The worse the family, the more you should keep studying. The ancients said: one life, two fortunes, three feng shui, four products and five studies. If you are not skilled when you are reincarnated, your family is not good, your life is not good, your luck is not good, your ancestral graves are not smoky, and your parents have no virtue, then the fastest way to change your destiny is to study.
Zhang Guimei, the headmistress, said, "For girls in poor mountainous areas, reading is 65,438+0,000% important. Only by studying can you go out. "
Alice Murray, the prototype heroine of the film The Storm on Harvard Road, was born in poverty, her parents were drug addicts and lived in the dirtiest and most chaotic environment. She persisted in studying hard, completed the four-year high school course in two years, and successfully won a high scholarship from The New York Times, thus successfully entering Harvard University for further study and getting rid of the life in the gutter.
It's not our fault that we were born badly. We are born as human beings, and there is no need to be sorry. After all, this is not our choice, but we can change our living environment and state through our own efforts to meet a new life.
So, be sure to read more books. Reading can make you unwilling to the lower class and make you determined.
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Second, adhere to independence.
For a long time, influenced by the decadent idea of son preference, many families have an idea that girls can live a good life by getting married without training. Anyway, married is someone else's. Why lose money to teach? It is better to train your own son and provide for yourself in the future.
Influenced by this concept, many girls have formed the idea of pinning their hopes and happiness on men.
They can't think independently, live independently and have no independent spirit. They think that they can't live without men, and they can't live.
They can't get love from their families, so they can only pray for it from other men.
The film "The Life of Disliked Pine Nuts" is the best example. As the eldest daughter of the family, Matsuko's childhood was not happy.
Her sister Kumi was born with a disease, bedridden for a long time and unable to live like a normal person.
The father is worried that his little daughter doesn't know how long she can live, and she is often depressed and embarrassed. Whenever pine nuts think that the gift his father brought home is for himself, he is disappointed. This is written by his father to his sister.
Whenever Matsuko wanted his father's attention and love, his father didn't want to look at her again, so he hurried to take care of his sister.