The most important thing between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to care for each other, not to ask for relatives like mother and daughter, but to get along well and get along well!
These two days, I was moved by such a news!
"Give up your son and save your daughter-in-law!" Netizens have commented on such in-laws, which is rare in the world!
On March 19, Chen Gang and his wife in Yan 'an, Shaanxi Province were both dying of gas poisoning.
Under economic pressure, Chen Gang's parents decided to give up their seriously ill son to save their daughter-in-law.
How difficult it is to make a decision to give up their own son is unknown to others, but in the face of life and death, the two old people chose great love.
The daughter-in-law is not her own daughter, but she is better than her own daughter. In order to prevent the grandson from becoming an orphan, the two old people took their son home to take care of him, and the daughter-in-law continued to stay in the hospital for treatment.
Two sensible and caring old people touched countless netizens. In just one day, more than 20,000 people donated money to this unfortunate family, with a total donation of 300,000 yuan.
With the help of caring people in the society, Mr. and Mrs. Chen Gang were treated, which is all due to the kindness and love of Chen Gang's parents.
I have to say that it is undoubtedly the luck of Chen Gang's wife to have such a good in-laws!
As the old saying goes, I haven't seen my grandmother for ten years, and I haven't seen my daughter-in-law for ten years. First, I have a good mother-in-law and then a good daughter-in-law!
I believe that Chen Gang's wife will be more filial to her in-laws after she recovers from treatment.
"Because I love my son, I am better for my daughter-in-law than my son!"
This is the pet phrase of neighbor Aunt Wang. Whenever she hears an old man in the community say that his daughter-in-law is not good, she advises others like this.
That's what she does. She asks her daughter-in-law what she likes to eat before buying food every day. Her daughter-in-law never lets her do housework when she comes home from work.
On the contrary, if her son is lying on the sofa playing with his mobile phone, she will educate him at the first time.
Especially when a son quarrels with his daughter-in-law, she first says that his son is not good, no matter right or wrong.
In this way, she is often said to be biased by her son, and her daughter-in-law always holds her and smiles happily.
In the daughter-in-law's eyes, a mother-in-law who is kind to her has long been a biological mother.
She often says in the community: "With my mother around, my husband doesn't dare to bully me at all!" "
Every time I see their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law holding hands in the community, those grandmothers in the community envy Aunt Wang. "You have a good daughter-in-law who is filial and sensible!"
Aunt Wang often nodded with a smile:
"There is a good mother-in-law and a good daughter-in-law! Now that young people are educated, you are good to her as a mother-in-law, and she is naturally filial to you! "
She also said that it is better for her daughter-in-law than for her son, of course, not because of partiality.
But because I love my son, because I love my son, so I want to create a good family environment for him!
If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, the son will rest assured to work hard outside;
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, and the young couple will not quarrel often because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law;
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, and the family gets along well.
I have to say that Aunt Wang is really a wise mother-in-law.
She set a good example for her daughter-in-law with love and generosity. With such a good mother-in-law who cares about herself and knows how to care about her heart, how can a daughter-in-law not be filial and sensible?
A mother-in-law who knows right from wrong and knows how to love her daughter-in-law makes the whole family happy.
And those mothers-in-law who are unreasonable, deliberately arrogant and deliberately make things difficult for their daughter-in-law will really lead to a chicken flying and a dog jumping at home, and even a broken family.
Because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Shi, the second-born mother of 1990s, left home with two children (one is 6 years old and the other is 3 years old), and then committed suicide by jumping into the river.
In the suicide note, she accused her in-laws of always oppressing others as elders. After seven years of marriage, she never gave her a good face. Every time she quarreled, her in-laws ganged up against her. ...
Will the in-laws feel better when their daughter-in-law dies with two grandchildren?
Because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the mother 70 days after delivery was hacked to death by her husband.
Just because the daughter-in-law said a word or two to her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law made mischief in front of her son, and even when her son cut her daughter-in-law, she never persuaded her.
The daughter-in-law was hacked to death by her son, who faced legal sanctions. In the following days, my mother-in-law has to take care of her children alone, and the following days are not easy.
These heartbreaking family tragedies are just trivial things between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law!
At the same time, it is a pity that the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also a major factor in the emotional disharmony of many couples and the final divorce!
My mother-in-law doesn't like her daughter-in-law anymore. When her son and daughter-in-law divorce and a family breaks up, her heart will certainly be very painful.
Therefore, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a feng shui of a family.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, and a family is harmonious and happy, but the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and a family is fragmented, and there is no happiness at all!
Mother-in-law is not a mother, and daughter-in-law is not a daughter. However, many years later, the daughter-in-law has become a woman, and the mother-in-law should understand that it is not easy to be a daughter-in-law!
Why do women embarrass women?
First a good mother-in-law and then a good wife!
Every mother-in-law wants her daughter-in-law to be filial and obedient and to have a good daughter-in-law!
Every husband wants his wife to be as filial to his parents as he is!
But mother-in-law should understand that only you really care about your daughter-in-law and treat her as family.
Convince people with reason, convince people with virtue, convince the daughter-in-law to take orally, and truly respect and love you from the bottom of my heart!
Husbands should understand that filial piety is a matter of course, but they should also distinguish right from wrong and be reasonable. They should not blindly be filial, biased towards their mothers and wronged their wives!
This will not only improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also deeply affect the relationship between husband and wife!
The most important thing between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to care for each other, not to ask for relatives like mother and daughter, but to get along well and get along well!
A good wife, three generations of happiness!
Good daughter-in-law, filial and sensible to her in-laws, and her in-laws are also comfortable!
Be gentle and considerate to your husband, and he will be happy!
Take good care of your children, they will be happy!
Therefore, the daughter-in-law is happy and the whole family is happy!
I hope all mother-in-law can understand how good you are, how good your daughter-in-law is, how good your daughter-in-law is, and how good a family is!