Many people think that Jiang Defu and Anjie can live a happy life because Jiang Defu is the commander, with a high salary and no need to worry about money, and Jiang Dehua, a good aunt in the world, takes care of her children. But don't forget, Angie married Jiang Defu only because of the rise of a certain class in that special era. Economically, newly married Jiang Defu is far from settling down. Angie's dowry, Jiang Defu reduced Angie by half, and there are still many, which makes Jiang Defu dare not imagine.
What's more, Anjie is only a spiritual pursuit, drinking water in a cup and drinking tea in a teacup. When they got married, she and Jiang Defu had some running-in, but Angie didn't rely too much on Jiang Defu economically. First of all, she has a job and her own salary. Secondly, Angie's clothes and daily necessities, brought from home, are enough for her. That yard of clothes on the island, in Zhang Guiying's words, can't last a lifetime. Unlike Wen Li, she doesn't spend her family's living expenses on hair and clothes. Most of Jiang Defu's salary is spent on children.
Jiang Defu was not a commander at first, and he didn't have much money. If you spend all that money on yourself according to Wen Li's temper, let alone Jiang Defu, even Jiang Dehua will be the first to fight with her. Yes, there are Jiang Dehua in Gu Jiang, but isn't there a childish mother in a childish family? Did the old man help a lot? In those years when the South was in my hometown, there was only one Yan Ni beside Li Wen. Have you ever seen a good life? Instead of sending money home, she bought clothes and hair. 18, she spent a month's salary. At that time, she had two children, Yan Ni and Nanfang. After three years of natural disasters, she still had no sense of saving and only cared about her enjoyment.
Angie didn't approve of Jiang Defu going to the island, and even wanted to stay in the city, but when she got to the island, she tried to blend in with the environment and even carried water by herself. Jiang Dehua was away at that time. She is a pregnant woman with a big belly and two sons. She does laundry and cooks, and she can say "beautiful" to the blue sky. Anjie is a pragmatic person. She was angry only because Jiang Defu cheated. She clearly said that she would stay at school, but once she accepted it, she never complained about her life, just like after she accepted Jiang Dehua, she saw and thought of Jiang Dehua's goodness and tolerated her infinitely.
Don't say Angie doesn't have a mother-in-law. Jiang Dehua was not as good as the gay mother at first. Anyone who has seen the golden wedding knows that apart from Xiao Tian when she first got married, Wen Li is always quarrelling, and she is also dissatisfied with this and that. Because of a small rumor, he went to the factory to make trouble and ruined Tong Zhi's future. Tong Zhi cheated later, but not at first. At that time, he only had a vision for his career.
Settled only because of the special society at that time, but we know that the Anjia family are educated people. They are practical and pragmatic. Whenever Angie and Jiang Defu have problems, they always help each other. Unlike Wen Li's family, Wen Li will go home whenever there is a contradiction. Wen Li's family accused Tong Zhi, sometimes knowing that it was her daughter's fault, and still lived with her parents, regardless of her daughter. It is said that like a person from the face value, respect for talent, in line with personality, longer than kindness, and finally personality. Both Wen Li and An Jie were attracted by their husbands because of Yan value, but obviously, An Jie did it later, and Wen Li did it, but everything changed in endless quarrels.
Wenli married Jiang Defu, but she didn't live well either. She spent Jiang Defu's salary on Blagi and did her hair. When the money runs out, Jiang Dehua will argue with her, and she will tell Jiang Dehua to get out. Even if you don't roll, Jiang Defu is caught in the middle, in a dilemma. She's not Angie's type. As long as Jiang Defu doesn't sell well, she will sympathize with Dehua and miss the good people in Dehua by talking about what happened to Jiang Dehua. When Li Wen returns to her mother's house, Tongzhi's mother will persuade Tongzhi to put in a good word and take Li Wen back, but Jiang Dehua doesn't want to. At first, Jiang Dehua was a radical bitch. At that time, I also met this kind of family who had to pick up her tail to be a good person. In the literary world, Jiang Dehua had long since dodged and never allowed her to come up again. As long as a little, Jiang Defu will have a bad feeling for her.
Some people say that Jiang Defu didn't cheat, but Tong Zhiyi didn't cheat from the beginning. He was frustrated several times because of his career. Wen Li was still at ease, and he didn't feel any harm. He doesn't want to go home, and his spirit has no sustenance. Plus the woman takes the initiative. Of course, we are not saying that Tong Zhi is right. We should try our best to solve our own contradictions, and nothing can be the reason for cheating. Especially when his mother is lying in the hospital, he is dating a mistress, which is really too much. However, Jiang Defu was also deliberately angry with Angie and got a little sister who sent a telegram to test Angie. But Angie, she won't make a scene. She likes fighting, not fighting, just like hypertension in Jiang Defu. Angie doesn't like young doctors to take Jiang Defu's blood pressure, so she studies by herself, which makes people laugh and cry, and at the same time, she can feel her love and care for her husband.
Character determines fate. As long as you are married, your personality is fine, you know how to make progress, and you will discuss with each other when you encounter problems. Don't always think that you have married the wrong person. You think you married the wrong person, and he thinks you married the wrong person. How can you live that life? Quarrel is always the worst policy, noisy noisy, how deep mutual affection is gone
Someone once said that Obama's wife was lucky to marry the president. What did Michelle say? "I didn't marry him to become the president's wife. Whoever I marry will become the president's wife. " Yes, some people can be happy with whoever they marry, but some people can't live well with whoever they marry. May we all become the latter and live a beautiful marriage life that we say is short and long.