Note 1: weed control
Going to the grave is actually sweeping the grave. Clean up the weeds around the grave when you go to the grave! Many times, people go to the grave once or twice a year, resulting in weeds that are already two or three meters high. You should know that too many weeds will affect the feng shui of the grave and the fortune of future generations. Therefore, these weeds must be cleaned up when going to the grave, especially the weeds in front of the tomb, which will affect the gas accumulation in the cemetery and thus affect the fortune of future generations. This is absolutely impossible to do.
Pay attention to two things: grave bag and tombstone.
In addition to clearing weeds, we should also pay attention to the condition of tombstones and graves. If the grave bag is found damaged when sweeping the grave, some new soil should be added in time to repair it. Don't ignore this. After all, every detail is related to the feng shui of the tomb and the fortune of future generations. Make an exception and pay attention to the cleanliness of tombstones when sweeping graves. After all, tombstones are as important as faces. How can we ignore them?
Note 3: pregnant women should not go to the grave.
Many pregnant women also want to pay homage to their deceased relatives and express their grief in Tomb-Sweeping Day. It is good to have this heart, but it is necessary to know that pregnant women are not suitable to go to places with heavy yin, such as cemeteries, because pregnant women are pregnant with children, and fetal gods are very particular about yang, which is very taboo. If pregnant women are reluctant to go to the grave, it may affect the fetal spirit, lead to fetal unhappiness and lead to abortion. In addition, there are many people visiting graves in Tomb-Sweeping Day, which is a crowded time. If pregnant women have to go out to squeeze people at this time, it is not conducive to their own safety, and an carelessness will also affect the safety of the fetus, so I suggest pregnant women not to go to the grave! In addition, in many places, women don't have to go to the grave to worship, while in some places, they are not so particular. Girls can also go to the grave, but women should also pay attention to it. If it is during public holidays, don't go to the grave reluctantly. After all, ancestors are very taboo about this, and going to the grave on official holidays is not conducive to their own fortune.
What are the taboos for Tomb-Sweeping Day to visit the grave?
First, avoid wearing bright clothes.
Tomb-Sweeping Day shouldn't wear too many clothes when sweeping the grave, because sweeping the grave is a serious matter, so he should try to wear a low profile. Bright red and purple are festive colors in China, so they are not suitable for this occasion. Of course, apart from sweeping graves, Tomb-Sweeping Day didn't pay much attention to clothes, such as going on an outing with his relatives.
Second, avoid laughing and fighting.
Besides paying attention to clothes, we should also pay attention to words and deeds. When sweeping the grave, don't laugh and play, or do some sloppy behavior, because according to the old man, it will disturb our ancestors and show disrespect to them. Therefore, when sweeping graves, try to be respectful and rigorous to show respect for our ancestors.
Third, avoid eating tributes first.
Tribute is used for ancestor worship, and people can't eat it before ancestor worship. But after the confession, everyone will go home and share it. Otherwise, it is also disrespectful to our ancestors. Without ancestors, there would be no descendants. Without the hard work of ancestors, there would be no happy present for future generations. Therefore, our respect for our ancestors also needs to be reflected in Tomb-Sweeping Day.