Some moments will affect
Great changes may take place in the future life.
Looking back now, this moment is always a shame.
Sometimes it is an emergency.
For example, in an accident, I knocked out a row of teeth.
The sudden accident in a few seconds affected my life after this second.
From then on, I had to straighten my teeth and install false teeth.
The face has changed and the eating habits have changed.
Sometimes it's a decision
Of course, we make decisions every day.
As we all know, some decisions have important influence.
For example, I decided to get married, move and volunteer for the college entrance examination.
Some decisions are important only later.
For example, one day I decided to change my route home and happened to meet a friend I haven't seen for a long time.
Looking back a few years later, thanks to meeting this friend, I was a great help.
Sometimes I find something.
For example, a family member is diagnosed with cancer.
No one will know when the disease started.
Or what caused it.
I only know the day I checked out.
So the scene of that day will be deeply imprinted in my mind.
No matter how many decades have passed, I will never forget it.
This is a sunny weekend.
I have to attend a course required by the company.
Mom said that my stomach has been a little upset recently.
Is to see a doctor in the middle of nowhere
Have dinner together after class.
No one expected how serious it would be just to watch diarrhea.
Halfway through the class, I got a call from my mother.
She kept a low profile as usual.
The doctor told her to transfer to the emergency department at once.
She is going to have a blood test.
Although my mother asked me to wait until the results came out to see if I needed to go.
But I heard she was a little panicked.
I went straight to the hospital without attending half a class.
Because the test results came out soon, I transferred to the emergency department.
Outpatient service usually lasts two or three days.
When I got to the hospital, the test results had come out.
The doctor asked for immediate hospitalization.
The doctor said that some tests were needed to determine what the problem was.
Although treatment can't be started yet, it can be handled at any time in the hospital.
Mom didn't seem so nervous when she saw me coming.
And joked that she didn't even think anything was wrong.
It wasn't long before I found out that my mother's attending doctor was appointed as the director of the department.
I'm starting to get a little worried. Is it a little serious?
The attending doctor came to see me at night and said nothing.
I asked the doctor for leave.
Because the rest of the family is in a foreign land.
I don't trust my mother in the hospital alone.
If it's not too dangerous, we want to go home and get some clothes.
The doctor took me to the nurse's station to talk about writing papers.
Tell me privately that it's not urgent at present, but it doesn't mean it's not serious
If you can, you'd better call your father back.
I'm surprised.
The doctor thinks it may be too serious for me to bear in my thirties?
That's it. Mom had a cancer check-up.
And it was a very intense one.
The day the result was confirmed.
The director told me directly that they couldn't handle it.
There may be only three hospitals in China that can handle it.
Ask us if we can find someone who can handle it.
Can make the dean of a big hospital second only to the dean admit that he is incompetent.
I think it should be urgent and serious.
There is no time for surprises or complaints.
We asked everyone we knew.
Fortunately, my mother always has someone to help her in her life.
Unexpectedly, I just asked a friend of a friend.
He is the most authoritative hospital researcher on this cancer topic.
Their group asked me to send a message immediately.
They don't care that it is a holiday. Assemble immediately.
After reading the information and discussing it
The doctor in charge of the operation said directly that he was lucky to have the opportunity to have the operation.
My brother hesitated to ask him if he wanted to have an operation.
The doctor bluntly said that without surgery, there may be three months left, at most one year.
This kind of tumor grows quickly.
Not many people have a chance to operate it.
Maybe he grew up and couldn't open it during the operation.
There is usually a hospital waiting in line in that ward for months.
Mom moved in the next day.
Then our family life changed from that day on.
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