Couples' feelings are fresh. Some couples have always had a good relationship, and some couples' feelings will gradually fade away. Couples who have always had a good relationship are people who know how to keep fresh and manage their marriage. I sorted out some ways to keep their feelings fresh, hoping to help everyone.
Husband and wife's emotional preservation 1 Life is a table of dishes, with ups and downs. Every dish is a memorable taste. If you want to stay the same, you must learn to keep your feelings fresh.
1 trick: communicate in the gentlest and clearest way.
The conversation between you is limited to buildings, cars, water, electricity and gas. Of course, there may be children, but what else? Are you just a disgruntled housewife when he is not at home on business or working overtime? Still know how to adjust yourself.
Express your ideas clearly:
Tell him to talk for at least half an hour every day, just between you. Keep telling him you love him, keep telling him you need him, and keep telling him what kind of love you need. Men like simple, direct and clear expressions. Once he determines your needs, he will automatically understand what he should do.
Step 2: Return to romance.
Romance not only belongs to youth, but also is the adhesive of sweet marriage in all stages of life. But under normal circumstances, the indifferent habit replaced the original romance. Day after day, it is easy for people to see the end of marriage at a glance-everything is just that, everything is not good, who will have more expectations for marriage?
Scene reappearance: tell him clearly that romance is indispensable even after marriage 10 years.
Then, make a romantic plan with him, including revisiting the place where we first met, recalling the feeling of love at first sight, going to the first cinema, dating for the first time, traveling for the first time ... Many firsts are a good way to relive romance. Pick a * * * holiday, practice all this together and relive the "first time". What he said at the beginning reminded him to say it again-think about it together. Why are we so cold and calm now?
Love gift:
After many couples get married, they gradually lose their enthusiasm and romance in the process of love. In the past, frequent gifts and flowers disappeared, but instead, "you are an old couple and still play this game" to make you feel good from head to toe. Giving gifts is the best way to flirt between husband and wife, especially after marriage, you can often receive gifts from your husband. The feeling of a happy little woman will make you feel long-lost pride and happiness.
How to use geomantic omen to keep lovers' feelings fresh
First, curb Wenchang's position and cut off rotten peach blossoms.
Among the factors that easily lead to weakening or disagreement between husband and wife, the intervention of a third party or extramarital affairs is one of the important reasons. This may be because the bedroom or bed is located in Wenchang. Wenchang is a half-lucky and half-unlucky star in Yi-ology. Wenchang position is very beneficial to children's studies, but Wenchang position is also a peach blossom position, which can promote the opposite sex. Therefore, for married couples, if the bedroom or bed is located in the peach blossom position, it is easy to cause the peach blossom to rot, which will hurt the couple's feelings. The solution is to avoid setting the husband and wife's bedroom or bed in the peach blossom position, or cutting and hanging pure peach blossoms on the left or northwest wall of the bed, which can effectively isolate rotten peach blossoms and promote the relationship between husband and wife.
Second, fill the missing corner of the apartment and make up for the emotional defects.
According to the traditional geomantic omen in China, a square apartment is a good apartment, and the absence of any corner of the apartment will adversely affect the fortune and health of family members, and even affect their emotional fortune. According to the International Book of Changes, the combined star position has the greatest influence on the relationship between husband and wife. In the Yi-ology theory, the combination of stars is auspicious, the five elements belong to gold, the family is harmonious, and the feelings of husband and wife are harmonious. Therefore, if there is a lack of angle or prominence in the conjunct position at home, people who are light make a fuss, and the distance between husband and wife is getting farther and farther, they will be inexplicably angry. It is said that "the more noisy the feelings are, the weaker they are", which is very unfavorable to the relationship between husband and wife.
In addition, there should be no missing corners in the northwest corner and southwest corner of the apartment. The northwest corner is located at home, representing Yang, father and man. If there is a lack of horns in the northwest, the main man has no position at home and is suppressed; The southwest corner is located in the Kun position of the family, which is yin and mother, representing women. If there is a lack of horns here, the master and daughter have no position in the family and are easy to swallow. In marriage, the feelings of husband and wife should be equal, and the suppression of either party is not conducive to the exchange of feelings between husband and wife. Therefore, if there is a lack of corners in the apartment, it is necessary to use Taishan stone to fill the lack of corners or highlights in the home to prevent the couple's feelings from being unfavorable.
Third, the bedroom moved to the satellite position, away from the lone star Mars position.
As mentioned above, the conjugal relationship is the most suitable bedroom for couples. Living in the same place is very helpful for the promotion, harmony and preservation of husband and wife's feelings. Lone Star is the mansion of a lonely star. The five elements belong to the soil, being blind, lonely, poor and poor in the Yi-ology. If the husband and wife live in the lonely star position for a long time or lack the angle, then the master and wife often go out, and the two get together less and leave more. Although it is said that "distance produces beauty", for the relationship between husband and wife, "distance" is often the "killer" of marriage, which consumes the relationship between husband and wife and easily leads to divorce. Mars belongs to fire in Yi-ology, which is the main cause of litigation. If there is a lack of corners here or a husband and wife bedroom is arranged here, it will easily lead to family unrest, inexplicable anger between husband and wife, and constant quarrels and frictions, which is very unfavorable for the preservation of husband and wife's feelings.
Therefore, it is best to set the husband and wife bedroom in the combined star position to avoid the lone star position and the Mars position. If there is any missing corner in the above direction, it should be filled with Taishan stone in time. If you hang the mirror directly above the bed or close it on the east wall of the bedroom, it will be more conducive to the preservation of the relationship between husband and wife.
Fourth, decorate the bedroom carefully to improve the sexual interest of husband and wife.
Harmonious and satisfactory sex life is the lubricant of husband and wife's feelings, and good sex life is more conducive to the preservation of husband and wife's feelings As a place where couples live, the arrangement of some electrical appliances will also affect the quality of life. From the point of view of Yi-ology, mirrors should not be placed in the bedroom of husband and wife, especially in the position facing the bed; Don't put too many electrical appliances in the bedroom, such as TV and computer. And the messy lines are intertwined, which is easy to cause upset, which is not conducive to people's health and affects the harmony of husband and wife's life. The same is true of some messy ornaments, such as sheep's head, horns, knives, guns, swords, halberds and other sharp ornaments, which are not only not conducive to the harmony and friendship of husband and wife's life, but also cause intangible harm to feelings and body.
Feng Shui Layout of Love Preservation
First, the light in the bedroom should be soft.
Soft light can create a warm and romantic bedroom atmosphere and make couples feel more harmonious in this space. And if the light in the bedroom is too dark, it is easy to make people feel depressed and make love lose its luster; Moreover, if the light is too bright, it is easy to make people excited, and there are also many quarrels and frictions between husband and wife.
Second, the bead curtain is not only beautiful and generous, but also can coordinate the feelings of husband and wife.
Modern people rarely hang door curtains, bead curtains, etc. on the bedroom door at home. In fact, hanging bead curtains can avoid the bad luck of marriage derailment and stimulate the energy of marriage and love. Moreover, the current handicrafts are very delicate, and it is not necessary to hang bead curtains on the ground, but you can hang bead curtains at half height, which is very decorative in terms of aesthetics and practicality.
Third, the bedroom size should be moderate.
If the bedroom where husband and wife live is too big, too bright or too many windows, it is easy to make yang deficiency and yin excess, and it is easy for husband and wife to have discord and disputes, thus affecting their feelings. And the bedroom of moderate size will make the sun be the spirit converge, the gas field is stable, and the relationship between husband and wife is deep.
4. Pairing means good.
Now all beds have bedside tables, on which some ornaments can be placed in pairs, which is conducive to promoting the relationship between husband and wife, such as paired pink crystal hearts, red knots, white crystal mandarin ducks, zodiac signs of both sides and so on. The premise is that the zodiac signs of both sides do not offend, and the materials of the ornaments should be chosen by both sides.