Everything in the world, you can look at it with two concepts, one is positive, the other is negative, and the other is negative, which is like a coin, one is positive and the other is negative; How to look at it, this right or wrong is the mentality, completely depending on your own thoughts.
A positive attitude can make people happy, enterprising, energetic and energetic, while a negative attitude can make people depressed, sad and have no initiative.
You will be what you want to be.
Worry and joy are mixed, and success or failure depends only on one thought, that is, mentality.
Mentality determines many aspects.
Things depend on how we look at them.
Life is a drama. You are a director and screenwriter. You can make yourself the protagonist, or you can let the protagonist go to other places to deliver food.
The highest state of a person is to hold a normal heart and calmly deal with anything.
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mankind
The advantages of human nature
The most important thing is not to see what is vague in the distance, but to do what is clear in front of you. Living in a completely independent today.
Accepting the worst can give you new abilities.
We can handle annoying daily work by hand, but don't let it enter the liver, lungs and blood.
Work-keeping you busy-is the best treatment for mental illness.
Don't exaggerate the importance of small things.
We ask ourselves according to the average rate, how likely is it that I am worried now?
You should know that leisure time is tight, and steal time when you are busy.
Adapt to the inevitable.
Know how to cultivate.
Rest is not a waste of life, it can make you do more sober and efficient things when you are awake.
Four good work habits: 1. Just put what you are dealing with on the table. 2. Do things according to their importance. Don't hesitate when you encounter problems. 4. Learn how to organize, manage and supervise at different levels.
If you "pretend" to be interested in your job, this little pretend will make your interest real, and it can also reduce your fatigue, tension and worry.
You can't sleep. You might as well sit up and read.
Weakness of human nature
Ben Ming Jie, the American ambassador to France, revealed the secret of his success: "I only say the advantages of everyone I meet."
Don't criticize, blame or complain.
Don't force others to admit their mistakes. Psychologist Gao Bote said, "People just admit their mistakes in unimportant things."
First impression is the key.
Try to cater to other people's interests
Enthusiasm is always the key to the success of the entertainment circle.
2/kloc-Freud, an outstanding psychologist in the 20th century, said that everything we do comes from two motives: the desire for sex and the desire to be an important person. The way to give full play to one's ability is praise and encouragement. There is a difference between praise and compliment. The former is sincere, from the heart, and the latter is hypocritical, from the teeth.
Don't worry about those who attack you, but be careful to compliment your friends.
The only way to influence others is to talk about what they want and teach them how to achieve it.
A person who can see things from other people's point of view will never have to worry about his future.
Asking the other person for help will not only make him feel important, but also gain friendship and cooperation for you.
To get friends, you must be interested in others. Remembering the other person's name and calling him out is equivalent to giving him the best reward.
Respect others and satisfy others' sense of self-achievement.
Happy life
Sakyamuni said: "Hate is not necessary, it depends on love."
Have the courage to admit mistakes.
Let the other person say yes at the beginning of the conversation.
If you want to make enemies, behave better than your friends!
If you have to find fault, bring it up first and then restrain it.
Let others save face.
Give others a good name and let them fight for it.
The devil found the most vicious way to destroy love-nagging.
Self-confidence is the most important thing to sell yourself.
Shakespeare said, "Don't light a fire because of your enemy, you will burn yourself."
He who is not angry is a fool, and he who is not angry is a wise man.
Don't imitate others, find yourself and keep your true colors.
No one has ever kicked a dead dog without being unhappy with other people's criticism.
Schopenhauer said: "Vulgar characters get the greatest pleasure from the mistakes and stupidity of great men."
The best way to eliminate anxiety is to exercise.
Don't take yourself too seriously
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The mentality behind success
A letter to a girl
Love is not looking at each other, but looking at each other in one direction.
No matter what you have in your hand, don't forget what your final result is, then you won't lose anything.
Let your husband be enthusiastic about his work and never do a job he doesn't like.
A pair of sensitive and understanding ears make women more happy than a pair of talking eyes.
A wife's duty is to help her husband become what she wants. Don't criticize him or compare him with others. She should encourage him gently, appreciate him, trust him and cheer him up.
You are a colleague of your husband's family and know his work. If you are worried about the beautiful secretary in your husband's office, why don't you take her job?
In order to pull out the car stuck in the mud, the wife has to get off to help.
Don't be dumped by your husband.
A wife's nagging to her husband is like a drop of water corroding a stone, which is the clearest way to kill without seeing blood.
Give my husband a relaxed, comfortable, orderly and clean home.
Carry forward the advantages of your husband, others' impression of your husband is often reflected in your attitude towards your husband.
Living within her husband's income.
Your husband's life is in your hands, making his family life happy.
Show your love every day; Broad-minded, showing gratitude for every little thing, considerate.
A great man.
For Einstein, there is nothing he loves too much and nothing he hates too much. Einstein set himself two rules: one is not to obey any rules, and the other is not to be influenced by anyone's opinions.
Chloe, founder of McDonald's: Perseverance and determination are invincible. Honest and trustworthy.
Strength comes from practice.
The secret of wisdom
People who are busy all day are not necessarily efficient. Before we do something, we should consider how to do it well in the simplest way. Draw up a plan and then do it.
Scientific management should be distinguished from interpersonal relationship.
Get rid of stubborn problems.
There is a difference between mental pay and efficiency pay.
Experience is very important, but experience and practical research should complement each other.
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Mentality classification
Learning mentality
Learning is to replenish energy for yourself. You must input before you can output. Especially in the era of knowledge economy, the cycle of knowledge updating is getting shorter and shorter, and outdated knowledge is equal to waste. Only by continuous learning can we continuously absorb energy, adapt to the development of society and survive. Be good at thinking, analyzing and integrating. Only in this way can we innovate. Reading thousands of books is better than reading Wan Li Road, and reading Wan Li Road is better than reading countless people; Reading countless people is not as good as being a famous teacher, and keeping up with the winners. Through learning to master relevant computer operations, learn to explain MELO's company, products, systems and Internet. Participate in all kinds of training and learn to do training.
Zero mentality
Start over. It is relatively easy to succeed the first time, but not the second time, because there is no return to zero. In an interview with The Son of the East, the president of Changan Group said that the failure of an enterprise is often due to its success. The law of development of things is wave-like progress, spiral rise and periodic change. In China's old saying, it is called the turn of the wind, and in economics, it is called asset reorganization. There's a saying in TV series: Life is all over again. You can't enter the new wealth distribution without returning to zero. There will be no sustainable development.
positive attitude
Things always coexist with yin and yang. A positive attitude always sees the good side of things, while a negative attitude only sees the bad side. A positive attitude can make a bad thing better, and a negative attitude can make a good thing worse. Today's era is a contest of understanding! A positive attitude is like the sun. Where it shines, a negative attitude is like the moon. The fifteenth day of the first month is different. It's not that there is no sunshine, because you always keep your head down, not that there is no oasis, but that your heart is a desert. Wall Street motto: If you want to be rich, you must stay away from fools, at least 50 meters away.
The mentality of paying.
The mentality of giving is a causal relationship. Giving up is giving, and the mentality of giving is the boss's mentality. It is the mentality of doing things for yourself, and we must know the relationship between willingness and willingness. Giving up is what you get. The small house is too small and the big house is too big. The mentality of work is the mentality of coping. People who don't want to pay always save money, labor and trouble, and finally save success.
Adhere to the mentality
More than 90% of people can't succeed. Why? Because more than 90% of people can't hold on. Persistence is reflected in ups and downs, not in prosperity. When you encounter a bottleneck, you must stick to it until you break through the bottleneck and reach a new peak. Stick to the end and don't lose to yourself.
Cooperative mentality
Cooperation is a realm. Cooperation can conquer the world. Strong alliance. The resultant force is not just the sum of additions. 1+1= 1 1 plus1is11. This is the resultant force. But when the first 1 falls, it becomes-1 1, and when the middle 1 falls, it becomes 1- 1. Success is organizing positive people to do things together.
Modest mentality
Get rid of shortcomings and absorb advantages. Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people lag behind. There is a saying: modesty is the greatest achievement of mankind. Modesty makes you respected. The fuller the ears of wheat are, the more curved they are. Modesty is a good character of children in China!
A grateful attitude
Appreciate everything around you, including bumps, difficulties and enemies. Things do not exist in isolation. Without everything around you, you don't exist. First of all, we thank our parents, who brought us into this world. Secondly, thank the company for giving us such a good platform. Then we thank our superiors for giving you such good information, constantly helping you and encouraging you. We also thank our partners, whose efforts have made our success. We should be grateful for everything.
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Psychological management method
It's not easy to know yourself. We spend a lot of time exploring this society, exploring our own work and reflecting on our interpersonal relationships every day, but we forget to explore ourselves and know ourselves. When we want to organize our thoughts, we find ourselves exhausted and sleepy. It takes not only time but also methods to know yourself. 1. Before you do something, you'd better ask yourself three questions: Why, can you do it yourself, and can you bear the consequences? This is actually questioning yourself about three things: ① How much motivation can this reason give you-motivation in psychology and subjective initiative in philosophy, because they will affect our wishes and thus our mood; Whether you have the ability to do well is a matter of ability and preparation, which always makes you black and blue and hit hard; (3) This is a question of foresight and commitment. Handling this relationship well will make your heart stronger. Yi Zhongtian asked himself these three questions when he faced the choice between Wuhan University and Xiamen University.
It is very meaningful to know what makes you most relaxed and happy, and when it makes you depressed, depressed or even on the verge of collapse. It lets us know where our emotions come from and when our emotional trigger is pulled. You can organize your emotions according to the following table:
Is the treatment before the negative emotional source state effective? Suggested treatment.
1 Tired from long-term high-load operation, I don't want to talk to anyone. Go home and sleep.
Three reports have to be written at hand, and the leader has to arrange work again. I feel sick, big head and even crazy. Is it necessary to prepare early to increase predictability?
3 departments or colleagues do not cooperate well. I really want to swear, like-minded. I usually write my responsibilities into the process.
4 Bad interpersonal relationships are depressing, and I always keep thinking about "what others will think of me in the future". I usually send an email, leave a note and find a chance to have a drink to make it clear.
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3. When a person goes to four places, he should be treated with reflective eyes: one is the hospital, where you know the pain of the world is gathered. Think about how happy your health is, and you must cherish yourself; The second is the bookstore, where you go every month, where you know how much you are behind, give yourself a sense of crisis and promote your continuous progress; The third is the most luxurious shopping mall in the local area, where you know that you are poor and where your goal is, and give yourself a reason to struggle; Fourth, the construction site under the scorching sun, where you know the hardships and perseverance of migrant workers' brothers, you have a kind of sympathy and touch, and also give yourself a reason to cherish your work.
4, adopt modern management means to adjust the mentality, who will be more popular at this stage is to implement software management, and use software, such as banner mobility system, to carry out good mentality management from the aspect of improving personal mobility.
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Mentality management tool
Mentality refers to the reaction and understanding of the development of things, showing different mentalities and views. Everything in the world, you can look at it from two aspects, one is positive and positive; The other is negative. Like a coin, one head and one tail. How you look at it depends entirely on your own thoughts. The main purpose of mentality management is to turn negative emotions into positive emotions, and to eliminate emotional interference in the process of achieving the goal, and finally form a positive and healthy mentality model.
There are many management tools in the market, but not many for mentality management. As a software to improve the mobility based on the five management, the Flag Driving Force System is a good tool for mentality management, which is recommended for everyone to use.
The action system summarizes and explains eight kinds of mentality that successful people need. Through daily self-summary and self-reflection, the system will automatically generate your monthly and weekly mental state diagram, which will help you to know yourself more clearly, adjust your mental state better, and cultivate the habit of being positive, active and achieving your goals.
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Learn to reduce negative emotions.
First: learn to be quiet, immerse yourself in your mind, and slowly reduce your desire for things. Always zero yourself. Every day is a new beginning. there is no age limit. As long as your desire for things is properly reduced, you will win more chances. (the so-called step back is naturally wide. )
Second: learn to care for yourself. Only by caring for yourself can we have more energy to care for others. If you have enough ability, you should try your best to help those who you can. Then you will get some happiness. Helping others and being kind to yourself is also a way to relieve stress.
Third: When you are upset, you can drink a glass of white water, play a soothing light music, close your eyes and recall the people and things around you. You can slowly lose the idea of a new future, which is a kind of rest and a kind of calm thinking.
Fourth: compete with yourself more, there is no need to envy others, and there is no need to envy others. Many people always regard themselves as bystanders because they envy others. The more so, the more they will fall into the abyss. You have to believe that you can do it as long as you do it. Be happy for every progress you make (things are big and small, complex things are simple, simple things are done seriously, and serious things are done repeatedly to try to be the best)
Fifth: extensive reading, reading is actually a process of absorbing nutrition. Modern people are faced with fierce competition and complicated interpersonal relationships. In order to prevent yourself from being embarrassed on some occasions, extensive reading is also a way to relieve stress. People are like this sometimes, and when their stomachs are empty, they naturally feel anxious. Yes, it is your thirst for knowledge that calls you. You need such nutrients to survive.
Sixth: Under no circumstances should we look down on ourselves. Even if the whole world doesn't believe in you and looks down on you, you should believe in yourself, because I believe that if you like yourself, more people will like you. What kind of person you want to be, you will, as long as you want to work hard to achieve it! (Why can't many people reach it? They just don't have perseverance. )
Seventh: Learn to adjust your emotions and try to think positively. Many people are anxious like ants in hot bricks when they encounter something. It is precisely because of a poor grasp of emotions that simple things become complicated and complex things become more difficult. In fact, as long as we grasp the key to the matter and handle every detail well, we will be able to handle it with ease. When you encounter a difficult thing, calm down and think about how to do it well, and move forward.
Eighth: cherish the people around you and try not to hurt them in language. Even if you meet someone you don't like, try to make a detour and find a reason not to hurt them. This will not only make you feel bad, but also make the scene more embarrassing. Cherish everything around you now.
Ninth: Love life, absorb new nutrients every day, think differently every day, learn to put yourself in the other's shoes, try to find new things and satisfy the novelty and mystery of the world.
Tenth: Only when you face life with sincerity, love and personality will your life be more exciting!