After all, marriage has always been a matter for two people, and it needs two people to work together to run it. Only by supporting and tolerating each other can we better complete this journey of life.
But not every woman is suitable for marriage. Some women have great personality problems, but they are too good at pretending in front of men, always pretending to be a good wife and mother to attract men's attention, and only after marriage can they really show their true colors. At this time, it is too late for men to regret.
What about women? Lost husband? You can't have any of the three characteristics, and it's easy to be poor for three generations.
Unprincipled help to the bride's family
Parental support is of course important, but since you are married and have formed a small family, you should prioritize. Although it is right to help parents, it is easy to ruin the family without principled help.
In the TV series Ode to Joy, fan Mei Sheng always helps her parents unconditionally. As long as the other party always asks her for money, she agrees, regardless of her financial ability, which leads to a great crisis in her relationship with the other half.
In our reality, there are also many such women. Everything is based on parents' family, and parents will rush ahead whenever something happens. If you don't have enough economic foundation, I advise you to stay away. You don't have that much money to let her help her parents.
Worship money, attach great importance to material things.
As a woman, she is somewhat vain. Others use designer bags, and she wants to have them. She doesn't want to fall behind when others buy famous brand lipstick. But a really smart woman always depends on her own hands to get what she wants.
There are always many money worshippers around. They attach great importance to materials of the opposite sex. Feelings are just dispensable to them. As long as you can buy her bags and luxury goods, she can show enough love for you.
But don't try to buy her feelings with money. When you are rich, she can still follow you, but once you are down and out, she will divorce you immediately and then choose a richer man to meet her material needs.
If you marry such a woman home easily, it is easy to lose her family, and your life may become poorer and poorer. In the end, you will only be unable to satisfy her material desires and kick you away without looking back.
A thoughtless woman
There are only two things that attract men's attention most. One is a very good woman, who exudes charm. The second is a woman who doesn't know the rules and has no moral bottom line.
As a man, you should stay away from the second kind of women as soon as possible, because their normal life is very casual and they like to play with others for three days. They look sexy, so they are surrounded by so many men that everyone just wants to play with her.
But if you fall in love with such a woman, marry her home anyway, you will be disappointed sooner or later. After all, human nature is hard to change.
Therefore, as a man, no matter what age, when choosing the other half, we must be cautious, and we must fully understand each other's personality and conduct before making a decision. After all, marriage is only once. Once you choose a husband and daughter who have lost their family, you can only be prepared for three generations of poverty. At that time, you will not only suffer, but also cry.