There are two ways to say that you can't spend the New Year at your mother's house. First, if your married daughter goes back to her mother's house for the New Year, she will think that she has violated the Feng Shui taboo of eating grass back, and she will eat poor. Second, during the Spring Festival, every family needs to respect ghosts and gods. If a woman goes back to her mother's house for the New Year, it will also have a bad influence when she worships ghosts and gods. Because the married woman is already someone else's family, and when she respects ghosts and gods, her family respects her own ghosts and gods, which has nothing to do with this woman. This situation will generally affect her family's fortune for a whole year and should be avoided.
What is the saying of going back to your mother's house on New Year's Eve?
"Married daughter, spilled water" used to think that her daughter was married by someone else. If their daughter returns to her parents' home on New Year's Eve, their families will encounter all kinds of disasters in the new year. Of course, the custom that their daughter can't go back to her parents' house on New Year's Eve is now completely superstitious. Now this custom is rare, and many people will go back to their parents' homes with their husbands on New Year's Eve.
When can I go back to her home during the Spring Festival?
According to traditional customs, many areas in China think it is more appropriate to go back on the second day of the first lunar month. On this day, the daughter and son-in-law will bring gifts back to the woman's house, which embodies the concept of equality between men and women. At this time, it is the son-in-law who pays New Year greetings to his parents-in-law. Folk believe that a married daughter can't go back to the house on the first day of the first year, and going back to the house will eat the family poor, so she can only go back on the second day of the second year.
What should a married daughter pay attention to when she goes back to her mother's house?
1, don't go back to your mother's house on the first day of the first month.
On the first day of the first month, it is not recommended to go back to her parents' house. This is a day of family reunion. In many customs, a married daughter can't go back to her parents' home on this day. Many people think that a married daughter should spend the New Year at her mother-in-law's house, not at her parents' house. Generally speaking, she should go back to her parents' home the next day. It is generally recommended that she go back to her parents' home the next day, because the daughter who got married in the New Year has to work at her mother-in-law's house, and the New Year itself is tired, so it is more appropriate to go back to her parents' home the next day.
2, be careful not to touch the pot spoon
There are a lot of folk sayings, many of which are feudal superstitions, without much scientific basis, but they have been circulating among the people for a long time, and their meanings are not very good. Although these are false, they will feel uncomfortable to listen to, so it is better for a married daughter to follow these customs when she goes back to her mother's house.
Don't go back to your mother's house on the fifteenth day of the first month.
The fifteenth day of the first month is also an important reunion day. Daughter-in-law needs to spend the New Year together at her mother-in-law's house. It's better to go back to my parents' home on the 16th day of the first month, so I can take care of two families, and my morality is good.