Between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, whether the mother-in-law is bad or the daughter-in-law is bad is ultimately a difficult problem. In the eyes of many people, it is more that the daughter-in-law is not a good person. As long as things are not handled well, it will cause family disputes and almost the whole family will suffer.
And this is what happened to Cecilia Cheung. In the eyes of her ex-mother-in-law Deborah, nothing she did was right, but her attitude changed after the divorce?
In a family, the most difficult thing to get along with is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and many families are broken up due to discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The two have always been natural enemies, and there is often a topic: Who will be saved first if "falling into the river"? This seems to be a particularly difficult question, but answering one party will hurt the other party. There is no doubt that one party is his mother, and the other party is his wife who has been with him all his life. It is difficult to offend both parties.
After marriage, many daughters-in-law do some bottom-line things in order to please their mother-in-law. Just like giving birth to a baby, some girls don't want to have a baby, but their mother-in-law uses various methods, and in the end they can only give birth to a baby obediently. However, a stronger daughter-in-law will take it seriously. Being bullied. In many families, before the daughter-in-law gave birth, there was always a lot of trouble. But since the birth of the child, the mother-in-law's attention is no longer on herself, but she feels much more relaxed.
But a mother-in-law is a mother-in-law after all, and she is still dignified and intimidating when facing her daughter-in-law. This is normal. But they are both women, so why bother to embarrass the other party? Nowadays, many girls born in the 90s, after choosing to get married, maintain a distant relationship with their mother-in-law, which is also very good. After all, they are not of the same generation, and they cannot live together after all. They have different habits in all aspects, and being together will inevitably cause disputes.
For celebrities, this is even more true. Their relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also difficult to handle. When you meet a woman with high emotional intelligence, luckily, as long as the mother-in-law is not so strong, the family can still live happily. But when you meet a strong mother-in-law, you are in the entertainment industry, so you are inevitably young and will not make mistakes. When you get married, you will only be caught by your mother-in-law, and then you will be looked down upon for the rest of your life. If you get along with such a mother-in-law, your life will be easier. Already?
I think back then, when Cecilia Cheung and Nicholas Tse were together, they were called the "golden boy and girl" by many people, and they were a couple that was highly regarded by the public. At the beginning, the relationship between Cecilia Cheung, Faye Wong, and Nicholas Tse was really messy. Nicholas Tse was always going around in circles between these two female artists, leaving the public stunned. What on earth is going on? After all, the relationship between three people is now people's "dessert". The relationship between men and women in the entertainment industry is really messy, because you don't know who will be with whom tomorrow.
Cecilia Cheung was born in Hong Kong in 1980. Her mother had been married before she married her father. She was born after her mother and father re-established a family. When she was 9 years old, her parents divorced. Facing such a family as a child has a great impact on the child's heart. Although many parents cannot see it, this is real. As long as you observe carefully, especially adolescent children, they are more rebellious.
The marriage of her parents also led to Cecilia Cheung's future rebellion and paved the way for the breakdown of her family. Who doesn’t make some mistakes when they are young? But for girls, some mistakes will cause lifelong pain once they are made. How many people, in middle age or old age, will feel like they are being pricked with needles when they mention the past that they cannot look back on. Cecilia Cheung has loved singing since she was a child. The departure of her parents gave her some comfort in music, and she often participated in class performances.
This also gave her some temperament. She even studied in Australia. Her pure beauty and unique temperament were noticed by Stephen Chow. She was also asked to star in her own movie "The King of Comedy", and she was also well-known to the audience from this drama. She was at the peak of her debut. After the release of this work, not only did the box office in Hong Kong reach 29.84 million Hong Kong dollars, it even made her Won the Academy Award for Best Newcomer. With such a peak, her career is not worried about development and she is moving forward.
She has a relatively smooth career, but she has experienced countless ups and downs emotionally. It must have something to do with her parents' marriage. This is undeniable. Nowadays, there are many children from single-parent families. Some of them are afraid of getting married and are disgusted with getting married. Although they don't express it verbally, it is always a difficult hurdle in their hearts.
On June 14, 2000, the relationship between Cecilia Cheung and Chen Xiaodong was exposed. The two dated in a restaurant, then drove away with their hands clasped and were photographed. Isn’t that what couples are like these days? This is true especially when they are in love, but because of their celebrity status, they have to pay more attention to their image. This relationship didn't last long, and it was revealed that the two had to break up due to work reasons, and they often spent less time together and more time apart.
After her first relationship failed, Cecilia Cheung met Nicholas Tse. The two have been separated and reunited until August 2006, when they entered the palace of marriage. At that time, they envied countless others. It is said that when the two wanted to get married, Cecilia Cheung's ex-mother-in-law Deborah had always disagreed. On the one hand, Cecilia Cheung's family was in chaos, and on the other hand, she disliked her status as an actress. Besides, who doesn’t know how deep the water in the entertainment industry is? Girls in particular go through so many things.
Although her mother-in-law had always opposed it, she could not resist her son's request, and in the end she could only reluctantly agree. But after the two got married, father-in-law Xie Xian always liked his daughter-in-law, but her mother-in-law never recognized her and always hated Cecilia Cheung. Why is this? Deborah also said the reason, which is actually very simple. Deborah said: "In fact, I don't like her at all. When I registered my marriage with Nicholas Tse, she didn't even notify me. It was so ignorant."
No one knows whether this is true or not, but from this sentence, it can be seen that Deborah is somewhat angry. After all, the child he had worked so hard to raise was finally snatched away by another woman. What mother-in-law could be happy about it? The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not a family to begin with, and the mother-in-law has no nurturing grace. Naturally, a small mistake can lead to resentment. Isn't this a true reflection of many mothers-in-law?
Later, after Cecilia Cheung gave birth to two sons for the Xie family, the relationship between the two eased somewhat. But the mother-in-law has always been resentful in her heart, otherwise how could she get divorced in the end? This mother-in-law is relatively strong and difficult to deal with. No matter how much my father-in-law likes her, he can't change her mind. After finally giving birth to two sons, she was able to gain some peace, but when photos of her unbearable past were widely circulated, her mother-in-law took the opportunity to divorce them.
My mother-in-law dislikes Cecilia Cheung, but she likes Faye Wong very much. Everyone has their own preferences, and no one can change the other's mind. Now that she has been divorced for 8 years, her mother-in-law will no longer speak ill of Cecilia Cheung when speaking to the media. Instead, she says: Cecilia Cheung is a good mother. Perhaps it was because she saw that Cecilia Cheung had raised two children by herself, and it was not easy. After the two divorced, she changed her mind.
For Cecilia Cheung, the most difficult relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has long since ended. As for the former mother-in-law Deborah, I wonder if she has any regrets. At that time, she made things difficult for Cecilia Cheung in every possible way and even asked them to divorce? However, judging from the current situation, as a mother-in-law, Deborah also thinks that Faye Wong is very good, and it is normal that someone will always take her predecessor's place.
After all, things turn around, and when you gain one part, you will eventually lose another part. What we have to do is to cherish our family within a limited time. This is especially necessary between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. After all, everyone is born equal, and no one is superior to anyone else.