Home, a warm word, was born at home and grew up at home. When we were young, our home was there. When I grew up, I formed my own small family. My home is where my lover
Home, a warm word, was born at home and grew up at home. When we were young, our home was there. When I grew up, I formed my own small family. My home is where my lover is. Home, which runs through a person's life, is a shelter from the wind and rain, a harbor where the soul stops, and has great significance and influence on people. How can it be home? Love is home, and peace is the most important.
Nowadays, young people usually buy a house when they get married and don't live with their parents. What do you want to eat, what do you want to buy, what time do you go to bed and get up? According to their own habits, as long as two people are good, they can say anything. However, when they have children, some families will choose to take care of the children full-time, and most families may just invite the elderly to help with their grandchildren. There are many trivial matters at home, and it is inevitable that two generations will disagree. It is not surprising that they all think they are right and don't give in to each other.
It is difficult for an honest official to break housework. Is that clear? What should I do if I can't explain clearly? Keep making trouble? Of course not.
In fact, there is a very effective and simple principle: who controls who. By the same token, whoever is the mother of the child is responsible for raising the child. If young people and old people can't get to know each other in these two articles, the quarrel will never stop. How to solve it? Find your own way!
Married, married right away, husband and wife are adults, no longer children, you should have the responsibility of adults, don't be a trifle, run back and let your parents make up their minds, the marriage is yours, the couple have something to discuss together, don't bother their parents easily, childish, you have nothing to do, the more people intervene, the greater your bad blood will be, and whose fault will it be in the end. The children provoked whoever they recruited, and the good family toss was gone. Adults can start over. As for children, it is a sin to lack parents or mothers, or even leave children to the elderly. It is easier to fall in love than to be together. Once entering the marriage hall, both husband and wife should take care of their own body and mind to protect this marriage, and don't let any external force and temptation destroy the sacred marriage.
Home is not only a house, but also a place full of love. You can be neither luxurious nor rich, and you can have no food, but you must have a sense of security and belonging. No matter how far I go, I always worry about a place called home, and I am willing to go home as soon as I get off work, just to see my family as soon as possible.
I have read many articles about family feng shui, and there are all kinds of problems and taboos. For example, don't have too many mirrors in the room, especially not facing the bed. Sofa, coffee table, TV cabinet can not be completely against the wall, must leave a certain gap; The living room should be properly decorated with green radish to gather wealth, the kitchen should be well protected from moisture, and the decoration color should not be too bright or too dark ... and so on.
The existence of a science must have its truth and value, and it must also have its basis. Without careful study, I won't make too many comments.
According to my understanding of family geomantic omen, the home must be clean and tidy, the placement and color matching of goods should be pleasing to the eye, the ventilation and lighting should be good, the sanitary dead angle should be reduced, the broken things should be repaired or replaced as soon as possible, the shopping should be planned, and all kinds of useless things should not be hoarded.
The most important thing is the relationship between family members, which requires intimacy and a sense of boundaries, mutual respect, understanding and support.
Adjust your mood and come in with a smile after work every day. Don't look unhappy to the people who come back.
If you have something to say, don't accuse and ridicule, or even escalate it to abuse. Your mother's uncle covers a wide range, so just do it if you don't want to.
Although everyone has a different division of labor, they all have a common goal: to make our home better and better. No one's efforts are cheap and natural. Please don't go home to be an uncle. You won't even hold the oil bottle when it falls down. This is also your home. Do housework and take care of children when you have time. It's not as easy as you think.
Please don't leave your good temper to outsiders, but bring your bad temper to your family. Your final destination is home. Without home, you are a person after all, and it has nothing to do with the warmth of other people's homes.
Treat your other half well, because TA is worth it, treat TA's parents well, because TA can feel your kindness and be good to your parents.
Life and death are generous, and Zi Cheng says. Hold your hand and grow old with your son. Cherish the other half, build a warm and harmonious family, be kind to both parents and cultivate good children.
This is the best feng shui for a family.