People usually say that women are a feng shui of a family. If you marry a good woman, you can prosper for three generations, go to your parents and the elderly, and educate your children. The role of women in it cannot be ignored. When I was young, men liked to shut the moon and feel ashamed of flowers, not only to protect their eyes, but also to bring them out with a special face to satisfy their inner vanity. Later, as I grew older and experienced, I gradually found that looks were not the first thing, but women's inner cultivation and character were more important. After all, what looks better is far less useful.
and this is useful, which means that a man's perspective will be sharp and long-lasting. Finding a woman to get married is not as simple as reproduction. It doesn't take many years for a woman to know if she has a good fortune. Just join hands with her for a meal, and my heart will be clear. A woman with a good fortune will pay attention to your emotional dining and can really see a person's personality. It doesn't matter whether you are extroverted or calm. The most important thing is that when sitting opposite the man, the woman will still pay attention to the man's every move when she is busy eating.
The woman who will observe proves that she is a person who pays great attention to details. She can see all the joys and sorrows of a man at a glance and understand what a man is at a loss, which is related to a person's inner softness. A woman with a soft heart is a master of mind after marriage. She can see your happy side and notice your sad side. You can face problems together, and you can also comfort and cheer in private. If you only consider yourself, you don't care about others. Care about your emotions, regardless of the other person's sorrow and joy, I am afraid there will be countless problems after marriage.
A simple meal can show a woman's mind. A woman who can be prosperous after marriage is a caring and tolerant woman. A woman who has a good fortune understands that listening is often understood. Why do I say so much to her? She often cuts off what I say, that is, she doesn't care about me? In fact, it has nothing to do with caring, it is a person's character, and it is the same with you, and it is the same with others. When eating, you talk about your work and your preparation in advance. She often changes the topic wearily, which shows that you don't care what you want to do at all, let alone listen to a person's language expression and opinions.
a woman who has not learned to listen well for decades will generally not change for you after marriage. The trivial matters in the family and the changes in her career, she hoped for Shun Feng, but did not think about the ups and downs. But when a life or a marriage is so satisfactory, when it is not in conformity, differences appear. Hand in hand * * * into a meal, a woman's listening is particularly critical, not only her self-cultivation, but also her prosperous fortune engraved in her bones.