Can the old man not sweep the grave during the first year of his death?

The first year of the old man's death, Qingming does not sweep the grave. If the old man doesn't sweep the grave in the first year of his death, everyone will be born and die. After the death of a relative in the family, many people say that the first year of Qingming does not sweep the grave. Let me take a look at the relevant information about Qingming does not sweep the grave in the first year of the old man's death. In the first year of the old man's death, he didn't sweep the grave. 1 China has a vast territory and varied folk customs, which can be described as one country and one custom. In the first year after the death of the old man, the date of death in Tomb-Sweeping Day happened to be during the Qingming Festival (or during the Qingming Festival, that is, the first three days and the last four days). Different places have different opinions because of different local customs. In some places, after going to a new grave within three years (in some places, it is also called "hanging early green"), it is taboo to visit the old grave again, while in some places, it is forbidden to visit the old grave only after going to the new grave in the first year. People think it is unlucky to hang green twice a year. However, in some places, there is no such stress. You can go to the new grave and then sweep the old grave during the Qingming Festival. There is no conflict between them, and both the old and the new are taken care of. According to the meaning of the subject, it should be the first year of the old man's death in the local area. After he went to the new grave, he was forbidden to visit the old grave by Tomb-Sweeping Day. According to our folk tradition, the old man should go to a new grave within three years after his death (in some places, it is only one year). The time of going to the new grave is different from the time of sweeping the grave in Qingming. Strictly speaking, the time of going to the new grave should be in front of the society. In some places, it is difficult to remember the date, and it is stipulated to choose an auspicious day around the vernal equinox. In the old days, people regarded going to a new grave and sweeping graves in Qingming Festival as two different things, which were clearly divided. There were sayings that "going to a new grave is not a club" and "going to a grave on Qingming Festival is a club". Then what is a "society"? Society, that is, society day. There are spring clubs and autumn clubs in China. Spring clubs are based on beginning of spring and calculated on the fifth day after beginning of spring. The time is not fixed, generally around the second day of the second lunar month. Autumn Club, based on beginning of autumn, is also calculated according to the fifth day after beginning of autumn, usually in the eighth month of the lunar calendar. Then what is May Day? It's complicated to talk about here. Simply put, the May Day is based on the heavenly stems and earthly branches, and it is pushed from the old Huang calendar in the order of sixty jiazi. Every sixty days is a round, there will be six combinations of Wuzi, Wuyin, Wuchen, Wuwu, Wushen and Wuxu, which correspond to six days. These six days are called Wuri, which is also called "Liuwu" by the people. Social Day, also known as Social Day Festival among the people, is also known as Land Birthday, which is the birthday of the land. The land has two birthdays a year. According to the traditional folk custom in rural areas of our country, when sowing in spring every year, we should set up a society to offer sacrifices, pray for the land god, and give a year of good weather and abundant crops; After harvesting the grain in the field in autumn, we should also set up a society to sacrifice. At this time, the sacrifice is to reward the land god. According to the needs of the people, most of the calendars on the market now print the lunar calendar days on the traditional old yellow calendar, and generally you can find out when the fifth May Day is. For example, I found on the calendar that the fifth May Day after beginning of spring in 221 is: March 21st (the ninth day of the second lunar month), which is the May Day, that is, Spring Festival. According to the traditional custom, if this year is the first year of the old man's death, then the time to go to the new grave must be before March 21, that is, the ninth day of the second lunar month, which is called "going to the new grave but not going to the society". The tomb sweeping day must pass March 21st, that is, "the tomb sweeping day must pass the society". It's a common custom in most places to officially kick off the grave sweeping ten days before leaving Tomb-Sweeping Day. In some places, it is customary to sweep graves in front of Tomb-Sweeping Day, but not after Tomb-Sweeping Day (including). In some places, it is emphasized that "the Qingming Festival in March hangs in the front, and the Qingming Festival in February hangs in the back" (hanging, which is commonly known among the people as hanging green), and there are three days before and four days after the Qingming Festival, that is, the first three days in Tomb-Sweeping Day and the last four days after Tomb-Sweeping Day. This year in Tomb-Sweeping Day, it is April 4th, 28 (February 23rd of the lunar calendar). Let's talk about going to the grave on the anniversary of death. Deathday, in terms of the death of the elderly, is also called the date of death, the day when the ancestors or elders died. Old people can't go to the grave on the day of death, and customs vary from place to place. In some places, banquets or entertainment activities are held on the anniversary of the death of the elderly, while in others, they just silently pay homage at home. In a place like this where there is no need to pay homage to the grave on the anniversary of the death of the elderly, Qingming Day is the anniversary of the death of the elderly, so it is natural to pay homage at home without going to the grave. In some places, when the old people die, the custom in rural customs is to go to the grave, that is to say, this is a procedure that people must abide by. From a folk point of view, you can go to the new grave on Qingming Day, just don't move the old grave. For example, cutting the firewood on the old grave, or inserting paper money on the grave of the old grave, offering sacrifices in front of the altar of the old grave, etc., if you don't do these things, it means that you haven't swept the grave of the old grave. From another point of view, going to the grave on the anniversary of death and going to the tomb on Qingming Day are two different things. Tomb-Sweeping Day worships ancestors, while going to the grave on the anniversary of death is to pay homage to the elderly. Although there is only one word difference between "sacrifice" and "memorial", there are certain differences in the mood of the people who went to the grave and the sacrifices they brought. However, there is a custom in some places that it is forbidden to go to the grave twice in a month. If there is such a saying in the place where the subject is located, and there is a new grave in front of the club, it will be less than a month before the club is in Qingming. Like this, even if there is a custom in the place that it is necessary to go to the grave on the day of death, people will give up going to the grave and pay homage at home instead. Modern society has entered a new era, with new fashions, and some old local customs are constantly changing. Many young people generally don't pay attention to these things and don't stick to ancient customs. Going to the grave on the day of death, going to a new grave, and sweeping the grave on Qingming Day are all to miss their loved ones and express their feelings of missing, regardless of any taboos. In the first year of the old man's death, he didn't sweep the grave for 2 new graves (buried for less than 3 years), and went to the grave for the first time. He chose an auspicious day 1 days before Tomb-Sweeping Day, and went to the grave for the second time, on the day before Tomb-Sweeping Day; The time to visit the grave for the third time is to choose an auspicious day among the 1 days after Tomb-Sweeping Day. Old graves (buried for more than 3 years) can be visited on one day 1 days before and after Tomb-Sweeping Day. Legend has it that there will be a meeting in the underworld of Tomb-Sweeping Day, and no one who goes to the grave can attend. To attend the conference, you must enter the venue with flags sent by your loved ones. Therefore, when you go to the grave on Qingming Festival, you will insert paper-cut flags in the grave. Do you want to burn paper in Tomb-Sweeping Day in the first year? Every year after the death of a loved one, it is necessary to burn paper and pay homage, especially in the first year. In the first year, it is best to burn it in his (her) cemetery, and if you can't spare time in the future, just burn it in the place where he (she) stayed before his (her) death. What did Tomb-Sweeping Day say when the old man died? 1. A woman who is not formally married but is only a girlfriend cannot accompany her boyfriend to the grave. 2. Pregnant women who are pregnant and women who are coming for their holidays cannot go to the grave to sweep the grave; 3. In some places, it is also stipulated that a woman whose husband died less than three years can't go to the grave to sweep the grave. 4. Women who are weak or sick can't go to the grave to sweep the grave. If they must go, they must wear amulets such as jade or jade Buddha with them. 5. Families with new daughters-in-law and newborn children must take their new daughters-in-law and mothers who have just given birth to their children to the grave in Tomb-Sweeping Day this year. In the first year of the old man's death, he won't visit the grave on Qingming Day. 3 As long as he is in Tomb-Sweeping Day, it is convenient for him to see himself. Of course, there are some local customs everywhere, and we should respect them. Also, for some customs, there are some differences in time between sweeping graves for relatives who have died within one year and those who have died for more than one year. Remind friends to follow the local customs. The specific time of departure on the day of grave sweeping needs to be based on your own situation, preferably at 5-7 o'clock, that is, Maoshi. In the ancient calendar, it was one. Of course, it's usually not so early now, but I still remind my friends that it's best to finish the Qingming Mountain Worship before 3 pm, because the yang has gradually subsided and the yin has gradually increased. If people are unlucky, they will easily be haunted or harassed by the yin. The usual procedure of sweeping graves in Qingming Festival: According to the custom, the order of sweeping sacrifices is to sweep the graves first, that is, to clean the cemetery. Secondly, sacrifice, this procedure is very important, one is to mourn and the other is to feel with the ancestors, because the mountains have spirits without owners, and the ancestors have masters without spirits, and feeling with the ancestors can better get the aura of mountains and rivers. Remind friends that this is Feng Shui. When sweeping the grave, people bring food, wine, fruit, paper money and other items to the cemetery, offer food to their relatives' graves, then incinerate the paper money, cultivate new soil for the grave, trim the grave, fold a few fresh green branches and insert them on the grave, and press some paper money on it to show others that there are descendants in the grave, and then kowtow and worship. Namely: modify the cemetery-incense-meat-toast-worship-shoot off …