1. Only when rewards and punishments are clear, will you be willing to work hard. -"Yin Hui Family Instructions"
The principle of rewards and punishments is clear, and everyone can do things with peace of mind.
2. A gentleman can't hold himself lightly, but things can tickle me lightly, and there is no leisurely interest; -Hong Yingming's "Caigen Tan"
A gentleman should not treat others lightly. Frivolity will bother him, and he will lose his leisure and tranquility.
3. A person's only heart begins with thinking. Thinking about right and wrong is only a moment. -Kangxi's Courtyard Motto
People only have one heart, and when they start thinking, they will have ideas, and the correctness of ideas is only a moment.
It's unusual, but it's because of elegance that Apollo is popular. -Yao Shunmu's medicine words
If you don't stand out on weekdays, you can be unique in the tide of the sea of people, don't go with the flow, and maintain your elegant integrity.
5. The mountain slides to softness, and the stone wears it; Scorpions are weak and harmful to trees. Study hard by Kong Zang
The water in the mountains is very supple, but stones can be penetrated by it. Scorpions are very weak, but they can rot wood.
6. It is enough to be respectful and courteous. -Zhang Huan's Book of Commandments for Brothers and Children
You should advocate respecting the old and loving the young, and discipline yourself with etiquette.
7. If you lose your way, people will be miserable. If you get their feelings, you will be sad and unhappy. -Jia Changchao's "Disciples"
If the ruler turns his back on virtue and loses his way, then more and more people will alienate him. If you know their situation, you should sympathize with them, not gloat.
8. You can't work hard if you are slow, and you can't make progress if you are dangerous. -Zhuge Liang's Ten Commandments
Loose indulgence can't cheer up, impatience, and adventure can't cultivate sentiment.
9. It is necessary to be kind to neighbors in peacetime, and some scholars usually abuse official power to mistreat neighbors. -Yuan Cai's "Yuan Fanshi"
When you get along with your neighbors, you should be able to do a good job in neighborhood relations and pay attention to friendliness. There are always some literati who use their power to harm their neighbors. This is not desirable.
10. May my children miss their fathers and brothers, make no friends, and beg for food and clothing; Don't go to war, be a coward, and don't be an arrow and Ding Yi. -Lu Xiangsheng's "Training Children" hopes that my children and relatives will think more about what my father and brother have done, follow their example, don't specialize in socializing and making friends, don't be greedy for happiness, don't act rashly, and don't stick to etiquette. Don't just pay attention to martial arts, but also to literature.