generous living conditions, from the perspective of Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory, Rui Xiaodan's answer to the meaning and value of her life goes beyond daily necessities, beyond food, rice, oil and salt, and beyond supporting her family. She would rather Do something for this society.
Thinking about it from another perspective, no matter how selfish we are, we cannot make decisions for Rui Xiaodan. We cannot make decisions for anyone else, because the reason a person is a human being is that she has the right to choose her own life, and a person As an adult, she understands better than anyone else the brevity and meaning of life.
In the secular sense, it is better to live than to die, and the conceptual barriers between life and death. When Rui Xiaodan was about to die, she had already let go of all her attachments. The only thing she could not let go of was her love with Ding Yuanying. Therefore, instead of saying that Rui Xiaodan awakened to the realm of heaven, it is better to say that Rui Xiaodan packed up love, memories of love, the past, and beautiful yearnings, sealed them all, put them in his heart, made wine, and then became drunk with butterflies and drunk with life.
Ding Yuanying took Rui Xiaodan to Jerusalem. The purpose is very simple, to turn things upside down. The world of mortals and the sky are upside down. Our world of mortals is another sky. Everyone is under the dome and doesn't take it seriously.
When we call, pray, bless, and pray, the meaning is psychological comfort. God is not God, it is not the function of the savior, but the projection of our own heart. If we are strong, the projection is strong, and if we are weak, the projection is No place to be ashamed of.
Ding Yuanying kills the rich and helps the poor in a pragmatic way, creates the myth of wealth, and provides targeted poverty alleviation.
The way Ding Yuanying loves Rui Xiaodan is more of a self-consistency with him in the spiritual world, which allows Rui Xiaodan to make a leap in cognitive realm and realize the true meaning of life, life, and love. Time, space, and the past are all Nothingness, the first second of love and the next second are not love, this second of love and one more second of love are just this second. Then in the next second, he died generously, and even though he died nine times, he still had no regrets.
We also need to understand that Ding Yuanying really wants Rui Xiaodan to understand the issue of cultural attributes. Destiny comes over and over again, and the way of heaven does not depend on human will.
The nonsense words Ding Yuanying told Rui Xiaodan, you know you, so you are you, you know you are not you, so you are not yourself. Everyone knows very well that they know, so how far is the distance between personal knowledge and objective knowledge? Everyone knows that the unfair competition in metrical poetry is certain, why did the judge rule against it, everyone knows the natural law of birth, old age, illness and death, why can someone survive in a limited time? Time is your own time to live your own wonderful life, some people are destined to be mediocre.
It is actually quite sad to know that you have done nothing to live a day in your life. What's more, Ding Yuanying's evaluation of Rui Xiaodan's behavior is not understanding, but admiration, just like Huang Fuhai was confused when he saw Rui Xiaodan's choice. How he cherished life, how he obtained it by breaking the rules, how he smashed, smashed, looted and burned, and committed all kinds of evil, but Rui Xiaodan lived and died so calmly and unbelievably.
Knowing yourself is far better than being able to have both ends of the spectrum in life and relationships, because there is no doubt that inner drive plays a more vital role in shaping individual cultural attributes than external stimulation.
What is me? In "The Legend of Liancheng", Di Yun was severely beaten by this real world. Everyone he met, including the master and the people around him, was driven by interests to move forward. Only Di Yun missed his junior sister and wanted to live an ordinary life, and finally went to live in seclusion in the snowy mountains with Shui Sheng. Everyone has a piece of pure land in their hearts, and everyone wants to live their lives in their own way. That's all.
Everything originates from ourselves, our hearts, spiritual pursuits, blood inheritance, cultural inheritance, and the construction and spread of other spiritual civilizations.
So if we want to leave wisdom to others and leave it to future generations, it is far better than leaving some property and material things. Many people try their best to give their children more money and property. , but neglect the children's education, thinking, realm and pursuit, putting the cart before the horse.
Therefore, whether Zeng Guofan or old Rockefeller, they all left books and letters to their sons and descendants, so that future generations can learn how to make a living and how to cultivate themselves. The continuity of the big family, Not because of continuous good fortune, not because of good "Feng Shui" pattern, but because of the environment and atmosphere of the parents and the home, love and care, nourishing every cell and pore of the family, giving the child a sound personality and a person who can pursue his own ideals. The enthusiasm and piety of throwing one's head and spilling blood.