One; The discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the fuse of marriage breakdown.
I once saw a sentence in a book; "You fall in love with enthusiasm and think you just married a man."
Behind the marriage, there is often a large family standing. The person who calls your daughter-in-law the most is your mother-in-law.
In life, have you ever found that no matter what you do, your mother-in-law may have to say a few words, and she always has her opinions and suggestions.
It is a constraint on your life, and it is also a constraint on your social interaction. There are still requirements for your habits, which sometimes makes people feel suffocated and unacceptable.
In the final analysis, most mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have bad relations. It is not that the mother-in-law is born with a disgusting intestines, nor that the daughter-in-law is too picky, but that they have not found their own position.
Mother-in-law's excessive intervention in the life of young couples failed to understand that the most important relationship in marriage is not the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but the relationship between husband and wife.
Having a mother-in-law who only knows how to control and dislike will become an insurmountable gap between husband and wife. The discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seems insignificant, but it can crush a marriage.
Second; A good mother-in-law is a catalyst for a happy marriage.
Sometimes one good mother-in-law is better than ten good husbands in a family. If this family lives happily, then this mother-in-law is a good mother-in-law.
A netizen shared her daily chat with her mother-in-law, which caused unanimous praise and emotion.
Daughter-in-law asked; "Mom, why do you have to help me every time I quarrel with your son?" Mother-in-law replied; "I don't help you, can I help my son? Stupid mother-in-law helps her son, smart mother-in-law helps her daughter-in-law. Why do you say that? When a girl gets married, she is an outsider to her in-laws and a guest to her parents' home. If you marry your in-laws, you have to get along with your in-laws and this big family. I am also the mother-in-law from my wife. "
Daughter-in-law asked again; "Mom, if I have a problem with you, who do you want your son to go to?"
Mother-in-law replied; "It must be for you. I won't let my son do it for me, because you are the one who will spend his life with him, not me. Only when the family is harmonious can you two form our big family. On the other hand, I really have a problem with you. I embarrassed my son. "
Only the elder mother-in-law knows that marriage belongs to them, and only the good mother-in-law knows how to educate her son and protect her daughter-in-law.
A mother-in-law who knows right from wrong and knows how to love her daughter-in-law is the best feng shui at home.
Third; A good mother-in-law relationship knows how to keep boundaries.
I have read a sentence said by teacher Tu Lei; The way for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along is to treat each other as one of their own.
Fu Seoul once shared her relationship with her mother-in-law. She thinks that to get along with her mother-in-law, she should keep her distance from the beginning.
This distance is not to say that you are not close to your mother-in-law, but to learn to control it within a certain range. The discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the fuse of marriage breakdown.
I once saw a sentence in a book; "You fall in love with enthusiasm and think you just married a man."
Behind the marriage, there is often a large family standing. The person who calls your daughter-in-law the most is your mother-in-law.
In life, have you ever found that no matter what you do, your mother-in-law may have to say a few words, and she always has her opinions and suggestions.
It is a constraint on your life, and it is also a constraint on your social interaction. There are still requirements for your habits, which sometimes makes people feel suffocated and unacceptable.
In the final analysis, most mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have bad relations. It is not that the mother-in-law is born with a disgusting intestines, nor that the daughter-in-law is too picky, but that they have not found their own position.
Mother-in-law's excessive intervention in the life of young couples failed to understand that the most important relationship in marriage is not the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but the relationship between husband and wife.
Having a mother-in-law who only knows how to control and dislike will become an insurmountable gap between husband and wife. The discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seems insignificant, but it can crush a marriage.
Second; A good mother-in-law is a catalyst for a happy marriage.
Sometimes one good mother-in-law is better than ten good husbands in a family. If this family lives happily, then this mother-in-law is a good mother-in-law.
A netizen shared her daily chat with her mother-in-law, which caused unanimous praise and emotion.
Daughter-in-law asked; "Mom, why do you have to help me every time I quarrel with your son?" Mother-in-law replied; "I don't help you, can I help my son? Stupid mother-in-law helps her son, smart mother-in-law helps her daughter-in-law. Why do you say that? When a girl gets married, she is an outsider to her in-laws and a guest to her parents' home. If you marry your in-laws, you have to get along with your in-laws and this big family. I am also the mother-in-law from my wife. "
Daughter-in-law asked again; "Mom, if I have a problem with you, who do you want your son to go to?"
Mother-in-law replied; "It must be for you. I won't let my son do it for me, because you are the one who will spend his life with him, not me. Only when the family is harmonious can you two form our big family. On the other hand, I really have a problem with you. I embarrassed my son. "
Only the elder mother-in-law knows that marriage belongs to them, and only the good mother-in-law knows how to educate her son and protect her daughter-in-law.
A mother-in-law who knows right from wrong and knows how to love her daughter-in-law is the best feng shui at home.
Third; A good mother-in-law relationship knows how to keep boundaries.
I have read a sentence said by teacher Tu Lei; The way for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along is to treat each other as one of their own.
This distance is not to say that you are not close to your mother-in-law, but to learn to control it within a certain range.
A mother-in-law with a sense of boundaries will not be overly attached to her son, nor will she interfere too much in the private life of the young couple. .