"Zeng Xian Wen" said: One life has two blessings and three feng shui. The fortune teller said that sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life. These are not superstitious in some ways. At birth, genes and family environment have been decided. Education and companionship suitable for children are also personalized. So there is no standard answer.
Recommended practice:
1. Be yourself, are you happy? After getting along with yourself, set an example.
2. Pay attention to the cultivation of good personality habits (optimism, self-confidence, self-discipline, etc. In terms of academic qualifications, others can lean back a little;
3. Accompany him (her) as high as possible and tell him (her) that his (her) parents love him and that he is precious;
4. Just do the best of the above three points. You don't have to compare with others. Good things in secular values may not be suitable for your children.
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Be a parent with knowledge reserve.
It is recommended to read books about children's critical period. Children will go through many critical periods before the age of 6, such as no, pursuing perfection, swearing, painting, aesthetics, writing and so on.
Try to restrain yourself after learning the theoretical knowledge, because loving you will hinder the growth of children. Children only need sports and games before they are 6 years old.
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Every parent wants their children's childhood to be happy! In my opinion, parents' effective companionship and attention to their children's growth will make their children's childhood very happy. There are three reasons:
Parents accompany their children, and young hearts are not alone. Children have a deep attachment to their parents and enhance parent-child feelings. The child feels very happy.
The effective companionship of parents can make children grow up happily and lay the foundation for promoting mental health. Parents and children go out for an outing, play ball games and play games. Children get affection from it and experience happiness in interaction with their parents.
Parents' care and love in daily life make children feel warm. Let children feel deep affection and maternal love, and let children feel that they are the happiest people from the heart!
Parents should first establish a good image in their children's minds. Don't be too harsh when children do wrong things. They should be persuaded to know what is wrong and correct it. Children should be encouraged to face and overcome difficulties. Children should be praised for doing good deeds, and try not to spoil them, otherwise the consequences will be very troublesome.
No childhood is perfect, no childhood is absolutely happy!
Even if you use all your wealth and energy to meet all your children's requirements, it can't be perfect!
Grow up with children and encourage pride for every progress of children.
Tell your child every day that you love him unconditionally, no matter what he does wrong.
Read a book to your child every day, or play games with your child. . .
For parents, we should enjoy the growth and companionship of our children and thank them for letting us grow up with them.
A happy childhood can make children happy all their lives, and the memories of childhood can never be erased. A happy childhood has a great influence on children, which can make them more confident and healthy. On the contrary, if children spend their childhood in fear, anxiety, anxiety and even physical and mental destruction, they are likely to be greatly affected when they grow up, and some will never get out or even commit crimes. How to make children happy in childhood? First of all, we should give children enough companionship and love, husband and wife love each other and family harmony. Don't give them too much study pressure, take them out to play more, guide them according to their study and hobbies, and don't compare with other children!
1. First of all, you must be yourself. "Use the time of chasing horses to plant grass until the grass grows and the warbler flies."
2. Effective companionship. "Companionship is a long-term confession, accompany him to study and play games with him."
3. Talking less and listening more is nagging, and children will automatically block it.
The child's expression is simple, like and dislike. Not as complicated as adults think.
Happiness is simple, but happiness doesn't mean you can do whatever you want. Childhood is also a time to regulate children's behavior. This time is also the time for children to develop their character.
For the simplest example, when I go to the park to play, the baby will take the initiative to hold his mother in one hand and his father in the other. She is only over two years old, which shows that she feels beautiful and happy. Parents' encouragement, companionship, surprise and even a simple kiss can make the baby happy.
The word perfection is really difficult to interpret. The perfection that parents think is often different from the perfection of children. However, when parents can understand their feelings, they hope to give their children everything they can without regret.
I think the happiest childhood is one with parents, caring parents, a correct outlook on life, full of love and sparkling eyes.
1, with the children. Companionship is the longest confession. A child is always close to the person who grew up with him, laughing with him, falling with him, being sad with him and crying with him. At this time, your role can be diversified. You can be a child's parent, a child's friend and a child's teacher. Different roles can close the distance between you and your child, feel the innocent childhood of your child and relive the happiness of childhood.
2. Guide children. Children are still children after all, and there will be no growth without experience. In the process of companionship, parents must play the role of a good guide and should not be arranged to replace others. Every child is an independent individual. Only by letting children be their own masters and choosing what they like can children develop their own personality and personality. Parents should guide their children to the right path in the whole process, even if they are injured or crying.
3. Learn to let go. In fact, I don't think everyone's childhood can be perfect. Maybe the child is crying for a broken toy, or because he is not satisfied. This requires parents to adjust their mentality and realize that everyone's childhood is colorful and ups and downs, but when children grow up slowly, they will become the best memories of childhood. Parents will learn to let go one day and let their children face it alone when they grow up!
Accompaniment, children whose parents often accompany them have a strong sense of security and will get along with others when they grow up;
Encourage and educate children not to criticize or criticize. Children who are often encouraged are confident and decisive.
Guidance, no matter what the child thinks, should be guided, even if his dreams change several times a day. If it is obviously wrong, it should also be corrected through guidance.
For example, parents are children's mirrors, and your every move in life will be printed in his mind, and he will learn the same.