There is a saying that goes well: "Home is the best place for spiritual practice."
The ancients said: "If you marry into the same family, you will prosper for three generations; if you marry into the wrong family, your family will be prosperous." Destroy the roots of nine generations. "
A good woman is the soul of a family. A woman's happiness depends on her own management, a good body and a strong heart. Lu Yanni has a low origin but a good ending
Speaking of Lu Yanni, most people may be a little unfamiliar with her name. But speaking of Guo Jingjing’s husband Huo Qigang, perhaps everyone is familiar with it.
And Huo Qigang is Lu Yanni’s grandson. Lu Yanni's birth was not very good, she was just the eldest daughter of Huo Yingdong's neighbor.
Lu Yanni and Huo Yingdong can be said to be wives in need. When she married into the Huo family in the 1940s, Huo Yingdong had not yet made a fortune, and Lu Yanni was very popular with Huo's mother and husband. Huo Yingdong's first wife.
After Lu Yanni married into the Huo family, the Huo family began to have good luck. At that time, Huo Yingdong was engaged in the maritime barge business. The change in his life was the emergence of two opportunities. First, the Korean War caused an extreme shortage of supplies, so he began to deliver supplies to the mainland. The second time was that Hong Kong was pioneering the sale of off-the-plan properties. From then on, it became A generation of real estate kings.
It must be said that Lu Yanni married Huo Yingdong when she was less than 20 years old. When Huo Yingdong was in poverty, she stayed with her husband. When Huo Yingdong was prosperous, she was still the most important person around Huo Yingdong.
Perhaps, it is precisely because of this that although Huo Yingdong later married the second and third wives, in the Huo family, the status of Huo Yingdong's second and third wives will be much lower than that of Lu Yanni, who is the eldest. It can even be said that Lu Yanni has been suppressing the second and third families throughout her life.
On September 1, 2020, Lu Yanni passed away at the Sanatorium and Hospital at the age of 97. It can be regarded as the end of life. From Lu Yanni's life, we can see that she was a woman with great wisdom. It is because of her that Huo Yingdong was able to be so successful. People are mortal. Although Lu Yanni's death is very sad, she This life can be considered to be very satisfactory. Li Wanhua has a good hand but plays badly
Speaking of Li Wanhua, he is also a well-known figure. Born in 1924 into a prominent lawyer family in Macau, she was the first wife of the Macau gambling king, Portuguese, and married Stanley Ho in 1942.
Li Wanhua was born into a prominent Portuguese family. My father was a lawyer in Macau and the only local notary. He owned many properties in Macau and Portugal. His ancestors had been high-ranking officials in Portugal. When the gambling king was 20 years old, he moved from Hong Kong to Macau to work in the "CIMB" company. Because of his work, he met Li Wanhua's eldest brother-in-law and met her for the first time. The gambling king immediately launched a fierce pursuit. He Chaoxian said: "In order to pursue my mother, my father went to learn Portuguese specifically. Every day when my mother was out of school, he rode his bicycle to the Shanshui Garden where my mother lived for a date, and then asked her to have tea with her after work."
Gamble. Wang learned to speak Portuguese through his association with Lai Wanhua, who helped him start his business in Macau.
In the first year after his marriage, Stanley Ho successfully earned his first pot of one million, paving the way for him to become the overlord of the gambling world in the future (1962). However, although the gambling king had good luck, Li Wanhua was unlucky. In 1957, Li Wanhua suddenly suffered from colitis, which could not be cured even after seeking famous doctors. In addition, it caused other complications, so she had to have her stomach removed. She took medicine for a long time and could only eat liquid food. Her weight dropped from 52 kilograms to about 31 kilograms.
Later, Li Wanhua encountered a major ups and downs in life.
In 1973, Li Wanhua was involved in a car accident in Portugal. Her brain was severely injured and she was in a coma for a whole month. Her health condition became even worse. The third daughter Chaoxian recalled: "When my mother woke up, she had lost most of her memory. She couldn't eat for a long time and it was difficult to move."
Misfortunes never come singly. Eight years later, this tragedy happened to her only son Youguang. It happened again with my daughter-in-law. In June 1981, the two had just finished dinner at their father Stanley Ho's residence in Portugal when an accident occurred on their way back to their home. The gambling king was extremely sad, and Li Wanhua, who had always regarded his son as his lifeblood, suffered an even greater blow.
On February 21, 2004, Li Wanhua passed away at the age of 80. On February 25, Stanley Ho held a grand funeral for her, and her funeral was quite grand.
Chief Executive of the Macao SAR, Deputy Director of the Liaison Office of the Central People's Government, Secretary for Administration and Justice, Secretary for Security Zhang Guohua, members of the Standing Committee of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference Wu Fu and Yang Junwen, as well as celebrities from Hong Kong and Macao, representatives of the Macao Portuguese community and social welfare service groups, Macao Nearly a thousand people including relevant persons in charge of the entertainment subsidiaries expressed their condolences. Ending
In my opinion, Li Wanhua and Lu Yanni, who were originally the first wives, had two different life endings. Although Lv Yanni was born from a low background, her life can be said to be very successful through her single-handed management. On the other hand, Li Wanhua, although she was born into a wealthy family, did not know how to manage the family after marriage. In the end, it can be said that she suffered many hardships and had a dismal ending.
So it is obviously true to say that home is the best place for spiritual practice.