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Fan, a composition student with family rules and instructions.
Family precepts headed by Bai Deshan have been passed down from generation to generation.
Traditional families in China attach great importance to family education, family style and family rules. China culture has a long history, and the Confucian thought of "home is the world" is deeply rooted in people's hearts. "Home is a small country, and the country is everyone", and the family is the epitome of the social country. Family traditions and family precepts handed down from generation to generation are indispensable carriers of Chinese culture. The well-known Kong family, which has been passed down for more than two thousand years, is flourishing. It is precisely because of its unified genealogy and strict family rules that it can form a strong cohesion. Not only prominent families attach importance to family style and family instruction, but the family style, family rules and family education of traditional ordinary families in China are mostly "passed down" through word of mouth. Although they have not been written into books or engraved into monuments, they are still deeply imprinted in the character of every family member and their descendants.
In traditional families in China, the quality of family education is not necessarily related to the level of education. On the contrary, poor parents who lack knowledge often educate well-behaved offspring. Stories like "It's snowing at the door" and "Three Movements in Meng Mu" are examples of poor families.
Due to the limitation of the times, most of our parents and grandparents have no chance to receive education, and many older people don't even know Chinese characters. But when I was a child, my neighborhood was harmonious and my family was harmonious. I don't know why, so I asked grandpa. He called me "doing good deeds and accumulating virtue". People live in this world and must not do evil. With good ideas, everything can go smoothly. I didn't understand it at that time, but the word "good" was quietly hidden in my heart.
When I grow up, I seldom go home because I have been studying abroad for a long time. My parents often call me home and tell me that "filial piety comes first". Grandparents are old, so I should let them work and study outside with peace of mind, and not let the old people stay at home alone.
Time flies, and now I have graduated and started my own family. As a member of the family, I deeply realize that everyone in the family is responsible for it. Family is like human body, everyone is a very important organ, with both division of labor and cooperation; Not only opinions need to be independent, but also communication and coordination. Therefore, "harmony is precious" in the family. Whether it is a family, a community or a company, harmony can make Qi Xin work together.
Times are changing, technology is progressing, and people's lives are changing with each passing day. However, what remains unchanged is our heritage culture. As the saying goes, "Everything is the mainstay, and thousands of people respect it. People cultivate all trades, and the virtues are the first. The virtues are the first, and the filial piety of all virtues is the first. The filial piety of all virtues is like water, soft and speechless." According to my own experience, I summed it up as "kindness comes first, filial piety comes first, and harmony comes first". Although these three sentences are brief, they are the foundation of a prosperous family. I hope this family style and family precepts will last forever in my heart and be passed down from generation to generation.
Fan, a composition student with family rules and instructions.
Filial piety keeps fragrance for family style forever.
Family style is an invisible educational force. Good family style is the accumulation and inheritance of good quality in the family, and it is a valuable spiritual wealth left by the family to each member. Every family has its own family style, but no matter which one, it affects family members invisibly, affects children's hearts, shapes children's personality and benefits children for life.
My family style should be the word "filial piety", especially the filial piety of my parents, which has benefited me a lot. Take my dad for example, because there are fewer and fewer people in the countryside and the conditions are not good. Dad didn't want grandma to stay in her hometown, so grandma reluctantly moved in with our family. But after all, this is just dad's idea, and grandma doesn't agree. Grandma is an honest rural person. She likes to stay in the country, plow the fields, remove weeds, and occasionally play mahjong with her neighbors and friends, so grandma always asks her father to take her back to her hometown. But dad also knows that grandma always has to work when she goes back. Grandma is old and her legs and feet are inconvenient. What if she hurts herself at work? So dad never agreed, so grandma was angry with dad. In fact, as an "outsider", I can see it clearly. Grandma doesn't worry about the farm at home, and always wants to work. This is her diligence and simplicity. Dad doesn't want to see grandma tired, worried about grandma's health and afraid of getting hurt. This is his filial piety.
So is my mother. Although grandma's house is far from where we live, my mother always goes back to visit her. Even if it takes more than three hours by car, I still insist on going back to my grandmother's house at least once a week. Although grandma has always said that she doesn't need her mother to come often, her mother is still the same. Because my mother knows that my grandmother still wants her to go back, and she wants to be filial to her. My mother often tells me stories about her and her grandmother. Sometimes I can clearly see that my mother's eyes are blurred by tears of missing. What is revealed in the moist eyes is the yearning for grandma and filial piety to grandma. Parents are invisible forces that shape children, and they influence the formation of children's world outlook. Because of this, my brother and I also realized the family style-"filial piety."
At first, I didn't find my filial piety to my elders. Later, I gradually found that my brother and I do more things every day. From waiting for meals in the past to now, I not only serve my own meals, but also my parents and grandmother. I used to let my parents hold everything, and then I offered to help my parents with things; In the past, when eating, I only cared about myself, and then I would let my parents taste delicious food first, and then I would eat it myself ... In this way, under the example of my parents, my brother and I inherited the family style of "filial piety" well, which filled our home with the word "filial piety" and made me internalize it in my heart and externalize it in my line.
This is the family style of my family-filial piety. It's like a rich textbook. Do not need the guidance of teachers, do not need to write it down deliberately, do not appear in the school building, do not appear in the students' notes. But it always teaches children how to be a man and how to do things, so that we can succeed under the guidance of family style and pass it on from generation to generation.
Fan Wensan, a composition student with family rules and regulations.
The happiness of helping others.
Family style refers to the customs and habits at home. Every good family must have a good family style in order to achieve a better family. On the Mid-Autumn Festival, families are invited to get together to enjoy the moon and eat moon cakes. During the Spring Festival, the family will have a reunion dinner together and then go downstairs to set off fireworks. Dragon Boat Festival will be a dragon boat specimen ... My family style is wonderful, and my family style story is even more wonderful.
On New Year's Eve, my family walked home after visiting the temple fair. At a crossroads, we saw a cleaner cleaning up the rubbish in the street. At that time, we didn't pay attention until my sister shouted, "Look, sister, there is a little sister on the garbage truck!" " I followed my sister's finger, and there really was a little girl!
I pulled my mother over, and the little girl watched us go over and curled up, with big watery eyes secretly watching us. Mother reached out and touched her head. "Don't be afraid, we are not bad people. What about your mother? " The little girl hesitated and pointed to the cleaner sweeping the floor.
My mother and I walked beside her. My mother talked to her for a few minutes before she realized that she shouldn't go to work today. But because it's New Year's Eve, someone will set off firecrackers, so she volunteered to be on duty and just left her children at home. She was not at ease, so she took them to work together. Hearing this, my heart was sour. If firecrackers are reduced, can these workers have a good reunion year with their families without working overtime?
"Aunt, you have a holiday today. Please bring your daughter to our home to celebrate the New Year with us. " What I blurted out surprised my aunt's face, and my mother's face on the side also showed a gratified smile.
On New Year's Eve that year, our family broke the custom of setting off firecrackers every year, but made a good friend and harvested the bright smiles of two strangers. Sometimes helping others may make others happy, so why not do it?
This is my family story.
Fan, a composition student with family rules and instructions.
Be optimistic and strong in the face of difficulties
A good family style is the first step for us to create a better world, which affects a person's life trend. The tattoo moved from Meng Mu to her mother-in-law, with good family instructions, family rules and family style, not only carries the ancestors' expectations for future generations, but also spurs future generations, and also embodies the fine national style of the Chinese nation.
Be optimistic and strong in the face of difficulties.
My parents are farmers to the core. Although they don't have a high cultural level and clear family rules, they set an example in their daily life and formed an invisible moral force, which constantly guided me. Dad is simple and hardworking, loves reading, and tells us stories in his spare time. My mother is honest, kind and thrifty. She likes singing and often sings to us. Although the family was poor before, there were always songs and laughter in our dilapidated yard, which made those hard years very happy. Whenever our three brothers and sisters encounter difficulties, my mother always says, "persistence is victory!" " "Dad often shows male chauvinism:" Self-reliance and hard work. "Looking back, there is no impression of hardship and embarrassment in those years, leaving only a sunny and positive smiling face of the family and a beautiful picture of unity and forge ahead.
Spring breeze melts rain, learn to take responsibility.
When I was a child, my neighbor's pumpkin vine once climbed into my cotton field and wrapped around my cotton branches. It is aggressive, and it has failed to stop it from blossoming and bearing fruit after many twists and turns, and it is very domineering. After I found it, I wanted to pull it away, but because I was too weak to drag the vine, I simply took its pumpkin home and proudly showed off to everyone: "Let it climb again, and the melon will be ours in the future." At this time, my father saw it. He didn't scold me, but told me the story of "Don't do evil, don't do good". After the story was finished, I blushed and stood there at a loss. Dad, it is true that no matter how harmonious the environment is, there will be waves, and no matter how vigorous the growth is, there will be side branches. Remember when I asked me if you knew what to do? I thought about it and said, "I will bear what I did, and I apologize."
That's how my father taught me to be a man. His short stories always remind me of some profound truths about being a man. These simple truths have become my life creed, which makes me walk more steadily on the road of life.
Parents use their own actions to guide our three brothers and sisters to be human beings and inherit the spiritual light precipitated in those years! I hope that our wind energy will be passed down from generation to generation, and finally realize the four goals of happiness: harmony, civilization, health and prosperity.
Fan, a composition student with family rules and instructions.
Because of honesty and beauty.
The family is the nursery and the children are the seedlings. The family wind is like raindrops, which sneak into the night with the wind and moisten things silently. Only under the nourishment of rain and dew can they grow up healthily; Children can thrive only under the influence of a good family style.
When I was very young, my father told me to be honest. Once, I ate junk food on my way home. When I got home, my father asked me if I ate spicy strips. I lied and said, "No!" ""Then why do you have Chili oil in your mouth? Take a deep breath and let me smell it. "I know I can't hide it this time, so I have to admit that my father taught me earnestly:" Be honest. If everyone tells lies and cheats each other, the world will be terrible, and an honest man will be trusted and relied on by others. "I was ashamed after hearing this, and I never lied again.
My mother told me to be honest and trustworthy with practical actions. My mother promised me that she would take me to the zoo as long as I behaved well every day and helped my mother with the housework. When I was a child, my family was poor, and going to the zoo was such a happy thing, so I tried my best to please my mother. But my mother suddenly found a job and went to work every day, which completely lost my excitement. The next day, after my mother left, my heart suddenly fell into the water tank like the twelfth lunar month in winter-my heart was half cold. At noon, my mother's voices "Lu Li" and "Lu Li" came from outside the door. I ran three steps at a time and threw myself into my mother's arms. My mother accompanied me for a short lunch break and had a good time. From my mother, I understand what is trustworthy.
Honesty and trustworthiness are my parents' requirements for me since I was a child, and they have done the same themselves. Now I am often praised by my teachers and trusted by my friends because I am honest and trustworthy. I hope that honesty and trustworthiness will continue, and I hope that everyone will be honest and trustworthy to make this society more sincere and beautiful.
Fan, a composition student with family rules and instructions.
My family style-respect for elders
Family education is the most important education in a child's life. Good family style education is related to the healthy growth of a child and even the whole family. Shaping a good family style is equivalent to shaping the upbringing of the whole family.
My parents told me from an early age to respect my elders and teachers. In these eight words, the development of Chinese national culture is included. There are too many stories in my family education.
I was only nine years old at that time, and I was still a child who knew nothing. One day, some guests came to my house, and my mother said to me, "Your father invited his colleagues to dinner! Don't run around in the living room, it will make your elders feel that you are ignorant, and you should respect your elders. " I am indignant in my heart: Why? Anyway, it's my home. I'll go! I just strolled around the living room, and then I went too far. My father frowned and turned to say, "Go play first." I came to my bedroom in surprise. After a meeting, my father sent my colleague away and came to me with a straight face: "Didn't I tell you to respect your elders before?" Respecting the elderly is a tradition of our Chinese nation and must be carried forward! "Since then, I have re-recognized the meaningful word" respect for the elderly ".
Another time, my parents and I went back to my grandmother's house. Mom bought a lot of nutrients and some biscuits for grandma! Bread, I think: why buy so many things for grandma? At that time, I asked my grandmother childishly, "Grandma, can you finish eating?" Grandma said awkwardly, "Why don't you take more!" I said, "well, well, I like that bread and that biscuit!" " "My mother patted me and said," This is for your grandmother. How can I eat it? "When I got home, my mother told me earnestly," Your grandmother is old and in poor health. You must be more filial to your grandmother. You've been watching TV and haven't seen that advertisement? "All virtues are filial piety first, and we must honor our elders and not regret it." Since then, I have thoroughly understood the significance of honoring my elders.
A good family style is the most precious spiritual wealth of a family, and it is also a magic weapon for a family to be happy, harmonious and prosperous. We should pass on the excellent family style for a long time. Let the traditional culture of China continue!
Fan, a composition student with family rules and instructions.
Liang, a famous contemporary writer, once said: "The best family style must be the family style with a reading tradition. In a family, if everyone likes reading and thinking, then these good qualities of kindness, honesty and filial piety will naturally appear in their next generation. " Books occupy an important position in our family. Whether my parents or I, we all like books, and we all like reading.
Mom is a teacher. When I was very young, she bought me many books, including spelling books, drawing books, literacy books and pop-up book ... Every night before going to bed, she would tell me stories.
Dad is a book fan. Since I was sensible, he often told me: read more books, read useful books, and calm down and read. At home, whenever he is free, he will sit on the sofa with a book and read it with relish. Watching, sometimes he will suddenly clap his hands and laugh; Sometimes I frown, as if thinking about something; Sometimes I stare at the book approvingly and circle with strokes. Dad often chats with me about books. Every time he sees an interesting story, he tells it to me. In the fourth grade summer vacation, I was not particularly interested in historical stories. He accompanied me when I was reading the classic Romance of the Three Kingdoms. Every day, he takes time to talk to me about the contents and characters in the book, and sometimes he tells me some characters and historical stories that are not involved in this book. I fell in love with this famous book in Chat with my father.
Under the influence of my parents, I gradually became an out-and-out book fan. I am proud that our family has a good family style of reading, and I believe that my growth path will be more perfect and wonderful with books.
Fan Wenba, a composition student with family rules and regulations.
In our countryside, parents have high expectations of us. They all want their children to make a fortune, and their women are phoenix nirvana. Only when they study hard now and grow up can they get good grades and become useful talents in modern society and future society. But every family has a different way of education.
Like my house! Although there are no highly educated people in my family, and even my descendants have not been admitted to the university for three generations, I still let my mother get a good education and become a sensible and obedient boy in the eyes of relatives and friends. I am a good boy now because of my parents, including all my credit for cooperating with my parents. Although my parents are farmers, at least in my heart they are perfect. Everything my parents gave me is more precious than those precious treasures. These things can't be bought with money. When I know, my parents often educate me, and even every time I do something, I get a lot of knowledge that is not available in textbooks. I was taught to be polite, to be hygienic, not to swear, and the most important thing is to be an upright person and a real person ... although I have heard these words countless times,
If relatives and friends come to our home, my parents always ask me to bring tea and water, and that's not all! They also asked me to say hello. If it is a guest I am not familiar with, I will take the initiative to ask his name. If I want to borrow something, I will definitely go. They also said that they should cultivate my autonomous ability and language organization ability, so that even if I encounter any difficulties in a strange environment, I will not be helpless.
Some time ago, my mother told me something that would affect my future life: I don't necessarily want you to be a talented person. Only by knowing some knowledge will you not fall behind when you grow up. Be a man! You must be a real person. You must not cheat in life, and you must not violate your conscience. Even if you grow into a talented person, but you don't know how to respect others, then others won't respect you. It is harmless to know some manners.
After listening to my mother's earnest words, I reflected on myself and vowed to be a real person when I grow up, a person who will be respected and respected.
Fan Wenjiu, a composition student with family rules and regulations.
Things in the world, like running water, are flowing, not frozen in your hands. People should know how to be charitable and use things where they are needed or useful, instead of thinking about their own interests. My mother is a charitable person.
I have a particularly beautiful bike, which my mother bought for me when I was in the second grade. However, with the gradual decrease of my time out, my bike has been quietly parked in that corner, even covered with dust. One day in fifth grade, I came home and found my bike missing. Did it run away with its long feet?
"Your bike, um ... gave it to the neighbor Xiaojun's daughter. Because she just needs to buy a bicycle, and you are too old to ride, give it to her to make it more useful. " Mom said with a smile. I am very unhappy in my heart, and there are many people who are not convinced and blame my mother. Mom didn't speak, looked at me quietly, and then smiled: "I will ask your permission before making a decision in the future. I'm sorry this time." Her eyes are like a deep pool, shining and bright. I don't speak in silence.
"Hee hee hee ... hahaha, you come after me." A burst of laughter drifted in from the window. I am curious. I looked out of the window, and it turned out that Xiaojun's daughter, the neighbor opposite, was riding my bike and playing happily in the community. A group of children are having a good time! Seeing this scene, my heart felt like a heavy hammer. The bicycle that I left out for so long can bring so much fun to others! I seem to understand my mother's intention in an instant! Giving things we don't use to people who need them can make others happy, and we are also very happy. Is this charity? That's great.
Family instruction, family style, family rules, composition, student model
Every family has a family style, and my family is no exception. When I am confused and smart, my father often teaches me: "You have to be honest with others, and others will be honest with you." I think honesty-it should be our family style.
Dad is a surgeon, and it is his job to see patients, prescribe medicines and perform operations. The operation is full every day, and it is often very hard to go home for dinner at 8 o'clock in the evening. I didn't understand at one time, so I said, "It's like this every day. Why are you so serious? Can you fool? " Aren't you tired? Hearing this, my father said to me seriously, "It's your father's job to save lives. Although it is boring, we must take it seriously. Surgery is a big deal for patients. My negligence is 1% for me, but 100% for the patient. Life is too important to be careless. If you don't show it to others, you must live up to your conscience. "Have you ever heard of' no one has seen it, but they know it on purpose'? This is the truth, boy, learn! " I think so too. If I am a patient, I certainly hope the doctor will take me seriously.
I followed my father's example and learned to be honest. My honesty is, as a primary school student, don't tell lies, be practical and diligent, do homework without plagiarism, listen carefully, respect teachers' labor achievements, be sincere to classmates and help each other, so that others will make friends with me. Start from these little things and be a confident, self-reliant and honest person.
This is my family style. It may be too simple, but I think this is the foundation of the country and the foundation of being a man. It taught me the truth of being a man. I will keep it and carry it forward. When I am a father, I will also educate my children to be honest!
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