The dead are unlucky and bad in people's cognition. No one has died in life since ancient times, and the dead are inevitable. Therefore, there is still a saying in the countryside that the dead are the biggest. Everything has to make way for the dead.
There are dead people in our village, and carrying coffins always passes through the villagers' doors, but no one has ever let them pass. Even if the dead and the residents passing by, people who always have any contradictions and never take a reason, as long as the dead pass by carrying coffins, they are all smooth and don't stop. According to the elders, carrying the coffin into the door is to send officials and things, which means promoting to a higher position and making a fortune. So no one has ever refused.
However, some people don't think that carrying a coffin into the door is to send officials and things, which means promoting to a higher position and making a fortune. The coffin will pretend to be dead, and the dead will become fools, which means bad luck. But don't stop it, stop it and let it pass. But in order to avoid bad luck invading the home, it will have a bad influence on people. When you carry a coffin into the door, you always light a pile of straw prepared in advance at the door. According to the elders, ghosts are afraid of grass fire, which can drive away ghosts. Therefore, when carrying the coffin into the door, the owner immediately lit a straw fire to exorcise ghosts and protect his family.
Generally speaking, we get along well in the village. We can understand that the deceased is the most important when we carry the coffin by the door, so we should let the deceased be buried as soon as possible. Can't stop it. People who died outside before were not allowed to go home in the village, so they had to build a shed outside the village and bury it.
Now that someone is dead outside, go back to the village and go home for burial. No one will stop asking about it. If someone dies, do what you want. Nobody cares about you. Our village is very friendly and will not deliberately embarrass the owner of the deceased.
Everyone has different opinions, and some people will feel unlucky. Some people think that the dead are the biggest. I heard a story when I was a child.
Once upon a time, there was a family who built a new house and moved in. At the beginning of the banquet, a businessman selling coffin nails came.
Hearing this, the master felt very unlucky. Send someone to get rid of the businessman.
Mr. Feng Shui, who happened to watch the sky for him, was also present. Immediately stopped the owner's behavior. The host asked why.
Mr. Feng Shui explained that "coffins are officials, materials are wealth, and nails are people. In your wedding date, someone can automatically deliver what we have been looking forward to all our lives (official, financial and professional). That is a distinguished guest. "
So the shopkeeper told the businessman to sit at the table and have a good meal. I had a full meal and spent the night before leaving.
This family used to be businessmen. People are always kind. After the owner moved into the new house, the business grew bigger and bigger.
The following year, he was elected as the capital of a state. Since then, the officialdom has been smooth sailing, the family is happy and life is smooth.
There is an old saying in our countryside that if Chery can happen on the day when we move into a new house, it will be a good sign. And it is the cruelest thing that people don't get rich overnight. The businessman spent the night in his house, which was a big surprise!
Therefore, events can never be wrong. What is wrong is our view of the event. You are afraid of bad luck, that's bad luck, you are not afraid of bad luck, that's happiness!
We don't have to be influenced by events. There is a saying that "peace of mind is naturally cool." It's hot, but if we are calm inside, it's no harm to be hot!
Once an honest man's father died, and when the coffin of the funeral was carried to the door of a "cruel man", suddenly the young people of this family came out of their room angrily and stepped forward to stop him from entering the door. The dutiful son of the main family kowtowed and begged for mercy, and relatives, friends and coffin bearers begged him to let him go. I can't say a good word. The enraged coffin carrier couldn't stand this evil deed, so he put the coffin on the main entrance of the "cruel house" with a wooden stool and still wouldn't let him pass. One of the elders was very angry and shouted, don't go until you let him go! Let all the coffin bearers go back and put the coffin here. The pallbearers really left, and so did most of undertaker.
At this time, the "cruel people" felt that they had played too hard and wanted them to pass, but the person who carried the coffin failed. If not, put the coffin next to the "cruel man" door. Finally, someone called the police, and the village cadres and the police intervened, demanding that the "cruel people" pay for each person who carried the coffin to buy a pair of sports shoes and a pack of cigarettes, and kowtow to a man named Pima Dai Xiao, otherwise they would not be carried away. Maybe "malicious people" means something and have to do it.
If it is the only way, why not agree? It is a custom in my hometown that the funeral procession passes through the road outside my house. The householder will set off a braided gun prepared in advance to show his respect, and the filial family who protects the coffin will immediately kneel down and kowtow to the householder, who will hold the filial family and carry it away quickly after both sides pay tribute. My hometown is not afraid to walk in front of the coffin, but behind the house, so I will pay special attention to this problem when building a house. If you really can't avoid it, you can only change the road, go around from the back and then go through the front. Because the back is the seat of the gods, the territory of ancestors, and the dead outside are not allowed to disturb.
Ah, well, I didn't expect such a problem? Is this something you can decide with or without consent? Do you think building a house in Putian needs the consent of neighbors? Anyway, for so many years, the village has never met anyone who won't let others carry coffins into the door, even though there have been contradictions and disputes between the two sides for generations. Feudal superstition is not difficult to kill. It is enough for you to ask this question.
If someone dies, he will put it at his door. Maybe there are no such people in the world, and there are too few. Everyone who dies is big, just like my family lives on the side of the road. Sometimes drag one or two people to the door, regret it, and still live. Really, I'm alive, 67 years old, and I haven't seen it. I've only seen someone else's old man die, be carried up the mountain and pass by his door.
However, I am worried that it will affect my fortune. To make way for others is to leave a way for yourself. This is also a question of virtue. On the contrary, it is immoral for you not to let others live. There are two couples in our village, who don't associate with or say a word to anyone in the village. They are unruly and unreasonable in the village and always try their best to embarrass others. Anyway, they are just a hooligan who has no money and two lives like me. An old man died in the community, and the coffin was carried by his family. There used to be a road next to his house. ) The lady's life and death were uncertain on the road, but later she changed her route and took a long detour. Later, his father and wife died, and the villagers each gave 100 yuan to help him take care of the funeral. I don't know how the couple felt at that time. Do you have a penitent attitude? Later, all the facts proved that the couple were still the same. I just don't know if the couple will be taken care of if they are sick or die.
There is a saying in China that the dead are the biggest. From this sentence we can see the respect for the dead in traditional culture.
Our rule here is to set off a firecracker when you pass by someone else's door.
In rural areas, most people live in big yards. The old people have been there for a hundred years, and everyone has gone to help. The dead are also great, including filial piety. Not to mention whether you agree to pass by your door, but when you pass by, you should also put some artillery escort to protect the soul of the deceased.