Marriage and marriage system are mostly feudal customs before the founding of the People's Republic of China. The marriage process generally goes through mediation, parents' consent to engagement, in-laws' visit, son-in-law's visit, daily report, wedding ceremony, dowry, bride and groom's visit to the wedding, tying the knot, thanking the media, thanking guests and returning home three times. When the bride comes to the door in a sedan chair, she will cry, set off firecrackers, blow the horn, knock the gongs and drums, and send her away with great excitement. At the door, the new husband will greet him, choose two women who are both long-lived and long-lived, and help the bride get off the sedan chair. The bride covered her head with a red handkerchief, and together with the groom, she went into the hall to worship her ancestors and heaven and earth, and then went into the bridal chamber. The groom unveiled the red handkerchief, and the husband and wife sat together to drink tea and tie the knot, making a scene for the new house at night. The next day, I visited my aunt, and the bride and my aunt had dinner together. On the third day, they went into the kitchen to make soup, and the husband and wife went back to their parents' home to visit relatives together and returned the same day. During the Republic of China, many large families in cities and towns also got married in imitation of western style, and their manners were greatly improved. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, men and women were free to marry, and the wedding was generally simple, but they also went through the process of love, door-to-door engagement, holiday communication, formal wedding and returning home to visit relatives. Rural weddings are grand and there are many old habits. Please ask the media to introduce you before you get married. After marriage, you should give rich gifts to the woman's family three times a year, add clothes and expensive gifts when you are engaged, and add pig jar wine when you get married.
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& ltbr & gt Funeral is a bad habit in the old society, which is quite superstitious. After the death of the old father and mother, funeral ceremonies should be held to show filial piety to their children. The funeral of the poor is simple, while the rich are extravagant. From mourning to mourning, the following etiquette is generally needed: when you die, you should lift the door panel and burn the road money; The body takes a bath, collapses after dressing, and is sent to the coffin; Give obituaries to relatives and friends, set up mourning halls, and children take turns to be filial; Relatives wear white mourning clothes, women wear white skirts, and relatives and friends wear white hijab and semi-white shoes; Within three days, accept condolences from relatives and friends, enter the funeral and seal the coffin; Those who come to pay their respects will be given axes, elegiac couplets, money, and some will be given to three animals, all of whom will burn incense and bow down. The dutiful son will bow down in the curtain, set off firecrackers, play funeral music and help the funeral. During the period when the coffin was parked, Taoist priests were invited to fast, recite Buddha, manage lights, do seven things, and break the prison, etc., in order to cross over the soul for the dead and avoid sin in hell; Before the funeral, he held a memorial service, the ceremony called, and he cried and mourned. The dutiful son wears a straw rope around his waist, a Ma Xie, a filial piety stick in his hand and a white cloth on his head. He paid homage to the ceremony three times, repeatedly burning incense and kowtowing, crying; At the funeral, gongs were fired, firecrackers were set off, and paper money was thrown along the way; Before burial, please ask Mr. Feng Shui to choose a good place, determine the direction and time of the grave, dig the pit in advance, and camp for burial on time. After the founding of People's Republic of China (PRC), these old customs and superstitious activities basically stopped. Festivals are very popular among the people, almost every month, depending on the season and climate of the lunar calendar. The first day of the first month is New Year's Day, also known as the Spring Festival. Get up early to open the door, set off firecrackers, go out to the Arabian Nights, worship parents and wish each other well. After dinner, neighbors paid a visit, paid New Year greetings, and friends and relatives began to communicate. On this day, we don't clean the kitchen, but save it. When we meet, we all say "Congratulations on getting rich". On the seventh day of the seventh lunar month, people set off firecrackers at night, such as New Year's Eve, wishing mankind a long life. The fifteenth is the Lantern Festival, and it is popular to play with dragon lanterns and lanterns. February 15th is the Flower Festival. In March, Tomb-Sweeping Day is Tomb-Sweeping Day, to pay homage to ancestors and martyrs and to remember them. The eighth day of April is the Buddha washing festival, the fifth day of May is the Dragon Boat Festival, the sixth day of June is the Mid-Autumn Festival, the seventh day of July is the Seven Spirits Festival, the fifteenth day is the Mid-Autumn Festival, the ninth day of September is the Double Ninth Festival, the fifteenth day of October is the Xiaoyangchun Festival, the eighth day of the twelfth lunar month is the Laba Festival, and the 23rd day is a gift to the kitchen god. The last day of the twelfth lunar month is the twelfth lunar month. After the founding of People's Republic of China (PRC), some of them remained, giving them new content and significance. In addition, many important festivals on the Gregorian calendar have been added, such as San? Eight, five? One, five? Four or six? One, eight? One, ten? First-class, can be said to be both old and new, innovation.