It is said that the biggest feng shui in a family is a reasonable and sensible woman. A woman's character is not only related to the current atmosphere of a family, but also has an incalculable impact on future generations. A long time ago, an educator read a book called "Finding Mother", in which he told the incalculable influence of mother on a family.
In fact, Wangfu's women don't only have these external norms, which are three courts and five eyes, and which are full of nose and flesh. I think a person's congenital appearance will seriously affect part of his fortune, but it is more important to practice in the depths of his heart than to cultivate one's morality. Generally, women in Wangfu have these four performances. As long as they can account for two, congratulations. It is really a blessing for a man to marry such a wife! 1. Smart and wise
As long as a woman has a wise mind, generally speaking, trivial life in her family will be handled in an orderly way. Even including these financial investment issues, it will operate with ease. Generally speaking, women with relatively high intelligence will also have higher moral cultivation, and emotional intelligence and IQ are certainly not a problem.
such a woman knows how to give her husband a proper face in daily life, and when she encounters setbacks and valleys, she not only knows how to maintain her self-esteem, but also can immediately inspire him with appropriate language. A man can meet such a woman in his life, and it is hard to fail in his work. Moreover, women with high emotional intelligence will be handy in all kinds of family relationships, and they can take care of their homes very well, and the children and the elderly are allocated very well, so that men can travel without any worries. Such women must be Wangfu's. 2. Calm personality
For an adult, I don't think it can reflect a person's ability and quality better than emotional stability, especially for a woman. Many women are impulsive, and a comment from outsiders will make their hearts swell with great waves, especially for some vain women, and external comments are a great killer for them.
In the past, a friend's girlfriend was a girl who was particularly greedy for vanity, and she liked to keep up with her friends blindly. As long as she saw something that other girls didn't have at the party, she would definitely go home and strongly recommend her boyfriend to buy it for her. So that when we went to the party later, her boyfriend would make a good move with us in advance, so that we should never bring any expensive gifts to avoid making his girlfriend unhappy.
Later, I moved to a new house and I haven't seen them for many years. Recently, I heard that they have divorced, and the southern region owes a lot of debts after marriage, and the project investment has been unsuccessful again and again. Although it is not clear that this kind of failure must be related to girls, I think there will be some connection. 3. Kindness
In my opinion, a woman can be ugly or not smart, but she must have kindness in her heart, otherwise no matter how high her intelligence is, no matter how high her emotional intelligence is, it will be in vain for them. Kindness is like a person's soil and air. Without this basic quality, every house will develop in the opposite direction.
A sensible woman is a man's greatest blessing in this life. Because of her kindness, she can do her best to think from other people's point of view, understand your difficulties, respect her family and your good friends, and stay with you no matter how beautiful you are or how low you are, making you infinitely tolerant and caring. Such a woman is the greatest fortune of a family and the greatest blessing of a man. 4. Attitude towards money is neither supercilious nor supercilious
I think whether a woman can be prosperous or not depends on whether she can treat money correctly. A perfect and reasonable woman must be supercilious and supercilious about money. They don't want men to take advantage of others because of a little immediate benefit, and they don't let men use all kinds of unfair means because of money.
If they live an open-minded life in this world and take care of the overall situation, they will push boys' houses to move on the appropriate and open-minded road, and they will not be lost because of money. With such a woman, the boys will be stable and steady every step forward, and for a long time, so the attitude of a woman with a big pattern will definitely feel the boys beside her, which will also help them to further their work.
What kind of woman do you think is the most popular, and what kind of man can deserve such a woman? It is said that good men and good women are both in the same school. Have you found such an excellent partner?