It's all routines. People have many definitions of routines, but most of them mean that someone likes to cheat and form a behavior pattern. Any success is inseparable from wisdom, and any bad thing is inseparable from calculation and routine. Let's see what we're playing.
Playing is the routine 1. Playing routines is generally used to describe well-planned things. Generally speaking, you are calculating people, calculating people.
1, the routine seems to come from a chat record of a man and a woman at first. The woman asked the man to "be more sincere and less routine", and the chat record exploded on the Internet.
2. Routine is the result of painstaking efforts of several generations of martial artists and continuous improvement in actual combat. Practitioners often have to spend years or even decades to understand and comprehend the meaning. Routine pays attention to slowly repairing fine lines.
In the era of cold weapons, the essence of extraction is constantly improved in various actual combat. Practitioners focus on * * * repair and avoid quick fixes. So China's routine is the real essence of Wushu. It is wrong for people who don't know or are not familiar with routines to demonize routines as a gesture. China Wushu is the quintessence of China. Its original intention is not to perform, but to fight and strengthen the body. Routine is the essence of Wushu.
Recently, Xinhua News Agency released five hot words on the Internet in 20 17, which were selected as "Freestyle", "Yi", "Hu", "Pipi Shrimp, Let's Go" and "Tiexin, Laotie" respectively. These hot words not only represent the trend, but also reflect the most concerned events.
4. "Lao Tie" means "good buddy" in Northeast dialect, "plunge into the heart" means that one's inner feelings have been touched, and "plunge into the heart, Lao Tie" means "brother, this incident really touched me (maybe moved or sad)". And "Pipi shrimp, let's go", because it is catchy and vivid, has suddenly become a popular expression pack.
Playing routine 2. People have many definitions of it, but most of them refer to someone who likes cheating and has great practical experience in methods, thus forming a behavior pattern, the so-called "routine".
When this word first became popular on the Internet, I especially liked it, because all kinds of buzzwords about it were very interesting and fun, such as "who took it seriously when the routine was played deeply" and "the farthest way I walked was your routine" and so on. Suitable for chatting with friends.
It was not until it gradually "invaded" every corner of our real life that I began to treat and use it cautiously.
I used to work part-time in a small media company in Australia. The boss is Australian, but the proprietress is from China, so most of the company's business is aimed at China people. My direct leader is the editor-in-chief. She is also a China native who just immigrated a few years ago.
Because I usually have to take care of my studies, I seldom participate in social activities such as company dinners. I basically go back to work to do all kinds of homework and papers, and my communication with my boss is limited to basic work. When I left my job, the "unfamiliar" editor-in-chief earnestly gave me a few words of "advice":
"You this kind of cold temper, don't play routines, is to suffer after returning home. It is barely acceptable in an environment like foreign countries, but not in a complicated workplace relationship in China. "
I nodded puzzled, thanked him and turned away. After I went back, I reflected for a long time. I really didn't do a good job of getting on well with my colleagues and bosses, because I always thought it was a waste of time and energy, and I often held an attitude of "just doing my own job", and I didn't think too much about other aspects.
But maybe it's because I don't have much experience and emotional intelligence. So far, I still don't quite understand how to "play routines". Not only that, but also people who like playing routines very much.
Just like the debate on the latest program "Playing video games with the boss, do you want to release water?". I think the employee who released the water is just playing tricks with the boss. I think the boss will feel very happy if you splash water on him and win the game to show off. By the way, do you think that you are discerning and proficient in interpersonal relationships, and may even increase your chances of promotion?
I think what you want is beautiful. If you have been able to control the winning or losing of the competition, it means that you are actually the actual controller of the competition, and the power is on your side, and the boss who has long been used to controlling the overall situation of the workplace will think that you are insulting Ta's IQ.
Even if you don't feel it once or twice, one day Ta will find out, and then you will be planted in your own routine-self-righteous cleverness.
Playing routine 3. Routine 3 is generally used to describe well-planned things. Generally speaking, it is you who are calculating and calculating people.
The deep routine shows that you are a complex person and like a set of things; Playing routines means playing with your mind, saying that you are calculating and insincere.
The routine seems to come from a chat record of a man and a woman at first. Women ask men to be "more sincere and less routine", and chat records will explode on the Internet.
People who are particularly good at calculation often have these three characteristics.
First, harming others and benefiting themselves-calculating interests
No success can leave wisdom, no bad thing can leave calculation. Wisdom is to find a mutually beneficial and win-win method, the calculation is much simpler, that is, to find the weaknesses of others, use their weaknesses, and let themselves win.
People who are particularly good at calculation often do things that harm others and benefit themselves. As long as they satisfy their own selfish interests, they don't care whether they step on others. What's more, they will do things that do harm to others, and they will also create trouble for others so that others can easily get benefits that they can't get. We must be careful when we find such a person who harms others and benefits others. Better stay away from him.
Second, forgive yourself and blame others-calculate gains and losses.
Lin Bu in the Tang Dynasty said in the book "The Record of Peace of Mind": If you complain about yourself, you will be widowed; Forgive others with the heart of forgiving others, and you will give it all. This sentence tells us that we can make fewer mistakes by demanding ourselves by other people's standards; Forgive others with your own attitude, and you will have more and more friends.
People who are particularly good at calculation often do the opposite and don't care if they are wrong. Anyway, if they make a mistake, they blame it on others. I don't care how many friends I have. Anyway, friends are used. If you make a mistake, you can forgive it. If you can't forgive it, you can put the blame on others. At first, I passed the buck just to feel better. Over time, I really feel that everything is someone else's fault. You must be careful when you find that you forgive yourself and others, and it is the best policy to stay away early.
Third, hide your heart and deceive yourself-calculate friendship
Friendship is easy to meet and hate each other, it is easy to hit it off at first sight, but it is not easy after a long time. What does this sentence mean? It is what the ancients said, "The power of a horse can be known from a distance, and it will be known for a long time."
People who are particularly good at calculation often seem to be close to others, and the result is one face and one back. When needed, clap your chest and call each other brothers. When you are in trouble, you ask for help. Not only did he hide far away, but he even cynically hit people when they were down. There is a cloud in Zengguang Xianwen: "There is wine and meat, brothers and relatives. How can you meet people in an emergency! " It is this kind of person who deceives himself and takes advantage of kindness. After discovering it, he must be careful and had better stay away!