In fact, this statement is not very accurate. The death of someone in the family will not affect the wedding date of others, but out of respect for others, they will not choose to get married within a very close date of death, but they did not say that they are not allowed to get married within three years. There may be differences between the customs of the south and the north, and the matters needing attention when tying the knot are different, so it does not conflict with the three-year time limit.
1. You can't post couplets within three years after the death of a relative:
Every household will post Spring Festival couplets and decorate with lanterns during the Chinese New Year, but it is not allowed to post couplets and hang some decorations within three years after the death of a relative at home, especially during the Chinese New Year. This is a custom in the north. Although I don't know the origin of this custom, it has been going like this for generations. Three years is a long time for a family, but it is particularly short because of the missing of relatives. This practice is to mourn the dead relatives. Another explanation is that because other people have red couplets at the door, people will turn into souls after death, and "souls" can't be red. So in order to let the dead relatives enter the house, they don't put up couplets and red decorations at the door.
2. Don't move within three years after the death of a loved one:
This statement also hopes that the deceased relatives can find their way home, so they generally don't move within three years after their death. Moreover, as far as possible, we should not change the placement and furnishings of furniture in our home. There is also the room where our loved ones lived before their death. It is best to keep it for one year, and then plan its use after one year. This is also a kind of respect for the deceased. If you plan to change furniture within three years, it is best not to choose red or something similar to red, which is also very unfavorable for the future geomantic omen of the whole family, so you still need to pay attention to it. In this statement, it should also be noted that the male owner of the family can't buy a new property within three years, otherwise it will hurt his future fortune.
3. Don't leave your relatives' clothes within three years after their death:
In fact, when their relatives in the north die, there is a custom to throw away their clothes and bedding. One reason is not to let his family see things and think about people. Another reason is that the dead relatives are not allowed to have clothes and bedding, and the road to Huangquan Road is not stable. Then within three years of the death of a loved one, there should be no clothes of the deceased at home, which is a taboo. If you find exposed clothes, you should choose or throw them away as soon as possible, otherwise it will have an adverse impact on the feng shui of the whole family, especially the cigarette edge of single people.
Although it is incorrect to say that a relative can't get married within three years after his death, there is still a taboo to look at different opinions. If this is the case at home now, you can refer to it and don't make it again.