But, to be honest, for young people, it is really stressful to buy a house on their own income. In the past, people in rural areas envied urban life, but now many people in cities yearn for rural life, especially families with homesteads in rural areas. It may be a dream that many people in cities will never realize that they can build a house of their own design.
However, if you really have a piece of land in the countryside where you can build your own house, don't just build it, because China people have many rules for building houses since ancient times.
For example, there is a folk saying that no matter how rich you are, you can't build a "load-bearing house", because there is a saying: "Living in a load-bearing house will ruin your family"! Many people may not have heard of what a "moving room" is, but I lived in the countryside when I was a child. So today, let's talk to you about what kind of house this "lifting house" is. Is there any truth in this proverb?
It is a popular folk proverb in the south of China that "the family has a burden, and the family is ruined.". A loaded house refers to a lonely house in some houses, that is, it is the only house that is higher than other houses around. From a distance, it looks like a lonely person carrying a burden.
Some places also use "sedan chair room" to describe such a house. If you have been to rural areas in Hunan or Jiangxi, you may have seen many places where houses gather. Houses in these places are often red brick exterior walls without any decoration.
And the biggest feature of this kind of house is that it will never be capped, and the roof of the house will always look unfinished. Why is this happening? It is because the local people have a mentality of building houses and keeping up with the joneses. Even if your house is not capped for life, you can't let your neighbor's house be higher than your own.
In order to prevent the house built behind others from being taller than their own, they adopted the method of not capping when building the house, so that they can add another floor at any time in the future.
Over time, such a strange scene appeared in the rural areas in the south. The whole village is the kind of house that seems to be only half built. If someone's house is much higher than the neighbor's house, it will be said that they have built a "lift house".
This folk proverb reflects the ugliness and ignorance of human nature. The neighbor's house is taller than his own. Out of comparison and jealousy, his house not only has no ceiling, but also laughs at other people's houses as "houses with burdens", which really exposes the inferiority of selfishness and jealousy.
Although they say that "living in a loaded house will ruin the family", they secretly want to build a house superior to others in order to obtain some psychological satisfaction. In fact, the real feng shui lies in people's hearts, not in whose house is taller and whose house is shorter.
Therefore, it is completely ignorant and immoral to say that "the burden of living in a house is heavy and the family is ruined." As the saying goes, "If you live in the blessed land, you will live in the blessed land". Virtuous people, no matter what kind of house they live in, will get lifelong blessings and happiness!