First, don't blindly seek quick.
The poor may be eager to get rich overnight by buying lottery tickets, while the rich like to grow steadily on the ground. I believe that no one is not impressed by the method of losing ten pounds in three days or memorizing an English word book in seven days, but you must be wary of anything that claims to be clean, because these so-called shortcuts are a big scam in themselves. The more you yearn for them, the more detours you will take. If you want to achieve something, the first thing to do is to keep the right attitude. If you don't take shortcuts, you will find that you have surpassed 80% of your fellow travelers.
Second, don't care what other people think.
To tell the truth, I used to be a face-saving person, so I accidentally fell down on the road and my face turned red at once. I am afraid that others will laugh at me, but now I gradually understand that we are just a passer-by in other people's lives and there is no need to take ourselves too seriously. The protagonist of other people's lives is himself, and we are just countless people he knows now. One of them made a joke one second, and maybe he will be in Wang Le the next. Everyone is busy. Paying attention to their mobile phones is much higher than paying attention to us, so just relax and be natural, because we are not actors and have no audience.
Third, clear the goal and stick to it.
Some people are not strong inside, not because they are weak in nature, but because they have not found themselves. They are used to looking for identity from others, so it is difficult for them to have a lasting sense of security. Just like some people may look very powerful, but they are actually very smooth since childhood. Both family and study have received a lot of praise, but after entering the society, everyone is the same. When they get less and less praise, they will gradually become very fragile and depressed. This is caused by lack of self. Compared with such people, people who can clearly understand what they want will firmly hold their destiny in their own hands.
Fourth, fearless action.
I'm always afraid to work hard and put all my efforts into it. I had figured out a way out before I started, otherwise I would give up. Are you talking about it? If you hesitate to do something, do it, because life is full of many variables. Some people, some things, you may let go, and you will never meet them in your life. People who love to complain and wait have one thing in common, that is, they like to escape. So, act quickly, because only action can break the unknown fear. Anything you do, you won't be so afraid. If you don't do it, you will be afraid all your life.
Five, quit blx.
At school, I dare not ask myself questions I can't, for fear of causing trouble to others. I finally found a job, but I was afraid of being rejected. Did not dare to communicate with leading colleagues. I'm in love and I'm afraid of losing each other. So I compromised with the girls. We really don't need to live so carefully. People who like you will not leave you easily. People who hate you, it's no use being careful. Put your mind right, many small things, the consequences are not so serious, slow down and don't be so sensitive, you will live more easily and comfortably. Let's act quickly, and let's run to a better self together.