I don’t think it’s aimed at your family.
Don’t think too much
I think your neighbor is a bit superstitious, just for peace of mind, just don’t worry about it. It's hard to say this kind of thing, right? . . . .
What you said is a little weird. So, are there any abnormal phenomena or bad feelings in your family?
How about you go to the night market or temple to ask for a Bagua mirror and hang it on the door of your own home. This thing is not expensive. .